...water thread
There is this joke (?) about “sexual consent contracts” floating around. It’s supposed to be a documentation of the agreement of two consenting people to have sexual intercourse. It also contains the agreed upon extend, and limits, of the sexual activities that are permitted by the two parties.
Why are such documents not widely used these days? Women complain about rape-culture and sexual violence all the time. There is also the issue of (false) rape allegations. Such documents would be a tremendous help here.
The simple reason is that its booooring. Especially to women. These documents are manifestations of consent. And nothing kills the mood as much as consent. Because consent means predictability. It takes the excitement out of it.
Women are the passive sex. They are the choosers, not the pursuers. And as the passive gender, they are also passive when it comes to explaining what they want in the bedroom. They may have certain sexual fantasies, but they are embarrassed about them and rarely share them.
Because, if statistics are to be believed, the lions share of female sexual fantasies are not exactly in line with the feminist’s perception of women. Women dream about being dominated but won’t admit it because it would make them look pathetic.
And explaining to be dominated (and how far) would destroy the experience of being dominated.
Ideally, the man somehow, telepathically, knows what the woman wants (at ever given second) and then does it without asking. That’s what excites women. To be raped, as far as they are comfortable with. That’s the kind of domination they dream about.
This lack of female communication if difficult for a man. He has to guess. If he is too hesitant, he is a whimp and she will lose interest. If he overdoes it, he is a (real) rapist.
Women who ride the carousel keep looking for a man who fulfills this desire. And that’s were looks come into play. The hotter the guy the more leeway he has for overdoing things.
There is this joke (?) about “sexual consent contracts” floating around. It’s supposed to be a documentation of the agreement of two consenting people to have sexual intercourse. It also contains the agreed upon extend, and limits, of the sexual activities that are permitted by the two parties.
Why are such documents not widely used these days? Women complain about rape-culture and sexual violence all the time. There is also the issue of (false) rape allegations. Such documents would be a tremendous help here.
The simple reason is that its booooring. Especially to women. These documents are manifestations of consent. And nothing kills the mood as much as consent. Because consent means predictability. It takes the excitement out of it.
Women are the passive sex. They are the choosers, not the pursuers. And as the passive gender, they are also passive when it comes to explaining what they want in the bedroom. They may have certain sexual fantasies, but they are embarrassed about them and rarely share them.
Because, if statistics are to be believed, the lions share of female sexual fantasies are not exactly in line with the feminist’s perception of women. Women dream about being dominated but won’t admit it because it would make them look pathetic.
And explaining to be dominated (and how far) would destroy the experience of being dominated.
Ideally, the man somehow, telepathically, knows what the woman wants (at ever given second) and then does it without asking. That’s what excites women. To be raped, as far as they are comfortable with. That’s the kind of domination they dream about.
This lack of female communication if difficult for a man. He has to guess. If he is too hesitant, he is a whimp and she will lose interest. If he overdoes it, he is a (real) rapist.
Women who ride the carousel keep looking for a man who fulfills this desire. And that’s were looks come into play. The hotter the guy the more leeway he has for overdoing things.
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