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Why you shouldn't be kind as a sub 5

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As a sub 5 man the first thing you need to know is that people don't see you as an equal, they see you as something inferior to them, so they don't think you deserve any minimal respect from them.
People will react very differently to any thing you do, reacting in a way that they wouldn't if you were another person.
Being nice to people won't be useful at all, people don't be nice to you back, people will target you and see you as weak.
As a sub 5 man you won't be appreciated or liked by the people, they will abuse you if they perceive you as an easy target so your only option is being respected (at least all respected you can be in your situation), never be more kind to people than necessary or you will see the people's nature, because they won't be kind back, I said this as someone that has been too much kind all my life and I always got surprised by their negative treatment to me because I thought they were supposed to be like me, you know this phrase "treat the people the way you would like to be treated", this maybe work for chads or normies, but not for us, people don't see us as part of them, they consider us pieces of shit and they deeply hates us, so the way We act with them won't be recyprocal. Being kind has made me have friends? No.
Being kind saved me from bullying? No, it encouraged bullies to target me.
Being kind has made me attract foids? No, foids see me as a nerdy retard.
Being kind has prevented me to react in situations people were bullying me? Yes.
Being kind has made me a weak and anxious person? Yes
Really guys, don't be more kind than necessary, people already see you as inferior, don't make them see you as even more inferior.
 
Umm being kind doesn't make you entitlеd to common decency inkwell!!11 r/niceguys :soy:
 
Only be kind to the elderly. But I hate those young sluts and wish the worst for them
 
kindness is weakness

and i was born weak
 
being friends with normfags means they will always have that smug tone of superiority I fucking hate it, the best thing u can do is put ur head down and not interact with the world
 
being friends with normfags means they will always have that smug tone of superiority I fucking hate it, the best thing u can do is put ur head down and not interact with the world
Exactly, they look us as inferior than them, We are not part of them.
 
I talk to girls in a very monotone voice and one time i said "excuse me" to a girl and she responded back "you're excused" in a very sparky tone, I said "ok" and walked away. Once I left she told her friend, "I don't think he likes me much". Yeah, NO SHIT.
 
Really guys, don't be more kind than necessary, people already see you as inferior, don't make them see you as even more inferior.
This. Kindness is seen as an opportunity to exploit you by normie scum. No mercy to normies.
 
kindness is weakness

and i was born weak
stress i need a drink GIF
 
As a sub 5 man the first thing you need to know is that people don't see you as an equal, they see you as something inferior to them, so they don't think you deserve any minimal respect from them.
People will react very differently to any thing you do, reacting in a way that they wouldn't if you were another person.
Being nice to people won't be useful at all, people don't be nice to you back, people will target you and see you as weak.
As a sub 5 man you won't be appreciated or liked by the people, they will abuse you if they perceive you as an easy target so your only option is being respected (at least all respected you can be in your situation), never be more kind to people than necessary or you will see the people's nature, because they won't be kind back, I said this as someone that has been too much kind all my life and I always got surprised by their negative treatment to me because I thought they were supposed to be like me, you know this phrase "treat the people the way you would like to be treated", this maybe work for chads or normies, but not for us, people don't see us as part of them, they consider us pieces of shit and they deeply hates us, so the way We act with them won't be recyprocal. Being kind has made me have friends? No.
Being kind saved me from bullying? No, it encouraged bullies to target me.
Being kind has made me attract foids? No, foids see me as a nerdy retard.
Being kind has prevented me to react in situations people were bullying me? Yes.
Being kind has made me a weak and anxious person? Yes
Really guys, don't be more kind than necessary, people already see you as inferior, don't make them see you as even more inferior.
I came to the same conclusion even before ever discovering the BP
 
Only be kind to the elderly. But I hate those young sluts and wish the worst for them
Don't be kind to old fucks either, they're just as nasty shit talking

Unless you're fucking me or financing me, I don't care.
 
In my late teens I came to the conclusion that my behavior doesn't matter. So I decided to lower my inhibition and see what happens. Did this make my life worse? no, because my hypothesis was true. The outcome of every social interactions was independent of my behavior. It was liberating, no more overthinking social interaction.

I disagree that you shouldn't be kind at all, just be selective. Only be kind when the other party is kind to you. Don't live by "Do to others as you would have them do to you," that's not going to work out well for you.
 
In my late teens I came to the conclusion that my behavior doesn't matter. So I decided to lower my inhibition and see what happens. Did this make my life worse? no, because my hypothesis was true. The outcome of every social interactions was independent of my behavior. It was liberating, no more overthinking social interaction.

I disagree that you shouldn't be kind at all, just be selective. Only be kind when the other party is kind to you. Don't live by "Do to others as you would have them do to you," that's not going to work out well for you.
You get it, that's the exact point of the thread
 
I'm not even kind anymore. But neither am I a big meanie. I have immense hatred for every normie I come across on the street. If someone takes extra space, blocks me, or looks at me the wrong way, I want to beat them up and kill them so bad. But I maintain a neutral expression.
 
I'm not even kind anymore. But neither am I a big meanie. I have immense hatred for every normie I come across on the street. If someone takes extra space, blocks me, or looks at me the wrong way, I want to beat them up and kill them so bad. But I maintain a neutral expression.
I don't suggest to be an asshole, obviously, but you shouldn't be more kind than strictly necessary.
 
As a sub 5 man the first thing you need to know is that people don't see you as an equal, they see you as something inferior to them, so they don't think you deserve any minimal respect from them.
People will react very differently to any thing you do, reacting in a way that they wouldn't if you were another person.
Being nice to people won't be useful at all, people don't be nice to you back, people will target you and see you as weak.
As a sub 5 man you won't be appreciated or liked by the people, they will abuse you if they perceive you as an easy target so your only option is being respected (at least all respected you can be in your situation), never be more kind to people than necessary or you will see the people's nature, because they won't be kind back, I said this as someone that has been too much kind all my life and I always got surprised by their negative treatment to me because I thought they were supposed to be like me, you know this phrase "treat the people the way you would like to be treated", this maybe work for chads or normies, but not for us, people don't see us as part of them, they consider us pieces of shit and they deeply hates us, so the way We act with them won't be recyprocal. Being kind has made me have friends? No.
Being kind saved me from bullying? No, it encouraged bullies to target me.
Being kind has made me attract foids? No, foids see me as a nerdy retard.
Being kind has prevented me to react in situations people were bullying me? Yes.
Being kind has made me a weak and anxious person? Yes
Really guys, don't be more kind than necessary, people already see you as inferior, don't make them see you as even more inferior.
yep my experience too,
 
You can be kind, but don't be harmless and don't be a pushover. You need to choose who you give your kindness to. Still i recommend that nobody goes the darktriad low inbhib route as a sub5, if you're not born like that it's a double-edged sword. I know because i tried doing that and not only i felt like shit, but i also got in more trouble
 
Only give out kindness if the Other Person / Persons return the favour .
 
As a sub 5 man the first thing you need to know is that people don't see you as an equal, they see you as something inferior to them, so they don't think you deserve any minimal respect from them.
People will react very differently to any thing you do, reacting in a way that they wouldn't if you were another person.
Being nice to people won't be useful at all, people don't be nice to you back, people will target you and see you as weak.
As a sub 5 man you won't be appreciated or liked by the people, they will abuse you if they perceive you as an easy target so your only option is being respected (at least all respected you can be in your situation), never be more kind to people than necessary or you will see the people's nature, because they won't be kind back, I said this as someone that has been too much kind all my life and I always got surprised by their negative treatment to me because I thought they were supposed to be like me, you know this phrase "treat the people the way you would like to be treated", this maybe work for chads or normies, but not for us, people don't see us as part of them, they consider us pieces of shit and they deeply hates us, so the way We act with them won't be recyprocal. Being kind has made me have friends? No.
Being kind saved me from bullying? No, it encouraged bullies to target me.
Being kind has made me attract foids? No, foids see me as a nerdy retard.
Being kind has prevented me to react in situations people were bullying me? Yes.
Being kind has made me a weak and anxious person? Yes
Really guys, don't be more kind than necessary, people already see you as inferior, don't make them see you as even more inferior.
Don’t bother talking to anyone. I made that mistake too many times. Don’t bother for the love of inceldom don’t bother talking cuz it’ll only lead to trouble. Let normies say what they want. Don’t let them get info about you
 
Time to rudemaxx/evilmaxx
 
As a sub 5 man the first thing you need to know is that people don't see you as an equal, they see you as something inferior to them, so they don't think you deserve any minimal respect from them.
People will react very differently to any thing you do, reacting in a way that they wouldn't if you were another person.
Being nice to people won't be useful at all, people don't be nice to you back, people will target you and see you as weak.
As a sub 5 man you won't be appreciated or liked by the people, they will abuse you if they perceive you as an easy target so your only option is being respected (at least all respected you can be in your situation), never be more kind to people than necessary or you will see the people's nature, because they won't be kind back, I said this as someone that has been too much kind all my life and I always got surprised by their negative treatment to me because I thought they were supposed to be like me, you know this phrase "treat the people the way you would like to be treated", this maybe work for chads or normies, but not for us, people don't see us as part of them, they consider us pieces of shit and they deeply hates us, so the way We act with them won't be recyprocal. Being kind has made me have friends? No.
Being kind saved me from bullying? No, it encouraged bullies to target me.
Being kind has made me attract foids? No, foids see me as a nerdy retard.
Being kind has prevented me to react in situations people were bullying me? Yes.
Being kind has made me a weak and anxious person? Yes
Really guys, don't be more kind than necessary, people already see you as inferior, don't make them see you as even more inferior.
There's a point in being kind when it serves u a short-long term gain
 
Don't be kind to no one this world does not care about you and wants to see you struggle and its very unfair fuck being nice and kind I would rather watch them suffer
 
This is a must read thread for all sub5s. I've found that whenever someone acts hostile towards me, and I act the same way back, even making aggressive eye contact and leaning my body towards them, they always end up backing off. I also lift too, which probably contributes to it, but it's very important to not take too much shit as a sub5.
 
This is a must read thread for all sub5s. I've found that whenever someone acts hostile towards me, and I act the same way back, even making aggressive eye contact and leaning my body towards them, they always end up backing off. I also lift too, which probably contributes to it, but it's very important to not take too much shit as a sub5.
Thanks
 
You are somehow forced to be kind or at least not rude
 

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