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I went from high NT extrovert shortcel to high ND inhib introvert due to the deleterious impact of adulthood and how society treats short men.

I wanted to know why normies, when they obtain GF or get engaged, will cut you off?

Why the fuck did I go from hanging out with a dozen friends and not thinking twice about anything, to not wanting to hang and feeling shit all the time, everyday? And of I do hang, after 5mins I want out.

Obviously people here know I'm a fatiguecel, but it was every three days hanging out doing stuff, to once every year or so. I sleep like 16hrs a day.

It was also when I mentioned to friend, after he was talking about him pegging his faux Catholic GF that I was a virgin, did he basically stop calling or hanging. And for the others, they all know I'm a neet and poor, and also disabled, well, they think I'm faking it.

Anyone who says disabledcels have it better than normiecels because they get preferential treatment are retarded. Yes, sure, if you have cancer or both legs are missing [helps if you had them blown off in Mideast for US/Israel for extra sympathy points], but if you have trememndous fatigue due to mito. deficiency or some hidden neurological disease, I'm telling you right now, nobody cares about you. Nobody. Especially not men.
 
Fatiguecel here too. My three best friends all got girlfriends and quickly drifted away from me. Now I'm too tired to do hardly anything and I hate social interactions for the most part. I was never outgoing but from now on, I sure as hell never will be.
 
Foids like to boss around their husbands, tell them what they can or can't say, who they're allowed to hang out with, etc...
 
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Foids like to boss around their husband. Tell him what he can or can't say, who he's allowed to hang out with, etc...
Longhousing the pussywhipped cucks until death do they part
 
People are always trying to climb the social hierarchy. They want to be associated with popular Chads, not loser incels. As soon as they decide that you're someone who makes them look bad, they will drop you like a rock. When your friends find girlfriends, it's only a matter of time before they believe that they've outgrown you.

Your buddies will inevitably move on and find new sexhaver friends. This usually starts with them declining all your invites before ghosting you altogether. Some of them may keep you around for a while just to bully and mogg you. This happens to most incels at some point or another.
 
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Fatiguecel here too. My three best friends all got girlfriends and quickly drifted away from me. Now I'm too tired to do hardly anything and I hate social interactions for the most part. I was never outgoing but from now on, I sure as hell never will be.
Brootal and same. It hurts more when you realize your younger care free self mogs you. I don't even know how I got here, but every year since that time I've morphed into: "how the fuck do normies do it?"

How do they go to work every 5-6 days, pay for insurance and, while I tried for a few years but failed, have GF's, listen to them and have to take them everywhere? How can they small talk for more than 5mins?

I gave up because it was so dehumanizing and my cells couldn't obtain the needed oxygen to keep slaving away.

I'm flabberghasted with the prices of everything how normies keep slaving without hitting a wall. I suspect many are richer than they claim, and soon there will be the lower class and the rich.

The new commercials about getting food delivered to you is so you can work more and don't have to stop and make food for yourself too.

Everything is fake and ghey and becoming commodified.
 
People are always trying to climb the social hierechy. They want to be associated with popular Chads, not loser incels. As soon as they decide that you're someone who makes them look bad, they will drop you like a rock. When your friends find girlfriends, it's only a matter of time before they believe that they've outgrown you. This happens to most of us.

Your buddies will move on and find new sexhaver friends. This usually starts with them declining all your invites before ghosting you altogether. Some of them may keep you around just to bully and mogg you.
I know several uncle Tomlets who do this. I guess I'm seen as a burden, parasite and subhuman.

Outgrown = amalgamate into the slave wage system.

I gotta find a bunch of sub5 hippies who build camps in the woods.
 
Brootal and same. It hurts more when you realize your younger care free self mogs you. I don't even know how I got here, but every year since that time I've morphed into: "how the fuck do normies do it?"

How do they go to work every 5-6 days, pay for insurance and, while I tried for a few years but failed, have GF's, listen to them and have to take them everywhere? How can they small talk for more than 5mins?

I gave up because it was so dehumanizing and my cells couldn't obtain the needed oxygen to keep slaving away.

I'm flabberghasted with the prices of everything how normies keep slaving without hitting a wall. I suspect many are richer than they claim, and soon there will be the lower class and the rich.

The new commercials about getting food delivered to you is so you can work more and don't have to stop and make food for yourself too.

Everything is fake and ghey and becoming commodified.
All well put. Even if I ascended, it would simply be another ring of hell to live in. If I was given the choice, gun to my head, to either try and get married (to a mid becky or higher) or to design a rocket that literally goes to the moon on my own dime, I would rather make the rocket. Something in my brain just changed so much that I cannot stand being around 99% of people now.
 
People are always trying to climb the social hierechy. They want to be associated with popular Chads, not loser incels. As soon as they decide that you're someone who makes them look bad, they will drop you like a rock. When your friends find girlfriends, it's only a matter of time before they believe that they've outgrown you.

Your buddies will move on and find new sexhaver friends. This usually starts with them declining all your invites before ghosting you altogether. Some of them may keep you around for a while just to bully and mogg you. These scenarios happens to most of us.
They don't bully me, really.

Well, one of them did. Another friend did say in the car that "people who don't work," meaning NEETS like me, "should be executed..." and I was a little taken back because I don't work. He wasn't joking either, but at same time I don't think he thought about what he meant.

I was always the clown in my younger days, passed around to do crazy things as an NT risk taker, yet never could get a girl... days I'll never experience again.

Now I'm just a ND parasite, apparently. Even the disease I have is obfuscated.

I think is partly my fault as well, because I don't want to hangout due to fatigue or go to their weddings and baby showers and what not. And when I do, I can see that they are negatively judging me and smalltalk is brutal and they can sense my Aspergers, which just causes more stress.

Life is much more stressful if you have to play the part of a normie as a NDcel.

It's not like I call them anymore either, but while they are working, hangout out, have GF's, etc., what do they think I'm doing? Do they think I'm on vacation?

Clearly I'n tired and sick, I think they know that [maybe they think I'm faking it], but the crazy thing is THEY'VE NEVER, EVER ASKED HOW I WAS FEELING, not once.

In fact, one friend has a foid sis who graduated w/ masters in psychology and he apparently told her about me and he called me perhaps 5 years ago, and we were talking, and when I brought up my illess, he asked if I have neurosis, seeing what his sister said to him, and then said if "this person [a fat slob friend] can do it, why can't you?."

I actually raged at him and said hidden illnesses can stop healthy looking people in their tracks. Cellular fatigue can't be seen.

Idk.

There is no brotherhood in men, except if some other guy is going through the exact same thing as you, maybe.
 
Yup. I don't know what it was, but I can certainly blame it on external factors causing a change in brain chemistry. Again, my younger self is an entirely different person.

Perhaps a neurotransmitter or upregulation of a receptor in sickness syndrome as a survival mechanism. I know negative external incidences cause an uptick in KOR which stimulates a desire to isolate from others as a biological coping mechanism, and if you're treated like shit by soyciety, that is exactly what will happen.

It then makes socializing with strangers and 99.9% of soysciety that much fucking suifuel
 
I went from high NT extrovert shortcel to high ND inhib introvert due to the deleterious impact of adulthood and how society treats short men.

I wanted to know why normies, when they obtain GF or get engaged, will cut you off?

Why the fuck did I go from hanging out with a dozen friends and not thinking twice about anything, to not wanting to hang and feeling shit all the time, everyday? And of I do hang, after 5mins I want out.

Obviously people here know I'm a fatiguecel, but it was every three days hanging out doing stuff, to once every year or so. I sleep like 16hrs a day.

It was also when I mentioned to friend, after he was talking about him pegging his faux Catholic GF that I was a virgin, did he basically stop calling or hanging. And for the others, they all know I'm a neet and poor, and also disabled, well, they think I'm faking it.

Anyone who says disabledcels have it better than normiecels because they get preferential treatment are retarded. Yes, sure, if you have cancer or both legs are missing [helps if you had them blown off in Mideast for US/Israel for extra sympathy points], but if you have trememndous fatigue due to mito. deficiency or some hidden neurological disease, I'm telling you right now, nobody cares about you. Nobody. Especially not men.
Just stop hanging out with these kinds of people
 
Can't relate I was always alone
 
I went from high NT extrovert shortcel to high ND inhib introvert due to the deleterious impact of adulthood and how society treats short men.

I wanted to know why normies, when they obtain GF or get engaged, will cut you off?

Why the fuck did I go from hanging out with a dozen friends and not thinking twice about anything, to not wanting to hang and feeling shit all the time, everyday? And of I do hang, after 5mins I want out.

Obviously people here know I'm a fatiguecel, but it was every three days hanging out doing stuff, to once every year or so. I sleep like 16hrs a day.

It was also when I mentioned to friend, after he was talking about him pegging his faux Catholic GF that I was a virgin, did he basically stop calling or hanging. And for the others, they all know I'm a neet and poor, and also disabled, well, they think I'm faking it.

Anyone who says disabledcels have it better than normiecels because they get preferential treatment are retarded. Yes, sure, if you have cancer or both legs are missing [helps if you had them blown off in Mideast for US/Israel for extra sympathy points], but if you have trememndous fatigue due to mito. deficiency or some hidden neurological disease, I'm telling you right now, nobody cares about you. Nobody. Especially not men.
I mean tbf a wife and even a gf are a lot more imporant then friendships. I would ditch almost all friends if i were to ever obtain a gf. not that i have any hope or actually close to get one, but if i were to, then I would prioritise her.
 
The purpose of having friends is sex.

1. Exist in real world = meet opposite sex for sex
2. Go places = new people for sex
3. Hobbies/activities = showcase aptitude to sexually signal
4. Sports = stay in shape for sex
5. Hang out doing nothing with bros = still more likely to go some where and have sex than at home
6. Go out with bros = going out alone makes you seem weird and not good for sex
7. Having friends = expand social circles overall making it more likely to have sex

Get a girlfriend = you no longer have worth
 
Y
I mean tbf a wife and even a gf are a lot more imporant then friendships. I would ditch almost all friends if i were to ever obtain a gf. not that i have any hope or actually close to get one, but if i were to, then I would prioritise her.
Yeah, but they will remain with their other friends who have GF's and wives. They will ditch a guy who's single.
 
I could type an essay on this, but I will keep it as short as I can.

I had almost no friends in high school due to being constantly-supervised by an aide but I was somewhat popular in college as a lot of people thought of me as being the "smart guy" in my department and were always coming to me for help. I have a somewhat serious psychiatric disorder that people knew about but I thought that my friend group had accepted that at the time and were okay with it.

Then, a few years after we graduated, I tried contacting my old friend group after I got my Master's. They were still friends with each other, but not only had they all paired off by then, but one of them had a kid on the way. They had become very guarded towards me, and they basically said that they did not need somebody like me in their lives now, and that it was creepy that someone like me was still talking to them after we were done with school, and to not contact them again. I asked what I did wrong, and the response I got was that:

"It wasn't that you did something wrong, just that we have changed, and now we don't think that it is healthy for us to associate with somebody like you, even if this isn't your fault. We have to do what's best for us."

They collectively decided to "cut off the crazy person". A more polite version of the shit that I got as a child, and all throughout high school, and then as a man in his late-20s. They had no problem with me as an undergrad, but they all got on their high horses and felt it was perfectly acceptable to shun me like that just for trying to reconnect.

Sometimes I wonder if I really should be locked away in a mental institution somewhere because then at least I wouldn't have any false expectations.
 
The low hanging fruit gets to fall first
 
I could type an essay on this, but I will keep it as short as I can.

I had almost no friends in high school due to being constantly-supervised by an aide but I was somewhat popular in college as a lot of people thought of me as being the "smart guy" in my department and were always coming to me for help. I have a somewhat serious psychiatric disorder that people knew about but I thought that my friend group had accepted that at the time and were okay with it.

Then, a few years after we graduated, I tried contacting my old friend group after I got my Master's. They were still friends with each other, but not only had they all paired off by then, but one of them had a kid on the way. They had become very guarded towards me, and they basically said that they did not need somebody like me in their lives now, and that it was creepy that someone like me was still talking to them after we were done with school, and to not contact them again. I asked what I did wrong, and the response I got was that:

"It wasn't that you did something wrong, just that we have changed, and now we don't think that it is healthy for us to associate with somebody like you, even if this isn't your fault. We have to do what's best for us."

They collectively decided to "cut off the crazy person". A more polite version of the shit that I got as a child, and all throughout high school, and then as a man in his late-20s. They had no problem with me as an undergrad, but they all got on their high horses and felt it was perfectly acceptable to shun me like that just for trying to reconnect.

Sometimes I wonder if I really should be locked away in a mental institution somewhere because then at least I wouldn't have any false expectations.
This was me. Lol. I think they are playing grown-up, what society expects of goy, and that means to discard the different people, those not socially accepted from their lives.

I was the crazy jestermaxxing risk taker that was used as entertainment, and had I not done this in HS, there's no doubt that I'd had been bullied.

Now that I calmed down, people just don't want to associate with me; for one, because I was never taken seriously, and because I've been single since HS well into adulthood, and for most men and women, and they'll suspect that on you even if you try to hide it, they don't want to have anything to do with you because your the runt of the litter never picked by the opposite sex
 
The low hanging fruit gets to fall first
And how about the high hanging fruit? Can your masters pay me, I'll work with you and shill for Israel.
 
And how about the high hanging fruit? Can your masters pay me, I'll work with you and shill for Israel.
:feelshaha: :feelshaha: :feelshaha: :feelshaha: :feelshaha: nigga just keep going you will find a way out of this current misery
 
:feelshaha: :feelshaha: :feelshaha: :feelshaha: :feelshaha: nigga just keep going you will find a way out of this current misery
Wtf. Did a foid write this?

Just keep improoooovin
 
This was me. Lol. I think they are playing grown-up, what society expects of goy, and that means to discard the different people, those not socially accepted from their lives.

I was the crazy jestermaxxing risk taker that was used as entertainment, and had I not done this in HS, there's no doubt that I'd had been bullied.

Now that I calmed down, people just don't want to associate with me; for one, because I was never taken seriously, and because I've been single since HS well into adulthood, and for most men and women, and they'll suspect that on you even if you try to hide it, they don't want to have anything to do with you because your the runt of the litter never picked by the opposite sex
I suppose what goes for "quirky" yet fun becomes creepy later on in life and then people start becoming afraid of you.

In a way, perhaps college is the "slumming" phase for many people and then they want to leave what they perceive as nutters behind and join the "real world".
 
they dont wanna be seen with the loser foidless truecel cause it will lower their status. plus foids whiny af all day telling men whom to hang around with. so you are cucked socially both by her own disapproval and his own status greed... .
 
The purpose of having friends is sex.

1. Exist in real world = meet opposite sex for sex
2. Go places = new people for sex
3. Hobbies/activities = showcase aptitude to sexually signal
4. Sports = stay in shape for sex
5. Hang out doing nothing with bros = still more likely to go some where and have sex than at home
6. Go out with bros = going out alone makes you seem weird and not good for sex
7. Having friends = expand social circles overall making it more likely to have sex

Get a girlfriend = you no longer have worth
sex, and status hierarchies explains 99% of normies activities and interactions.... .
 
By a way out, I mean :feelsrope:
Bro, I'm not killing myself. Lol. I have enough gumption to sit in a room for 100 years and not get depressed.

The ruling elite want you dead
 
they dont wanna be seen with the loser foidless truecel cause it will lower their status. plus foids whiny af all day telling men whom to hang around with. so you are cucked socially both by her own disapproval and his own status greed... .
Yeah, but I'm not a trucel, I'm an incel with a 5 face at 5'5 w/ 5incher.

But it's weird that my friends and relatives help an uglier blue pilled guy look for a GF but never once asked me anything or helped, even though I'm better looking (not boasting). I think its 100% because they know I'm ND and blackpilled. I think they subconsciously know.

I think men don't want to be associates with single men because they feel their GF finds it weird. I swear that's the reason.
 
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they dont wanna be seen with the loser foidless truecel cause it will lower their status. plus foids whiny af all day telling men whom to hang around with. so you are cucked socially both by her own disapproval and his own status greed... .
I mentioned I took mushrooms to help with a problem (it did help a lot) and he got super weird, probably thought in his head I was going to be alleyway Krokidil injector and his GF heard, and he got super weird and hung up. Lol
 
Bro, I'm not killing myself. Lol. I have enough gumption to sit in a room for 100 years and not get depressed.

The ruling elite want you dead
Bro if I see the girl I love with another guy, I'm roping, I'm done, fuck dis life, I'm totally done, burn it all down, actually I may not rope but speed up my death process by self sabotaging myself
 
Bro if I see the girl I love with another guy, I'm roping, I'm done, fuck dis life, I'm totally done, burn it all down, actually I may not rope but speed up my death process by self sabotaging myself
Who'd you love?
 
My oneitis , my nextdoor neighbor, I've known her for over 2 decades
Brutal. Why not talk to her, but only after an apocalypse?
 
Brutal. Why not talk to her, but only after an apocalypse?
LOL, she thinks I'm weird, hasn't talked to me in 12 years or so, I got the memo, therefore I won't go through another humiliation ritual, just to make sure she really doesn't like me, because its pretty obvious.
 

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