PortraitOfTheAutist
Greycel
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The biggest mistake young men make is to assume women desire men in the same way men desire women.
Why do you think it is that if you were to tell a girl you love her, her first response is "No you don't!" rather than "But I don't love you", because a woman who truly believes she is beloved is practically forced to love back.
The quest of the Knight is not to make a girl love him, but rather to "prove his love", your true, authentic, burning passion for her is her very desire itself and such is the reason her resistance is in denying your feelings not in proposing her own, which are totally irrelevant to the situation.
Women love being loved and being possessed rather than possessing. They don't reciprocate, they react. Furthermore, they will never be able to articulate that this is what their true desire is. Women don't know and can't communicate what it is that arouses them, so this is why if you were to tell them that they only thing they actually love is themselves they would deny it.
They don't love men as they actually are, they love men who make themselves feel more beloved. A more physically attractive, rich, and high status man will make her feel more beloved. The man is only a mirror that self-reflects back to her. Female love is completely narcissistic.
Why do you think it is that if you were to tell a girl you love her, her first response is "No you don't!" rather than "But I don't love you", because a woman who truly believes she is beloved is practically forced to love back.
The quest of the Knight is not to make a girl love him, but rather to "prove his love", your true, authentic, burning passion for her is her very desire itself and such is the reason her resistance is in denying your feelings not in proposing her own, which are totally irrelevant to the situation.
Women love being loved and being possessed rather than possessing. They don't reciprocate, they react. Furthermore, they will never be able to articulate that this is what their true desire is. Women don't know and can't communicate what it is that arouses them, so this is why if you were to tell them that they only thing they actually love is themselves they would deny it.
They don't love men as they actually are, they love men who make themselves feel more beloved. A more physically attractive, rich, and high status man will make her feel more beloved. The man is only a mirror that self-reflects back to her. Female love is completely narcissistic.