Spare me the "Chad only" cliches as this isn't about unalterable physical characteristics, but intense praxis of rational self-management in the accordance with the latest self-help coaching fads. Looks fade and women will eventually have to settle for something less than a stereotypical hunk, they will settle for a guy who "has his shit together"
... ask yourself do you have any of these characteristics?
Physically:
-Do you utilize the tool that is your body? Sculpting it like too look like that of the low bf Greek Gods?
-Do you partake in regular exercise and, more importantly, enjoy it? Does it make you feel energetic during the day and satisfyingly tired at night?
-Are you tirelessly using your body to try and do cool things? Rock climbing, aerial trapeze, swing dancing?
-Do you maintain a good hygiene, go to regular check ups for std's, pay attention to any oddities of your organs?
-Do you floss? Keep a skincare routine? Wear sunscreen? Keep your hair from heat damage?
Mentally:
-Are you keeping up with the events in the world while keeping a liberal bias at it?
-Are you learning more about topics, being interested in through events, podcasts, books, etc.?
-Are you practicing new skills, languages, and finding out about things you never thought about before?
-Are you sharing your insights on the world in a concise and meaningful way?
-Are you monitoring the state of your mental health? Curating good productive thoughts?
-Always checking if you need therapy and going if you do?
Spiritually:
-Do you believe in something? Are you in tune with your purpose, your being and soul, the world and the universe?
-Do you meditate, contemplate philosophy, sit outside in nature and just take in everything with your senses?
-What are your values and morals? Are your actions and words reflecting the kind of person you want to be?
-What do you bring to this Earth, and if not, are you working on bringing in something?
Socially:
- Are you meeting diverse people? Are you learning from your elders and mentoring the youth? Are you ready to listen and grow?
- Are you being honest and direct? Keeping healthy boundaries, vocalizing your concerns and managing conflict successfully? Are you cutting out people who are toxic to your well being?
- Are you aware of your community and being a good friend, and family member? Do you know people's birthdays and love languages?
-Are you encouraging your community to be closer-knit? Are you hosting events and dinners? Are you connecting your network together? Are you expanding the perspectives and advocating for the marginalized? Are you bringing people together to coordinate solutions on local and global problems?
-Are you up to date with politics and socio-economic systems? Are you voting? Are you involved in the discussion? Fighting for better values in our world?
Professionally:
-Do you have a career plan? Are passionate about what you do? If not, are you taking the steps to go where I you to go?
-Is your job meaningful? Does it need to be? Are you being fairly compensated and given room to grow?
-How up to date is your resume? Do you have business cards? Are you networking? Are you learning relevant software's and skills? Publishing anything in your field?
-Are you I being mentored in your field? Am I mentoring someone who is below me?
-Do you want to go back to school? Is there a plan for that? Do you need to switch careers?
Financially:
-Do you have a budget? Do you have a plan for your goals, debts, and expenses? Is your emergency fund filled?
-Do you live within your means? Do you indulge in materialism or are you cheap? Do you donate to causes you care about?
-Are you using money to expand your skills, experiences, and give you more freedom in life?
-Are you investing in retirement, eastern Poland or big future expenses, and your savings?
Romantically:
-Are you assertive and confident instead of aggressive and needy?
-Are you happy while being alone before pursuing a relationship? Am you aware of women's boundaries and communicating it well? Are your expectations realistic? -
-If someone is involved: does this person share your values? Can you spend the day doing nothing with them and be happy? Can you rely on them to be there in the bad times? Do they want to make the world better with you? Are you upfront and mature? Will you put in an equitable amount of labor in the relationship?
Generally:
-Are you organized? Is you room in order? Do you wash?
-Are you journaling regularly?
-Are you creatively fulfilled?
-Are you making sure to have time for your bucket-list (big and small)?
-Are there any regrets in your life? If so, when will you change it?
-Are you taking risks and being spontaneous? Are you challenging yourself in something new every day?
-How's your self-esteem and self-image? Are I expressive in who you are?
-Are you being yourself or are you living the life you think you should be living?
... ask yourself do you have any of these characteristics?
Physically:
-Do you utilize the tool that is your body? Sculpting it like too look like that of the low bf Greek Gods?
-Do you partake in regular exercise and, more importantly, enjoy it? Does it make you feel energetic during the day and satisfyingly tired at night?
-Are you tirelessly using your body to try and do cool things? Rock climbing, aerial trapeze, swing dancing?
-Do you maintain a good hygiene, go to regular check ups for std's, pay attention to any oddities of your organs?
-Do you floss? Keep a skincare routine? Wear sunscreen? Keep your hair from heat damage?
Mentally:
-Are you keeping up with the events in the world while keeping a liberal bias at it?
-Are you learning more about topics, being interested in through events, podcasts, books, etc.?
-Are you practicing new skills, languages, and finding out about things you never thought about before?
-Are you sharing your insights on the world in a concise and meaningful way?
-Are you monitoring the state of your mental health? Curating good productive thoughts?
-Always checking if you need therapy and going if you do?
Spiritually:
-Do you believe in something? Are you in tune with your purpose, your being and soul, the world and the universe?
-Do you meditate, contemplate philosophy, sit outside in nature and just take in everything with your senses?
-What are your values and morals? Are your actions and words reflecting the kind of person you want to be?
-What do you bring to this Earth, and if not, are you working on bringing in something?
Socially:
- Are you meeting diverse people? Are you learning from your elders and mentoring the youth? Are you ready to listen and grow?
- Are you being honest and direct? Keeping healthy boundaries, vocalizing your concerns and managing conflict successfully? Are you cutting out people who are toxic to your well being?
- Are you aware of your community and being a good friend, and family member? Do you know people's birthdays and love languages?
-Are you encouraging your community to be closer-knit? Are you hosting events and dinners? Are you connecting your network together? Are you expanding the perspectives and advocating for the marginalized? Are you bringing people together to coordinate solutions on local and global problems?
-Are you up to date with politics and socio-economic systems? Are you voting? Are you involved in the discussion? Fighting for better values in our world?
Professionally:
-Do you have a career plan? Are passionate about what you do? If not, are you taking the steps to go where I you to go?
-Is your job meaningful? Does it need to be? Are you being fairly compensated and given room to grow?
-How up to date is your resume? Do you have business cards? Are you networking? Are you learning relevant software's and skills? Publishing anything in your field?
-Are you I being mentored in your field? Am I mentoring someone who is below me?
-Do you want to go back to school? Is there a plan for that? Do you need to switch careers?
Financially:
-Do you have a budget? Do you have a plan for your goals, debts, and expenses? Is your emergency fund filled?
-Do you live within your means? Do you indulge in materialism or are you cheap? Do you donate to causes you care about?
-Are you using money to expand your skills, experiences, and give you more freedom in life?
-Are you investing in retirement, eastern Poland or big future expenses, and your savings?
Romantically:
-Are you assertive and confident instead of aggressive and needy?
-Are you happy while being alone before pursuing a relationship? Am you aware of women's boundaries and communicating it well? Are your expectations realistic? -
-If someone is involved: does this person share your values? Can you spend the day doing nothing with them and be happy? Can you rely on them to be there in the bad times? Do they want to make the world better with you? Are you upfront and mature? Will you put in an equitable amount of labor in the relationship?
Generally:
-Are you organized? Is you room in order? Do you wash?
-Are you journaling regularly?
-Are you creatively fulfilled?
-Are you making sure to have time for your bucket-list (big and small)?
-Are there any regrets in your life? If so, when will you change it?
-Are you taking risks and being spontaneous? Are you challenging yourself in something new every day?
-How's your self-esteem and self-image? Are I expressive in who you are?
-Are you being yourself or are you living the life you think you should be living?
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