Serious "Work on yourself" myth

[Highfield78]

1. The gym will only work for certain people. Not every dude has the frame to build a muscular body. There is also no gym that can make a 5ft 5 dude 7 inches taller.

2. Improved social skills and morals do not improve dating prospects. Dating is 100% physical. Becoming outgoing makes no difference either. Women would rather chase the attractive withdrawn dude rather than the ugly outgoing dude.

Simples.

 

[Grodd]

No working on yourself for your height face or autism

 

[ToBurble&Pine]

It means work on your personality you inkwell

 

[Highfield78]

No working on yourself for your height face or autism

Height and face are key. As is frame.

Autism has little impact on dating success.

 

[Grodd]

Autism has little impact on dating success.

Cope

 

[Highfield78]

Cope

Nope.

A 6ft 3 dude with a decent frame and facial bone structure is not going to struggle to attract women because he is autistic.

Dating is 100% physical

 

[Grodd]

Nope.

A 6ft 3 dude with a decent frame and facial bone structure is not going to struggle to attract women because he is autistic.

Dating is 100% physical

Autistic Chad likely won't struggle but being autistic and sub5 is a death sentence
@NIGGER BOJANGLES this GrAY is trying to deny that autism fucks you up in dating

 

[chiefkieg]

No working on yourself for your height face or autism

Why are you on every thread jfl

 

[TheLightOfMyLife]

Self improvement is a meme for the most part. Gym improvements are marginal at best and really suited for guys who are looking to really maximize their value or whose only problem is being fat.
Most white guys can ascend with gym though, probably 90%

 

[NIGGER BOJANGLES]

Autistic Chad likely won't struggle but being autistic and sub5 is a death sentence
@NIGGER BOJANGLES this GrAY is trying to deny that autism fucks you up in dating

Yeah he’s just denying reality. Ofc the top chads in looks can win even when autistic but that’s beside the point. Most men are average in looks. An average man with autism is fucked but an NT average man is gonna have a chance.

Even many sub5 NTs can get gfs. Heck just today while buying food I saw a fat NT with a gf. She was also chubby, but still pretty facially and the body wasn’t terrible while he was way fatter than her.

And of course being NT isn’t gonna save the super ugly guys, but denying it helps men that are in the middle of the looks threshold is insane

 

[Gendocel]

Chad never worked on himself his entire life and still gets pussy thrown at him wherever he goes

 

[Lazyandtalentless]

Why are you on every thread jfl

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[Loner94]

Exactly it's futile for certain people.

 

[UnchargedSamsung]

I just say this to my uncles if they asked if I have gotten a GF the reply is “ nah I’m just working on myself” they’ll eventually stop asking but it only helps if you’re young and not past 25