Theory Will a foid dump you if you have zero friends?

[wasted12years]

I remember when i posted on a normie forum a couple of years ago about my situation. That i wanted a GF. In the thread i also mentioned that i don't have any friends at all. One of the replies said: "She's going to leave you in 5 seconds when she realizes you don't have any friends or social circles" This reply scared me, alot and i didn't understand why he posted that. Him being a normie means he might be right about that comment, or maybe he just wanted to make me more unmotivated. Why would friends matter? If anything some foids hate when men spend time with his friends and doesn't give her enough attention.

What do you think? Will a foid leave you for having 0 friends? I'm guessing age is a huge factor in this. Me being in my 30s i'm guessing it doesn't matter as much compared to if i was in my early 20s like most of you are. Why would friends matter? Why is it a red flag to not have any friends?

 

[fokusin]

Having no friends is sign of low social status

 

[Qech__]

I think if you find a gf who also has zero friends then it's going to work out. But a guy with 0 friends paired with an extrovert with 999 friends is not going to work out at all. Too imbalanced.

 

[fatass30000]

Having no friends is sign of low social status

this and it’s also a sign that you don’t know how to socialise and get along with others.

 

[wasted12years]

Having no friends is sign of low social status

I think if you find a gf who also has zero friends then it's going to work out. But a guy with 0 friends paired with an extrovert with 999 friends is not going to work out at all. Too imbalanced.

But the question is: is it important to have high social status when trying to start a relationship with a foid? If so why? I can still be social and extroverted, i have no problem with that tbh. I just don't have any friends.

 

[wasted12years]

this and it’s also a sign that you don’t know how to socialise and get along with others.

But all my friends in my teens and early 20s got a GF and started a family. They abandoned me.

 

[ramadi]

I remember when i posted on a normie forum a couple of years ago about my situation. That i wanted a GF. In the thread i also mentioned that i don't have any friends at all. One of the replies said: "She's going to leave you in 5 seconds when she realizes you don't have any friends or social circles" This reply scared me, alot and i didn't understand why he posted that. Him being a normie means he might be right about that comment, or maybe he just wanted to make me more unmotivated. Why would friends matter? If anything some foids hate when men spend time with his friends and doesn't give her enough attention.

What do you think? Will a foid leave you for having 0 friends? I'm guessing age is a huge factor in this. Me being in my 30s i'm guessing it doesn't matter as much compared to if i was in my early 20s like most of you are. Why would friends matter? Why is it a red flag to not have any friends?

Absolutely correct, not only foids but everyone even your own family will look down on you due to the fact you have been ostracized from society. Now obviously there are exceptions but it's true for the most part.

 

[Qech__]

Nah, I think some low social status people get relationships. It will make it harder, but if you choose to keep up that "high social status" facade during the relationship it's just going to get exhausting

 

[ramadi]

But the question is: is it important to have high social status when trying to start a relationship with a foid? If so why? I can still be social and extroverted, i have no problem with that tbh. I just don't have any friends.

Because it's human nature, they will notice and start to think about it and wonder how and why you have zero friends. Not to mention that if she discusses that with her friends or anyone at all it will quickly become a laughing matter and even if she does not dump you at the moment, it will 100% be a deciding factor whenever she decides too. It WILL be used as leverage by everyone.

 

[aks74u]

You know women are a fucking joke even thinking about it.

 

[SupremeFroggy]

Even if you ascended, you can't escape the Loser Pill

If you're like me: Loner No friends No family Socially awkward No interesting hobbies Never go out Sad and depressed Only understand female intimacy transactionally You got a girlfriend, but now there's the next hurdle: The Loser Pill. You realise getting her makes you feel so relieved, but...

incels.is

You will watch her eyes turn from curiosity to pity, then to disgust.

True. Genuine foid's reaction when learning that the man next to her has no friends (from a real documentary):

 

[wasted12years]

Because it's human nature, they will notice and start to think about it and wonder how and why you have zero friends. Not to mention that if she discusses that with her friends or anyone at all it will quickly become a laughing matter and even if she does not dump you at the moment, it will 100% be a deciding factor whenever she decides too. It WILL be used as leverage by everyone.

Even as a 35-year old?

 

[hunter x atomics]

Having no friends is sign of low social status

 

[aks74u]

You see after reading that makes me realise all the garbage a man has to do just to eat pussy, all those requirements to be eligible for cheap pussy that ain’t worth.

I really wish a new species come to earth and replace woman.
They’re really fucking deserve it.

 

[ramadi]

Even as a 35-year old?

Well your age makes it less of a big deal to be honest with you but at the end of the day it will be used as leverage against you, but then again there are exceptions.

 

[superpsycho]

its a high possibility, as its an indicator that you are an outsider and not a part of the normie tribe, which is a massive subhuman trait

as bad as this is, its nowhere near as bad as if a foid found out you have never had a girlfriend before (even more brutal for 20+ year old cels probably). if anyone here ever ascends and gets a gf, it is in their best interest to do their best to larp as an experienced relationshiphaver and not a first-timer. if you magically get a gf and even if you think she really likes you, you WILL get fucked over if she finds out she is your first love.

 

[proudweeb]

This only matters for sub7s

it is yet another hoop that normie tier men must hop through (in addition to income, etc) to even have any hope of betabuxxing, so that she doesn't get the "ick". And even the slightest thing will give a woman the "ick" when you aren't chad.

For men who are high tier in looks, friendship status is irrelevant

With that said, looks and popularity do tend to be correlated. A 10 will have a vastly easier time socializing than a 2. A 10 would basically have to put in effort to NOT have a strong social circle.

 

[ramadi]

its a high possibility, as its an indicator that you are an outsider and not a part of the normie tribe, which is a massive subhuman trait

as bad as this is, its nowhere near as bad as if a foid founds out you have never had a girlfriend before (even more brutal for 20+ year old cels probably). if anyone here ever ascends and gets a gf, it is in their best interest to do their best to larp as an experienced relationshiphaver and not a first-timer. if you magically get a gf and even if you think she really likes you, you WILL get fucked over if she finds out she is your first love.

well said, and this goes for everything tbh. The moment foids or people in general realize that you have no options/experiences, you are fucked.

 

[wasted12years]

Nah, I think some low social status people get relationships. It will make it harder, but if you choose to keep up that "high social status" facade during the relationship it's just going to get exhausting

Imagine living a chill life like me, completely isolated from normies in the middle of the woods. And now all of a sudden i have to become an actor, a normie. Meet people i don't want to spend time with just to get pussy and affection from a foid. I think it will take time to get used to that kind of lifestyle. Not saying every foid is like that but no foid is going to wanna stay home all the time. They always want to do stuff that costs money, that includes meeting people/friends.

This only matters for sub7s

it is yet another hoop that normie tier men must hop through (in addition to income, etc) to even have any hope of betabuxxing, so that she doesn't get the "ick". And even the slightest thing will give a woman the "ick" when you aren't chad.

For men who are high tier in looks, friendship status is irrelevant

Yes, i think you're right. Chad doesn't need any friends. His face looks friendly enough so it's more than OK if he's lonely and introverted.

 

[Super Nigger Boy]

He's kinda right foids do worship things like social status Having 0 friends means you are low status.

 

[The Wolf]

Brutal. I'm 29 and have zero IRL friends. Just say they live "abroad" but that can be unbelievable.

 

[wasted12years]

Brutal. I'm 29 and have zero IRL friends. Just say they live "abroad" but that can be unbelievable.

It also depends on how the foid is i guess, even if AWALT. If she's autistic she probably don't care as much. I probably wouldn't want to be in a relationship with an autistic foid but beggars can't be choosers i guess.

 

[RealSchizo]

I think if you find a gf who also has zero friends then it's going to work out. But a guy with 0 friends paired with an extrovert with 999 friends is not going to work out at all. Too imbalanced.

All foids have simps, orbiters etc.
Foids can't be alone impossible.

 

[Autistic Uggo]

This only matters for sub7s

it is yet another hoop that normie tier men must hop through (in addition to income, etc) to even have any hope of betabuxxing, so that she doesn't get the "ick". And even the slightest thing will give a woman the "ick" when you aren't chad.

For men who are high tier in looks, friendship status is irrelevant

Having no friends is an indicator of ugliness, neurodivergence and low social status. Most sub 8 men will need to prove that they can provide for her. And if you're friendless and bullied, there's not a hope in hell that she will think you're capable of sustaining her lifestyle and raising her children. Betabuxxes need to be moderately social and NT.

On the other hand, Chad can coast by on his looks alone, so it doesn't matter if he is an introverted loner. They'll go on about liking the strong silent type when it comes to Chad.

With that said, looks and popularity do tend to be correlated. A 10 will have a vastly easier time socializing than a 2. A 10 would basically have to put in effort to NOT have a strong social circle.

I've literally seen this happen with my Chadlite brother. Chads don't have to put any effort into making friends. Friends come to them.

It's hard to be friendless when you're Chad.

 

[wasted12years]

its a high possibility, as its an indicator that you are an outsider and not a part of the normie tribe, which is a massive subhuman trait

as bad as this is, its nowhere near as bad as if a foid found out you have never had a girlfriend before (even more brutal for 20+ year old cels probably). if anyone here ever ascends and gets a gf, it is in their best interest to do their best to larp as an experienced relationshiphaver and not a first-timer. if you magically get a gf and even if you think she really likes you, you WILL get fucked over if she finds out she is your first love.

I also don't drink alcohol, coffee or pastries. Will this make things more difficult in social situations?

 

[Shark]

Having no friends is sign of low social status

 

[Wolnir]

I feel like having no friends is more common in your 30s because most normies spend the majority of their time with their partner and / or kids. There's no time for friendships.

 

[wasted12years]

I feel like having no friends is more common in your 30s because most normies spend the majority of their time with their partner and / or kids. There's no time for friendships.

Yes exactly. And this will increase my chances of getting a GF as a lonely soon to be 35 year old. It will be more acceptable in an old foids eyes. (old being in your mid 30s) Just imagine if i was 18, it would be more akward if i had 0 friends and higher chance of her leaving me.

 

[MoroccanFarmer]

Yes

 

[MoroccanFarmer]

Yes

It signals to her that u are ND, and if foid knows that about u = over.

 

[The Death Devil]

As always, it depends on whether you're Chad or not. If you're a regular MTN or so, she's going to take you having zero friends as proof that you can't socialize or that you're unlikable. If you're Chad, however, you'll just be seen as some mysterious lone-wolf that is so tied up in his pursuits that he doesn't have time for friends.

Uteroids write romance books with these kind of guys all the time—lone, isolated, anti-social Chads who only make time for the girl in their lives.

 

[Pancakecel]

As always, it depends on whether you're Chad or not. If you're a regular MTN or so, she's going to take you having zero friends as proof that you can't socialize or that you're unlikable. If you're Chad, however, you'll just be seen as some mysterious lone-wolf that is so tied up in his pursuits that he doesn't have time for friends.

Uteroids write romance books with these kind of guys all the time—lone, isolated, anti-social Chads who only make time for the girl in their lives.

 

[MajorThomas666]

# of friends = higher smv and status

Women are social beings.

The moment her friends remind her you have no friends, is the moment she gets turned off.

Most women act as a a hive mind and will listen to the shit advice of their shit 'friends.'

That said, go on any forum of women tracking celebrities and e-celeb women, and you'll find that while they are nepotistic against men, ugly and short men in particualr, they hate their own gender just as much.

I remember when i posted on a normie forum a couple of years ago about my situation. That i wanted a GF. In the thread i also mentioned that i don't have any friends at all. One of the replies said: "She's going to leave you in 5 seconds when she realizes you don't have any friends or social circles" This reply scared me, alot and i didn't understand why he posted that. Him being a normie means he might be right about that comment, or maybe he just wanted to make me more unmotivated. Why would friends matter? If anything some foids hate when men spend time with his friends and doesn't give her enough attention.

What do you think? Will a foid leave you for having 0 friends? I'm guessing age is a huge factor in this. Me being in my 30s i'm guessing it doesn't matter as much compared to if i was in my early 20s like most of you are. Why would friends matter? Why is it a red flag to not have any friends?

 

[MajorThomas666]

Women have this ability to not be fatigued ad non-stop yap.

They need for you to have other good looking friends to talk to, or they'll deem you asocial and odd. You can only make this up if you are a.) very tall and good looking b.) an introverted movie star

 

[anglocelticcel]

Having no friends is sign of low social status

And social skills

 

[wasted12years]

Women have this ability to not be fatigued ad non-stop yap.

They need for you to have other good looking friends to talk to, or they'll deem you asocial and odd. You can only make this up if you are a.) very tall and good looking b.) an introverted movie star

You seem to have alot of wisdom when it comes to foids. It's almost as if you've already had a relationship with one. Or maybe you've just digested alot of blackpill content, videos etc. I think you're right though. Foids get bored easily, they always want to do things that costs money, like traveling, going to restaurants, social events etc.

 

[VersoffenerAssi]

"She's going to leave you in 5 seconds when she realizes you don't have any friends or social circles"

This only happens if you're not Chad. A Chadlite or Chad would be considered a mysterious Sigma in this case.

 

[Rapistcel]

I remember when i posted on a normie forum a couple of years ago about my situation. That i wanted a GF. In the thread i also mentioned that i don't have any friends at all. One of the replies said: "She's going to leave you in 5 seconds when she realizes you don't have any friends or social circles" This reply scared me, alot and i didn't understand why he posted that. Him being a normie means he might be right about that comment, or maybe he just wanted to make me more unmotivated. Why would friends matter? If anything some foids hate when men spend time with his friends and doesn't give her enough attention.

What do you think? Will a foid leave you for having 0 friends? I'm guessing age is a huge factor in this. Me being in my 30s i'm guessing it doesn't matter as much compared to if i was in my early 20s like most of you are. Why would friends matter? Why is it a red flag to not have any friends?

If you are a normie I'm sure, if you are a chad no. But there is no way a chad has no friends.

 

[Rapistcel]

This only happens if you're not Chad. A Chadlite or Chad would be considered a mysterious Sigma in this case.

Chad has friends anyways so it's never like that, as a chad it doesn't matter how socially inept you are, people will be your friend.

 

[INVERTER]

Imagine living a chill life like me, completely isolated from normies in the middle of the woods. And now all of a sudden i have to become an actor, a normie. Meet people i don't want to spend time with just to get pussy and affection from a foid. I think it will take time to get used to that kind of lifestyle. Not saying every foid is like that but no foid is going to wanna stay home all the time. They always want to do stuff that costs money, that includes meeting people/friends.

I think a lot of normies are acting tbh. They are just going through the motions doing things they don't want to do just to impress people which is why they get offended when they see someone chilling by themselves

 

[Rapistcel]

Chad has friends anyways so it's never like that, as a chad it doesn't matter how socially inept you are, people will be your friend.

And anyways a chad is never socially inept because people have always treated him well and he has never had any negative reinforcement.

 

[INVERTER]

Chad has friends anyways so it's never like that, as a chad it doesn't matter how socially inept you are, people will be your friend.

The most socially inept and selfish people I've ever met always have people around. Only normgroids think isolation = poor social skills. If anything it's the opposite

 

[Rapistcel]

The most socially inept and selfish people I've ever met always have people around. Only normgroids think isolation = poor social skills. If anything it's the opposite

Good social skills: good looking
Bad social skills: ugly

 

[INVERTER]

And anyways a chad is never socially inept because people have always treated him well and he has never had any negative reinforcement.

That can make people socially inept.. not in a social anxiety or dorky way but just general self absorption and lack of focus on other people. Good looking people don't learn this until they get punished for it later in life

 

[Rapistcel]

That can make people socially inept.. not in a social anxiety or dorky way but just general self absorption and lack of focus on other people. Good looking people don't learn this until they get punished for it later in life

Cope

 

[Rapistcel]

Cope

Good looking people is treated well so they never develop the social insecurities and high inhibition we develop.

 

[Rapistcel]

Good looking people is treated well so they never develop the social insecurities and high inhibition we develop.

Socializing is just halo effect

 

[Mohamedömar]

Having no friends is sign of low social status

 

[VersoffenerAssi]

Chad has friends anyways so it's never like that, as a chad it doesn't matter how socially inept you are, people will be your friend.

What if Chad (or at least a significantly above-average attractive man) has no interest in superficial friendships with NPC normies?
I'm sure there are guys like that. Guys who would rather live alone in the woods, even though they're good-looking.

 

[INVERTER]

Socializing is just halo effect

I'm agreeing with you and saying socially inept people who are conventionally attractive do not have to realize they are socially inept because of the halo effect. The halo effect wears off when they enter later adulthood and they finally realize what pieces of shit they were. The threshold for behavior was lower for them because people will tolerate a narcissistic Chad up until a certain point or age whereas the same behavior in an incel tier man is immediately snuffed out