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Serious Why Therapy is (Usually) a Cope for Incels (IT won't touch this)

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I want to start this off with the fact that therapy is you paying someone to fix your problems or to give you the means to do so. I don't always think therapy is bad but if you're going for stuff like CBT or REBT or DBT for your overall mental health, you're a delusional coper and not even blackpilled. This will just be my rant/analysis of how therapy affects incels, not a well-constructed thesis.



Let's say a "mentalcel" goes to therapy for depression. This is a self identifying incel and he is holding to blackpill theory. Incel tells the therapist that he's been sad over being rejected by women his age. The therapist gives him bluepilled platitudes aka copes such as "just work on your personality" or "get some friends who are girls". By going to therapy, you are subscribing to copes and you don't even realize it because of how subtly the therapist slips the copes in your system so that you'll funnel them money. This is what makes therapy a cope. With every session, you reject the blackpill, aka the truth. I'm not going to defend the blackpill here as it defends itself with the posts we've made demonstrating it. In this case, the therapist's advice is literally terrible. The personality isn't why he is khhv, as he was khhv before and after taking the blackpill as @uo89997 points out in his high IQ thread, and foids who are only your friends are going to use you as a mangina, a manpon, whatever you want to call it. You hear their shit and listen about how her bf fucks her hard as fuck and you're just cucked having to listen and be "that guy". If you think it's just one therapist that gives this type of advice, you're wrong. I've been to a good bit of school counselors and professional therapists in my life and it's all the same crap. I've been for depression, addiction, family trauma, lots of stuff.



Let's not point out that therapists are literally dangerous to incels. If they hear your views, they will probably put you on a watch list. You can't even tell a therapist that you want to rope without them sending you off to a psych ward, and incels don't belong there. Being ugly and dejected doesn't mean you're a literal schizo. It's only the natural consequence of being a reject who cannot fill a niche and fulfil their hierarchy of needs like everyone else who is functioning in society due to not being genetic dead ends. No amount of therapy will change this either, therapy only changes the way you perceive the reality around you, which is the textbook definition of a cope.



If therapy only changes the way you interpret the data in front of you, then it in fact isn't a cure to inceldom. The only cures for inceldom have to do with your looks and how the people around you perceive them. No therapy session will get your dick wet, get you a sweet gf who loves you for you, or a rotation of women orbiting you like they do Chad. Not only is it not a cure to inceldom, it actually makes you more of an incel. You can't even escortcel if you're having to spend money on therapists, unless you're a richcel or something.



Notice the (usually) I put in the title? I do believe therapy can be good for one thing and one thing only; developing social skills. ABA is the form of therapy my doctor prescribed me for me being autistic, and as we know, autism is present in the majority of .is users. The NTpill is fake imo, but you still need to be able to approach and have an initial conversation. ABA allows you to apply learned behavior into irl situations so that you won't freeze up due to being high inhib. From my experience, the blackpill has made me much less autistic than before. Me and a foid are going to the gym Sunday and I'm texting her way less autistically than I was 2 years ago. I contribute this to the blackpill.



Questions for IT:

  1. Why should incels go to therapy? 1a) If you answer for their mental health, have you considered that incels have already turned to blackpill philosophy due to them being sick of copes and platitudes that have never helped them succeed? 1b) If you answer due to them being blackpilled, have you considered that you're only using therapy as a means of silencing your ideological opponents under the guise of helping them?
  2. What style of therapy would be good for incels? This is where the nuance and intelligence of IT is tested.
  3. What benefit does therapy provide that could aid incels? Do these benefits outweigh the negatives?
  4. Do you think therapy could give incels a shot at ascension?
  5. Have you been to therapy? How long have you participated in it? What for and why?
 
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Absolutely correct. Therapists, normies and females will never be able to understand inceldom or the blackpill.

I will never go to a therapist for my problems it's a waste of money and my time that would be better used on escorts which will at least guarantee me getting laid.

I hope IT touches this thread and tries to refute it, I think they would have an extremely hard time. Unfotunately, I think IT is too low IQ for this kind of conversation.
 
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Absolutely correct. Therapists, normies and females will never be able to understand inceldom or the blackpill.

I will never go to a therapist for my problems it's a waste of money and my time that would be better used on escorts which will at least guarantee me getting laid.

I hope IT touches this thread and tries to refute it, I think they would have an extremely hard time. Unfotunately, I think IT is too low IQ for this kind of conversation.
I wish i could interact with them but i'm mac banned on reddit for being an incel. I do think the monetary aspect is one of the more well understood aspects of why therapy is a cope. The most underrated aspect of it is that you're paying someone to do the coping for you.
 
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I wish i could interact with them but i'm mac banned on reddit for being an incel. I do think the monetary aspect is one of the more well understood aspects of why therapy is a cope. The most underrated aspect of it is that you're paying someone to do the coping for you.
True. I've never tried posting on IT tbh and why try? I know my post will get downvoted and I will immediately get banned.
 
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Your thread should be getting more views man. It's very high iq and really breaks down why therapy is terrible for incels.
 
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Your thread should be getting more views man. It's very high iq and really breaks down why therapy is terrible for incels.
It's midnight for usacels and morning for eucels
 
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It's midnight for usacels and morning for eucels
True good point. My late night threads got little views as well. Try bumping it in the morning.
 
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True. I've never tried posting on IT tbh and why try? I know my post will get downvoted and I will immediately get banned.
It actually takes a while because their mods are inactive and a third of them are literally suspended
 
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True good point. My late night threads got little views as well. Try bumping it in the morning.
I will if i get time but i'm gonna be super busy tomorrow :feelsaww::feelsaww::feelsaww:
 
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It actually takes a while because their mods are inactive and a third of them are literally suspended
Maybe one day, we'll see
 
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Okay good to know.
Yeah if you check the IT mods, they're literally dead. BarbieDontWantYouHoe is the last one that was active and it was almost 3 weeks ago when they posted, and it was on FDS :feelshaha:
 
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Yeah if you check the IT mods, they're literally dead. BarbieDontWantYouHoe is the last one that was active and it was almost 3 weeks ago when they posted, and it was on FDS :feelshaha:
Yeah a lot of them are suspended or haven't posted in a year+
 
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People who say “just go to therapy” is PC way of saying “just kill yourself already I don’t give a fuck about you”. Us incels can only dream of being the level of sociopaths IT users are. We’re already rotting in loneliness, depressed, and rejected by society yet they act like we’ve done something horribly wrong to them. They’re all fucked in the head and need to be raped by cops and skinned alive.
 
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I need an incel therapist, so he can relate more with me
 
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I need an incel therapist, so he can relate more with me
I thought about going back to school and trying to study to do this specifically so that we could have at least one. But then I realized that nobody would want to visit a blackpilled incel therapist lmao I would be homeless inside of 3 months.
 
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fucking cowards
Their answers to my questions are shit too, they don't realize we become black pilled because of our lack of success. Because of this blunder, they think our mentality is the issue but the actual issue is our genetics. We didn't get anything before we became blackpilled, and we don't after.
 
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therapy is totally useless if the problem is not your personality
 
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high iq post

why i would spend a hunnid dollars for copes when i can browse IT :feelskek::feelskek::feelskek::feelskek:

therapists are capitalist scums making profit of retarded ppl, incels and suicidial boys :dafuckfeels:
 
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"Hurr durr It hurhudhud"

Man, are you a fucking clown? Why do you even care about people whose the only entertainment in life is judging a group sharing their bad experiences in a forum? I'm tired of you, fucking attention whores wanting "IT" to react to your stupid threads.

FUCK YOU, retard.​

 
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Word up. I was forced to go to therapy for OCD when I was in hs. It's an extortion and belittlement program designed to brainwash normalfags and get them back to work. You talk for an hour with some post wall stacy who just wants to make chit chat for a living and has no idea what mental anguish feels like. She tries to indoctrinate you with her socially accepted morals and worldview, and your own subjective reality is denied and overriden with what is acceptable at the time.

It was one of the most humiliating experiences of my life. What I really learned is that nobody gives a shit about what you are going through. If they really wanted to help, they would try to make the conditions of your life better. Instead, they brainwash you to try and get you functioning enough to produce value for them. In my country, disability money for mental illness is jealously guarded and rarely do people get what they actually need.

It also made me lose belief in the justice of the morality and ideology of our society. There is always virtue signalling about fags, women, minorities, etc. but nobody ever tries to help out the mentally ill, probably the most disenfranchised group of them all. And if they do, it is a half hearted bare minimum attempt to make themselves feel better.
 
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A therapist can't do much because he or she can't get you a woman.All they can do is to make you feel more comfortable inside your incel prison,which is a crazy concept,along with blaming you for the inceldom.
 
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People who say “just go to therapy” is PC way of saying “just kill yourself already I don’t give a fuck about you”. Us incels can only dream of being the level of sociopaths IT users are. We’re already rotting in loneliness, depressed, and rejected by society yet they act like we’ve done something horribly wrong to them.They’re all fucked in the head and need to be raped by cops and skinned alive.
 
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None of these normies seems to realise that if going to "therapy" is so common, doesn't that mean that society as a whole has been getting worse? You don't have a large portion of the population taking SSRI's and other medication for mental issues and paying for a stranger to be their friend in a normal functioning society.
The modern world is so isolating for people that instead of going to your family or friends to talk about problems it's more common to talk to a stranger.
 
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therapy is inherently useless because it's actually too soft. It's a powerless exercise of coddling and self-acceptance, when the only thing that matters in a structural power sense is objective acceptance by SOYCIETY
 
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therapy is inherently useless because it's actually too soft. It's a powerless exercise of coddling and self-acceptance, when the only thing that matters in a structural power sense is objective acceptance by SOYCIETY
A lot of times therapists don't even want you to accept yourself, they want you to accept a caricature of yourself. No way in hell would a therapist accept a blackpilled incel
 
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I want to start this off with the fact that therapy is you paying someone to fix your problems or to give you the means to do so. I don't always think therapy is bad but if you're going for stuff like CBT or REBT or DBT for your overall mental health, you're a delusional coper and not even blackpilled. This will just be my rant/analysis of how therapy affects incels, not a well-constructed thesis.



Let's say a "mentalcel" goes to therapy for depression. This is a self identifying incel and he is holding to blackpill theory. Incel tells the therapist that he's been sad over being rejected by women his age. The therapist gives him bluepilled platitudes aka copes such as "just work on your personality" or "get some friends who are girls". By going to therapy, you are subscribing to copes and you don't even realize it because of how subtly the therapist slips the copes in your system so that you'll funnel them money. This is what makes therapy a cope. With every session, you reject the blackpill, aka the truth. I'm not going to defend the blackpill here as it defends itself with the posts we've made demonstrating it. In this case, the therapist's advice is literally terrible. The personality isn't why he is khhv, as he was khhv before and after taking the blackpill as @uo89997 points out in his high IQ thread, and foids who are only your friends are going to use you as a mangina, a manpon, whatever you want to call it. You hear their shit and listen about how her bf fucks her hard as fuck and you're just cucked having to listen and be "that guy". If you think it's just one therapist that gives this type of advice, you're wrong. I've been to a good bit of school counselors and professional therapists in my life and it's all the same crap. I've been for depression, addiction, family trauma, lots of stuff.



Let's not point out that therapists are literally dangerous to incels. If they hear your views, they will probably put you on a watch list. You can't even tell a therapist that you want to rope without them sending you off to a psych ward, and incels don't belong there. Being ugly and dejected doesn't mean you're a literal schizo. It's only the natural consequence of being a reject who cannot fill a niche and fulfil their hierarchy of needs like everyone else who is functioning in society due to not being genetic dead ends. No amount of therapy will change this either, therapy only changes the way you perceive the reality around you, which is the textbook definition of a cope.



If therapy only changes the way you interpret the data in front of you, then it in fact isn't a cure to inceldom. The only cures for inceldom have to do with your looks and how the people around you perceive them. No therapy session will get your dick wet, get you a sweet gf who loves you for you, or a rotation of women orbiting you like they do Chad. Not only is it not a cure to inceldom, it actually makes you more of an incel. You can't even escortcel if you're having to spend money on therapists, unless you're a richcel or something.



Notice the (usually) I put in the title? I do believe therapy can be good for one thing and one thing only; developing social skills. ABA is the form of therapy my doctor prescribed me for me being autistic, and as we know, autism is present in the majority of .is users. The NTpill is fake imo, but you still need to be able to approach and have an initial conversation. ABA allows you to apply learned behavior into irl situations so that you won't freeze up due to being high inhib. From my experience, the blackpill has made me much less autistic than before. Me and a foid are going to the gym Sunday and I'm texting her way less autistically than I was 2 years ago. I contribute this to the blackpill.



Questions for IT:

  1. Why should incels go to therapy? 1a) If you answer for their mental health, have you considered that incels have already turned to blackpill philosophy due to them being sick of copes and platitudes that have never helped them succeed? 1b) If you answer due to them being blackpilled, have you considered that you're only using therapy as a means of silencing your ideological opponents under the guise of helping them?
  2. What style of therapy would be good for incels? This is where the nuance and intelligence of IT is tested.
  3. What benefit does therapy provide that could aid incels? Do these benefits outweigh the negatives?
  4. Do you think therapy could give incels a shot at ascension?
  5. Have you been to therapy? How long have you participated in it? What for and why?
Therapy is cope yup. They won’t understand anyway and try to sell you on the delusions we’ve always debunked.

Also never a therapist or counselor that ever thought of a solution I didn’t already consider.

It’s paying a normie to listen to you complain then at the end of it, they don’t relate don’t agree think you’re crazy and take your money.
 
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Absolutely correct. Therapists, normies and females will never be able to understand inceldom or the blackpill.

I will never go to a therapist for my problems it's a waste of money and my time that would be better used on escorts which will at least guarantee me getting laid.

I hope IT touches this thread and tries to refute it, I think they would have an extremely hard time. Unfotunately, I think IT is too low IQ for this kind of conversation.
Nailed it
 
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Therapy is cope yup. They won’t understand anyway and try to sell you on the delusions we’ve always debunked.

Also never a therapist or counselor that ever thought of a solution I didn’t already consider.

It’s paying a normie to listen to you complain then at the end of it, they don’t relate don’t agree think you’re crazy and take your money.
therapists have taught me things that do help but they don't solve the root issue, they only put bandaids on the bullet wound; loneliness, poor self esteem, bad relationship with family, etc.. honestly finding religions and philosophies has helped me more than any of the jewpill mossad shit they've given me
 
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Redditors= retards
 
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were the r/incels users retards
Probably not, but broadly speaking/in general terms redditors and Twitter users are some of the dumbest most Norman NPCs you will find on the globe. Both platforms are controlled by commie anti-free speech fascists who don’t allow “wrong think”. And then those same retards attack the opposition the moment they think other people are doing to them what they’ve done themselves for ages.
 
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Damn man high iq thread and straight facts. I don’t need mental therapy I need height and face therapy
 
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Probably not, but broadly speaking/in general terms redditors and Twitter users are some of the dumbest most Norman NPCs you will find on the globe. Both platforms are controlled by commie anti-free speech fascists who don’t allow “wrong think”. And then those same retards attack the opposition the moment they think other people are doing to them what they’ve done themselves for ages.
reddit "incels" now are idiots who think everyone is a glowie and that they should have to stay on subs with less than 100 followers just to get nuked by the ass dust of reddit mods :feelskek:
 
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If you go to a therapist for your inceldom and the therapist tells you to "work on your personality" and "get some friends who are girls" they are retarded and you should switch therapists. I have been a deranged depression mentalcel all my life and have shopped therapists numerous times, and at least 2/3 of therapists are dogshit and shouldn't have a degree in my experience. After that, you also need to take into account how much the therapist fits you and your problems. If your therapist doesn't understand the concept of an incel and you want them to help you with that, then fucking leave. However, all that crap doesn't mean that it isn't worth trying in order to make your life better. But it is expensive I definitely agree with that. So if you are poor, it's too risky to invest in.
Therapy is good af tho if you do it right. If you don't want to improve your life anyway, then what are you waiting for? Kill yourself already.
 
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If you don't want to improve your life anyway, then what are you waiting for? Kill yourself already.
you just called out most of the forum :feelshaha:
 
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ik how it feels to be strung along as a manpon having to listen to a foids boyfriend problems in hopes i can score one day
 
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ik how it feels to be strung along as a manpon having to listen to a foids boyfriend problems in hopes i can score one day
i don't do it anymore but im considering asking out a roastie at my work bc me and her make eye contact a lot and she's got a fatty my sig :feelsohh:
 
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Very insightful post. The trope of "get therapy, bro" has been around probably longer than the term "blackpill" yet we still hear these suggestions from IT and everyone else when young, isolated men dare to talk about deep personal issues.

I hope one day science makes the breakthrough of genetic engineering and solves the problem with inceldom once and for all. after all it's looks that matter, not they way you are as a person, Chad can be a low IQ NEET who spends all day smoking weed and watching TV yet still get 99% of girls in his age range lining up to suck him off while the rest of the genuinely hard working and intelligent young men have to look forward to getting home and spending the evening doing exactly that chad does but moreso as a cope, no friends, family that cares, nothing. sorry for the monologue, had a shit day.
 
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Of course "therapy" does not work, the only thing to fix an incel is for him to get rid of it, which is getting laid
 
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Of course "therapy" does not work, the only thing to fix an incel is for him to get rid of it, which is getting laid
i don't think poon once is going to cure someone's inceldom (iykyk)
 
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Very insightful post. The trope of "get therapy, bro" has been around probably longer than the term "blackpill" yet we still hear these suggestions from IT and everyone else when young, isolated men dare to talk about deep personal issues.

I hope one day science makes the breakthrough of genetic engineering and solves the problem with inceldom once and for all. after all it's looks that matter, not they way you are as a person, Chad can be a low IQ NEET who spends all day smoking weed and watching TV yet still get 99% of girls in his age range lining up to suck him off while the rest of the genuinely hard working and intelligent young men have to look forward to getting home and spending the evening doing exactly that chad does but moreso as a cope, no friends, family that cares, nothing. sorry for the monologue, had a shit day.
get therapy bro = your problems are legitimate but i don't care enough about them to listen any further
 

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