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Why recognizing approach anxiety is actually good

Balding Subhuman

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A lot of men vent about having approach anxiety when it comes to women. They think that this means that there is something wrong with them.

Approach anxiety is just your own body's instinct and intuition that tells you, that women don't want you. Think Chad or Tyrone has approach anxiety? Approach anxiety is something that only normie and especially ugly men have.

Your own body is actually protecting you from losing even more status, from losing face. From having your self-esteem even more pummeled to the ground. Your own body literally understands that you'll get rejected, before it even happens.

If women actually wanted you to approach them, you wouldn't have approach anxiety. Women would drop the bitch shield and smile at you. Women would flirt with you, make you feel comfortable, even approach you themselves. That's how women do it with attractive men, thus building their confidence even further. For ugly men, women do the opposite. They act in ways that are literally meant to make you less confident. They don't engage in eye contact, they avoid you, they don't small talk with you.

I keep seeing these retarded posts from redditors like "I approached a hundred women last month! Great success! Didn't get any numbers and some women were mean to me but its all good!"

How retarded can one be. That's just self-harm. Don't do it.

Just trust your own intuition and instincts. Your own body doesn't lie to you. If you feel like you're about to faint, then you're probably about to faint. If you feel like you have a food poisoning because you want to vomit your guts out, then you probably do have a food poisoning. If you have social anxiety around women, its because women don't want you around, and your body recognizes this as true, and thus you feel uneasy.
 
Chad doesn’t know what anxiety even is. It never began for us
 
high iq ngl, its happened to the best of us who went through any IMPR00000VING phase in our lifetimes
 
my anxiety is so bad that i havent talked to anyone my age in years
 
Real men don't have anxiety, it's resERved for cursed creations like us to make our lives even more hell.
 
Dnr it's over
 
high IQ. inhibitions and anxieties dont just appear out of thin air, they are there for a reason
 
A lot of men vent about having approach anxiety when it comes to women. They think that this means that there is something wrong with them.

Approach anxiety is just your own body's instinct and intuition that tells you, that women don't want you. Think Chad or Tyrone has approach anxiety? Approach anxiety is something that only normie and especially ugly men have.

Your own body is actually protecting you from losing even more status, from losing face. From having your self-esteem even more pummeled to the ground. Your own body literally understands that you'll get rejected, before it even happens.

If women actually wanted you to approach them, you wouldn't have approach anxiety. Women would drop the bitch shield and smile at you. Women would flirt with you, make you feel comfortable, even approach you themselves. That's how women do it with attractive men, thus building their confidence even further. For ugly men, women do the opposite. They act in ways that are literally meant to make you less confident. They don't engage in eye contact, they avoid you, they don't small talk with you.

I keep seeing these retarded posts from redditors like "I approached a hundred women last month! Great success! Didn't get any numbers and some women were mean to me but its all good!"

How retarded can one be. That's just self-harm. Don't do it.

Just trust your own intuition and instincts. Your own body doesn't lie to you. If you feel like you're about to faint, then you're probably about to faint. If you feel like you have a food poisoning because you want to vomit your guts out, then you probably do have a food poisoning. If you have social anxiety around women, its because women don't want you around, and your body recognizes this as true, and thus you feel uneasy.
I approached well over 400 girls before i gave up. manlet and severe facial disfiguration so it never began for me
 
And nice to see the old avi back :feelsokman:
 
Had to bump this post again since it's so good. Don't forget that this is how most warm "approaches" work as well, the lady makes the guy feel comfortable by smiling, engaging in non-formal conversation and showing other signs of interest during school/work/etc. THEN the guy approaches. Warm approaching before a girl even has shown interest is borderline suicidal unless you already know you are attractive.
 
approaching foid is unnatural and risky , the cultural norm prohibited the interaction with married and unmarried foids without her gurdian or husband present. there was a danger of the interaction being a punishable offence.
 
I have social anxiety around all humans no matter the gender. My body tried to warn me that interacting with them will only bring me more pain.
 
I saw a foid who works in the coffee shop smile at me. She was outside of work sitting on a bench. I didn't say anything to her but smiled back at her. Actually I smiled at her first. Should I have approached her? I have approach anxiety about her
 
Sometimes I have approach anxiety with normies not just women and it is indeed a real thing tbh. Last day I wanted to engage on a random table tennis game at uni only to get treated like a ghost and rejected by the normies there with their group, after spending several minutes of having inexplicable amounts of anxiety to muster the guts to finally talk which I usually don't have while engaging on conversations with random people. Never again kek, my body just knows it's over before it began.
 
incredibly high iq post. this is the fundamental problem with therapy. things are the way they are because of external variables but therapist cucks will gaslight you into believing its something wrong with you and that you have to change
 
This is a 200 IQ post. I can tell from interacting with women that they don’t like me. That’s why I don’t bother approaching females. I’m not a glutton for punishment.
 

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