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SlayerSlayer

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View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HdakU_fourM


One of the most based videos I've ever seen. This guy goes VERY DEEP, and predicts that with the way things are going, the far right, rural and religious, will without a doubt usurp civilization again
 
Dating is what homosexuals do, casual sex than a relationship.

Courting, what the straight people used to do, was all about negotiation for exclusivity.

Tinder is based on Grindr, a gay dating app.

Dating is by definition, gay. The entire dynamic is fucked on a ritualistic level because heterosexuals have adopted the gay dating strategy.

Not like there are even any non-retarded women left to court, and that only applies if they find you attractive first.

Good provider? Daddy government took care of that. GGWP.
 
Dating is what homosexuals do, casual sex than a relationship.

Courting, what the straight people used to do, was all about negotiation for exclusivity.

Tinder is based on Grindr, a gay dating app.

Dating is by definition, gay. The entire dynamic is fucked on a ritualistic level because heterosexuals have adopted the gay dating strategy.

Not like there are even any non-retarded women left to court, and that only applies if they find you attractive first.

Good provider? Daddy government took care of that. GGWP.
Interesting point
 
I'm surprised just how mainstream incels have become. Still haven't seen anyone talk about in real life outside. But then again I am a bit of a loner.
 
Dating is what homosexuals do, casual sex than a relationship.

Courting, what the straight people used to do, was all about negotiation for exclusivity.

Tinder is based on Grindr, a gay dating app.

Dating is by definition, gay. The entire dynamic is fucked on a ritualistic level because heterosexuals have adopted the gay dating strategy.

Not like there are even any non-retarded women left to court, and that only applies if they find you attractive first.

Good provider? Daddy government took care of that. GGWP.
i've always shared this opinion.
 
Never have and never will be on a date but dating a Foid can destroy u life with face accusations like rape , stalking and AVO
 
Dating is what homosexuals do, casual sex than a relationship.

Courting, what the straight people used to do, was all about negotiation for exclusivity.

Tinder is based on Grindr, a gay dating app.

Dating is by definition, gay. The entire dynamic is fucked on a ritualistic level because heterosexuals have adopted the gay dating strategy.

Not like there are even any non-retarded women left to court, and that only applies if they find you attractive first.

Good provider? Daddy government took care of that. GGWP.
Almost. I have a small objection:

"Courting, what the straight people used to do"

Courting is a negotiation between noblemen and luxury prostitutes ("courtesans") for the price (often in favors) of their temporary companionship.

Based men, including noblemen, treated foids as livestock. Noblemen bought, sold and traded their princesses like they would do with a province, town or another piece of land; These courtesans were often daughters of bankrupt noblemen who were sent to the court (hence the name) or a richer nobleman to "develop her gifts", that is: learn dance, music, literature, etc. but would often offer themselves for temporary companionship (sex and arm-candy) to some noblemen in exchange of favors, and the ones who were luckier managed to wed a nobleman.

peasants traded their daughters for a goat or a dozen chickens. Merchants married their daughters to each other in order to consolidate business interests.

In all non-decadent times, society treats foids as a more colorful type of livestock, an idea I support.
 
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Fags don't date, they just have casual sex.
My point was the order of operations, even if gays or lesbians do date, they usually are far more sexually active before the relationship begins, whereas traditional couples were more sexually active after, so the woman cucks the man by throwing sex at him initially until she is pregnant.

Then that shit turns off.

But today? LoL, women who sleep around don't want to settle down with their one-night stand at least until their mid-30s.

Almost. I have a small objection:



Courting is a negotiation between noblemen and luxury prostitutes ("courtesans") for the price (often in favors) of their temporary companionship.

Based men, including noblemen, treated foids as livestock. Noblemen bought, sold and traded their princesses like they would do with a province, town or another piece of land; These courtesans were often daughters of bankrupt noblemen who were sent to the court (hence the name) or a richer nobleman to "develop her gifts", that is: learn dance, music, literature, etc. but would often offer themselves for temporary companionship (sex and arm-candy) to some noblemen in exchange of favors, and the ones who were luckier managed to wed a nobleman.

peasants traded their daughters for a goat or a dozen chickens. Merchants married their daughters to each other in order to consolidate business interests.

In all non-decadent times, society treats foids as a more colorful type of livestock, an idea I support.
I agree, but all depictions of courting in polite media were always a business transaction, which is what I meant by negotiation.
 
Dating is what homosexuals do, casual sex than a relationship.

Courting, what the straight people used to do, was all about negotiation for exclusivity.

Tinder is based on Grindr, a gay dating app.

Dating is by definition, gay. The entire dynamic is fucked on a ritualistic level because heterosexuals have adopted the gay dating strategy.

Not like there are even any non-retarded women left to court, and that only applies if they find you attractive first.

Good provider? Daddy government took care of that. GGWP.
This makes a lot of sense, more so than i expected.
 
I agree, but all depictions of courting in polite media were always a business transaction, which is what I meant by negotiation.
Courting is a negotiation.

--- ...so, Lady Anne, will you consider my proposal to join me in Lord Robert's evening balls this summer?
--- I would love to, but I'm afraid I would only embarass you in front of everybody. The issue is my brother, Sir. I still get night tremors, and my legs get heavy as I think I'll sleep badly another night worrying about him. I don't think it would be prudent to partake in these dancing nights while I am worried sick about him. If only he were to be moved to a lieutenant position that opened in the town where my family's estate is, I'd be much more tranquil...
--- That's so sad, Lady Anne, I'll see to a friend of mine in the army that your family be reunited again...
--- That would be soooo kind of you...
 
Courting is a negotiation.

--- ...so, Lady Anne, will you consider my proposal to join me in Lord Robert's evening balls this summer?
--- I would love to, but I'm afraid I would only embarass you in front of everybody. The issue is my brother, Sir. I still get night tremors, and my legs get heavy as I think I'll sleep badly another night worrying about him. I don't think it would be prudent to partake in these dancing nights while I am worried sick about him. If only he were to be moved to a lieutenant position that opened in the town where my family's estate is, I'd be much more tranquil...
--- That's so sad, Lady Anne, I'll see to a friend of mine in the army that your family be reunited again...
--- That would be soooo kind of you...
Yes, but in the upper tier of society, where marriage originated as a social construct, the negotiation was the basis of that business transaction, which is what marriage was, a business contract, which is what it should be today but you know, feminism.

I.E. She has my babies; I look after her; I take ownership of her property as a bribe to stay exclusive. That is why fathers gave away their daughters at weddings. Literally passing the buck on to you. A recent example of China, where the tradition is the same.

Dude offered her parents 1 mill to marry, parents asked for 1.8mill, dude fucked off. The dynamic is different because of the wealth being passed around between rich families but the business contract is still the same.

That is exactly what I said, courting is a negotiation, regardless if it is for a hooker or your future baby mama.

Regardless, this custom is pointless now with modern, secular, liberal people. Not saying that the christ cucks are any better but at least the bible says that the woman should follow her husband. Good luck finding that dynamic post-feminism.
 
Watched the whole thing. A bit soyish, but he made some good points and I would say this is a decent summary of the dating issue today.
 
Dating is what homosexuals do, casual sex than a relationship.

Courting, what the straight people used to do, was all about negotiation for exclusivity.

Tinder is based on Grindr, a gay dating app.

Dating is by definition, gay. The entire dynamic is fucked on a ritualistic level because heterosexuals have adopted the gay dating strategy.

Not like there are even any non-retarded women left to court, and that only applies if they find you attractive first.

Good provider? Daddy government took care of that. GGWP.
high iq. so compare how heterosexuals originally dated
 
they put these thumbnails with attractive white people on their videos and they really think that i am gonna click on them, i don't think i will.
 
Dating is what homosexuals do, casual sex than a relationship.

Courting, what the straight people used to do, was all about negotiation for exclusivity.

Tinder is based on Grindr, a gay dating app.

Dating is by definition, gay. The entire dynamic is fucked on a ritualistic level because heterosexuals have adopted the gay dating strategy.

Not like there are even any non-retarded women left to court, and that only applies if they find you attractive first.

Good provider? Daddy government took care of that. GGWP.
 
His face btw
Whatifalthist appearance
 
Yes, but in the upper tier of society, where marriage originated as a social construct, the negotiation was the basis of that business transaction, which is what marriage was, a business contract, which is what it should be today but you know, feminism.

I.E. She has my babies; I look after her; I take ownership of her property as a bribe to stay exclusive. That is why fathers gave away their daughters at weddings. Literally passing the buck on to you. A recent example of China, where the tradition is the same.
All human interaction is too some extend transactional, but I'd rather live in a society where it isn't seen as a business contract, and more the legal binding between 2 individuals that care for each other.
 
All human interaction is too some extend transactional, but I'd rather live in a society where it isn't seen as a business contract, and more the legal binding between 2 individuals that care for each other.
I disagree. Things would be much different if we were upfront about how much of our modern dating is just an unfair trade deal.

Time for some normie shit: How it should work

Feelings mean sweet fuck all in divorce court, they should matter just as little.

Do you void the contract? Relationship over, you pay damages. No more divorce court bullshit.
 

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