Serious With the amount of baggage I carry, I could never sustain a relationship if I ever got one

[mrlunatic]

I have mommy issues, daddy issues, severe trust issues, several insecurities, severe jealousy issues, physical trauma, emotional trauma, financial trauma, sexual trauma.

I don't think I could ever trust somebody. I don't think I could open up to anybody. I don't think I could ever form a real connection with anybody.

And like how they say, when there's no trust, there's no relationshit. A normie woman would show me the bird and tell me I need to fix my baggage first.

 

[outerdarkness]

Same, can’t even manage my own life, why would someone want to be join it.

And we can’t do anything about it either. Just have to wait to die,

 

[NickelodeonCel]

Yup. I'm basically numb emotionally after years of constant suffering, I don't have the energy to entertain a tiktok brained woman.

 

[zd60]

Same, can’t even manage my own life, why would someone want to be join it.

And we can’t do anything about it either. Just have to wait to die,

 

[mrlunatic]

Yup. I'm basically numb emotionally after years of constant suffering, I don't have the energy to entertain a tiktok brained woman.

I can't entertain even a normal woman.

 

[mrlunatic]

@Animecel2D @LeFrenchCel

 

[mrlunatic]

@The Wolf

 

[Cryo]

Everything sucks

 

[The Wolf]

I can relate.
I was actually just thinking about something very similar. Even it looks suddenly stopped mattering, I’m too emotionally damaged from all the treatment I get from strangers because of my looks, to actually try and get a gf.

But back to your post. My emotional trauma and PTSD from bullying, as well as my ADHD, would make it very hard for me to sustain a relationship. I forget stuff, I am often confused and an extremely slow learner, I drive too fast and get flashed, I have a speech impediment, and other issues too. I’m extremely insecure. The past forms the now and the future. My brain is
so preoccupied with all the baggage. Btw parts of my brain have shrunken, and I don’t really have a healthy brain as the MRI has shown.

 

[mrlunatic]

I can relate.
I was actually just thinking about something very similar. Even it looks suddenly stopped mattering, I’m too emotionally damaged from all the treatment I get from strangers because of my looks, to actually try and get a gf.

But back to your post. My emotional trauma and PTSD from bullying, as well as my ADHD, would make it very hard for me to sustain a relationship. I forget stuff, I am often confused and an extremely slow learner, I drive too fast and get flashed, I have a speech impediment, and other issues too. I’m extremely insecure. The past forms the now and the future. My brain is
so preoccupied with all the baggage. Btw parts of my brain have shrunken, and I don’t really have a healthy brain as the MRI has shown.

I could not sustain a relationship for even a week if I could try. It truly is over for some of us.

 

[mrlunatic]

Mandatory bump

 

[yakusai]

If I had a girlfriend, she would realize how insecure I am and cheat on me immediately.

 

[mrlunatic]

If I had a girlfriend, she would realize how insecure I am and cheat on me immediately.

Same same same. Brutal man, how relatable this one sentence is

 

[blackpills&metal]

I was bullied in elementary and middle school, but was homeschooled for high school. So on top on my looks, height, and aspergers, the final nail is missing out on teenage love because of homeschooling. Once you miss out on teenage love, it's genuinely over.

 

[mrlunatic]

I was bullied in elementary and middle school, but was homeschooled for high school. So on top on my looks, height, and aspergers, the final nail is missing out on teenage love because of homeschooling.

I'd say atleast you weren't bullied during high school. That sticks even harder with you.

 

[blackpills&metal]

I'd say atleast you weren't bullied during high school. That sticks even harder with you.

This is true. my failed normie brother told me that he regrets I didn't go to public high school like he did, but I always felt I was spared of the kind of crap he saw and went through.

 

[GmeOvr]

Your analysis is correct. It is ovER

 

[Animecel2D]

Yeah, same

To say nothing of the sheer gap in experience between you and her. Just think of how many other relationships and hookups the average foid has had and know that she will always be comparing you to them

 

[mrlunatic]

Bump

 

[LeFrenchCel]

We are taken back by our looks and our past trauma

 

[Hong Xiuquan]

I have mommy issues, daddy issues, severe trust issues, several insecurities, severe jealousy issues, physical trauma, emotional trauma, financial trauma, sexual trauma.

I don't think I could ever trust somebody. I don't think I could open up to anybody. I don't think I could ever form a real connection with anybody.

And like how they say, when there's no trust, there's no relationshit. A normie woman would show me the bird and tell me I need to fix my baggage first.

Mentalcel.

 

[mrlunatic]

Mentalcel.

man shut the fuck up.

 

[Hong Xiuquan]

man shut the fuck up.

*Fellow mentalcel.

 

[mrlunatic]

*Fellow mentalcel.

I'm not a mentalcel. I'm lacking in looks too.

 

[Hong Xiuquan]

I'm not a mentalcel. I'm lacking in looks too.

Multicel.

 

[formyreason]

Same I barely ever trying in real life because no one appreciate it, still remember when I win math competition in my school (just local one) my team won first place but no one say good work to me

Also I got bullied from elementary to middle school, the bullying stop and I get several friends but in grade 12 I got ignored again

Now I have insomnia, social anxiety and complex insecurity

 

[d0de]

Bump

Plump

 

[mrlunatic]

Bump

 

[Freixel]

I have trauma too, like almost all users here

 

[clearsmoke]

If a foid actually liked you some of those issues would fade away and she'd help you with the other ones. The "fixing baggage" thing is just a way to sent you, with chad it's "You don't need to be perfect to be in a relationship, we all have baggage, we can work on it together."

 

[Ricecel Sungnodius]

I have mommy issues, daddy issues, severe trust issues, several insecurities, severe jealousy issues, physical trauma, emotional trauma, financial trauma, sexual trauma.

I don't think I could ever trust somebody. I don't think I could open up to anybody. I don't think I could ever form a real connection with anybody.

And like how they say, when there's no trust, there's no relationshit. A normie woman would show me the bird and tell me I need to fix my baggage first.

I think you're traumatized beyond repair.