Why INCEL males often do not have friends and are complete loners [explained]

[Bangkok or bust]

So Normies think we don't have friends because were "fucked up in the head", "unpleasant to people" or whatever.

Why do many of us not have any male friends? It's very easy to explain let me tell you from my own experience and from reading many many books. The most common themes for friendless males are:

- Be unattractive.
- Be small or pubertycel / look much younger than your actual age. Small or poor growth (stunted growth) is also tied with sporting and manhood failure. Sport success is a big thing in colleges and young men. Being seen as a "man" rather than a "young boy" is also a big thing for teen / early-mid 20's males.
- Be shy.
- Have "gayface" (underdeveloped-feminine) even though your not gay, you'll be negatively perceived as being gay, so alas..shunned.
- Being avoided on induction day in college/uni. 100% looks-based right there. If people don't bother being friendly with you, why should you with them? They've made up their mind to avoid you on day fucking 1, hour fucking 1.
- People are bluepilled and you can't stand being around them
- Your treated as a low-status, lower value male because of your looks. (made fun of, teased like a court jester or Baldric from Blackadder etc). Its best to detach yourself from negative company that drags you down like this.



Popular guys from class/school don't want any of it. Popular/normie cliques stay closed. Girls pick up on it and shun you too.

Your options are other weirdo's like yourself;. Small, shy, unattractive, introverted, underdeveloped physcially. Lack success in most physical areas. Very rare positive feedback (if any). You might be the only guy like this in class like myself.

Seals the deal for your school & college years. You might think University students be different? Lol.

You won't make any close friends past uni, just Acquaintance's that come and go.

Uneducated normies and spies of this forum should get this book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/184169424...e=395261&creativeASIN=184169424X&linkCode=asn

 

[Jockcel]

Even weirdos rejected me back in HS. I was an outcast among outcasts.

 

[CaptainRussia]

no youre all wrong. the misfits are ugly because of their personality, not the other way around. their personality made their bones recessed. the friend of my cousin knows a dude, who was short and super ugly in his twenties, but then he changed his personality and now he is 7' and good looking. your prime is in your 30s, friends will come to you when you least expect it. just cut out that toxicity. teehee

for real. thats where it starts. bullying. kids who are shorter and weaker then their peers get bullied. end of story

 

[Zesto]

- People are bluepilled and you can't stand being around them

This was my main reason but I'm sure some of the other stuff applies.

You won't make any close friends past uni, just Acquaintance's that come and go.

That's why now that I start my senior year next week I'm going to try to socialcirclemaxx as much as possible even though I never bothered before.

I'm going to hang out at student lounge areas between classes, try to be friendly with people there. Get as many phone numbers as possible.

I want to find an Asian waifu before I leave.

Once I graduate I'll know its truly over for me in the west and am prepared to accept that.

 

[CIA nigger]

the blackpill manifests early in high school. its always the jocks/chads who group together with the sluts/stacys and its always the nerdy autists who get mocked

 

[VisVoi]

For me it is a combination of me being ugly and a cunt at the same time.

In this case, "cunt" means not being able to conform to normie society. I am incapable of just letting shit slide and smiling like all normies tend to do. Being genuine in 2018 is a death sentence.

 

[Kirito3]

Even weirdos rejected me back in HS. I was an outcast among outcasts.

What is your PSL?

 

[Jockcel]

What is your PSL?

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[RopeShow]

I remember attending a goth meet up a few years ago, a whole bunch of dudes there openly admitted that that was the first party they ever attended in their lives, yet when they started forming groups to chit chat and stuff, I was totally ignored, isolated among outcasts and fellow weirdos.

Humans suck.

 

[Adzie]

Being awkward and having bad social skills. Even if you're friendly, normies pick up on this and alienate you regardless. Life isn't like hollywood movies where the awkward nerdy kid somehow has extroverted friends to have wacky adventures with.

 

[Deleted member 5861]

also aspergers. Just give up on making friends, gfs, etc if you have that. Unless you're chad tier looks.

 

[andinocel]

Throughout the years, people that have gone out of their way to befriend me have done it to gain some type of advantage --- classmates/co-workers asking for rides when their car breaks down, asking for money, foids asking me to accompany them when they buy something off Craigslist. These people mysteriously move on once they settle in to the new area they moved to or the foid finds her Chad.

 

[Murdoch89]

Your right 10000000%, that's why now I'm in a bar drinking all alone, as i do all the dam FUCKING time,even being unable to talk is even a death sentence

 

[incel scum]

the obvious reason is a lack of social skills (caused by inceldom)

 

[Unwanted]

All of these apply to me as well, but I would add the small frame as well, nobody takes you seriously if you have a small frame.

 

[Deleted member 10124]

So Normies think we don't have friends because were "fucked up in the head", "unpleasant to people" or whatever.

Why do many of us not have any male friends? It's very easy to explain let me tell you from my own experience and from reading many many books. The most common themes for friendless males are:

- Be unattractive.
- Be small or pubertycel / look much younger than your actual age. Small or poor growth (stunted growth) is also tied with sporting and manhood failure. Sport success is a big thing in colleges and young men. Being seen as a "man" rather than a "young boy" is also a big thing for teen / early-mid 20's males.
- Be shy.
- Have "gayface" (underdeveloped-feminine) even though your not gay, you'll be negatively perceived as being gay, so alas..shunned.
- Being avoided on induction day in college/uni. 100% looks-based right there. If people don't bother being friendly with you, why should you with them? They've made up their mind to avoid you on day fucking 1, hour fucking 1.
- People are bluepilled and you can't stand being around them
- Your treated as a low-status, lower value male because of your looks. (made fun of, teased like a court jester or Baldric from Blackadder etc). Its best to detach yourself from negative company that drags you down like this.



Popular guys from class/school don't want any of it. Popular/normie cliques stay closed. Girls pick up on it and shun you too.

Your options are other weirdo's like yourself;. Small, shy, unattractive, introverted, underdeveloped physcially. Lack success in most physical areas. Very rare positive feedback (if any). You might be the only guy like this in class like myself.

Seals the deal for your school & college years. You might think University students be different? Lol.

You won't make any close friends past uni, just Acquaintance's that come and go.

Uneducated normies and spies of this forum should get this book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/184169424...e=395261&creativeASIN=184169424X&linkCode=asn

This mate.

All of these apply to me as well, but I would add the small frame as well, nobody takes you seriously if you have a small frame.

Being awkward and having bad social skills. Even if you're friendly, normies pick up on this and alienate you regardless. Life isn't like hollywood movies where the awkward nerdy kid somehow has extroverted friends to have wacky adventures with.

 

[Deleted member 1410]

the blackpill manifests early in high school. its always the jocks/chads who group together with the sluts/stacys and its always the nerdy autists who get mocked

that's my experience. luckily puberty hit me hard and I look sorta buff. the height and what comes out of my mouth is why normalfags hate me. t. unironic 30 yr old boomer nazbol living in jewmerica. the one close friend I have is my roommate who is literally a psycho. but, as you know, you couldn't tell by just talking to us.

 

[DarkLizardLuck]

Being awkward and having bad social skills. Even if you're friendly, normies pick up on this and alienate you regardless. Life isn't like hollywood movies where the awkward nerdy kid somehow has extroverted friends to have wacky adventures with.

Agree. When I interact, I fail hard. Wasn’t socialized in child/ young-adulthood. This left deficits re: recognizing social cues and interacting “correctly.” When I talk normies run.

 

[TheRealChincel]

So it's not our autism or shotty personalities? CuckTears thinks you can get friends 1,2,3 because a deformed guy they saw once had a friend, JFL.

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

true but it's not just this

some are even shitheads that are just as subhuman as you, but fight to convince themselves they are better and make continuing friendships impossible
my best friend started to lord over me his higher grades and how he used to play pool with his university math professor while i struggled to get passing grades (i got A+ in other courses that were the actual focus of our programme), literal childhood best friend running snarky normie exclusionary game, it was pretty much over

 

[Phaoni]

Uhhhhhhhh the reason incels have no friends is because they're ugly and unattractive case closed thanks

 

[Uglyman]

Becuase men don't want to hang with pussy repellers

 

[GeneticDysfunction]

Lmao friends are a waste of time and a bunch of useless parasites waiting to fuck you over.

 

[Hoez4life]

Friendships are not real. All friendships are built on selfish reasons for example:

“My friend is funny he makes me laugh”
“My friend has a car and can drive me places”
“My friend is rich and I can borrow money from him”

If you don’t have any friends its not because you are ugly it’s because you have no value to the others

 

[Deleted member 7573]

"Incel Males" that is redundant

 

[Juxtaposition6]

Pin this.

 

[youngswedecel]

Even weirdos rejected me back in HS. I was an outcast among outcasts.

I ruled the weirdos pretty much. As soon as I got the chance to join a normie friendgroup I ditched them and I regret that, seeing as the normies now have ditched me (another story)

 

[fOreVER]

At this point I dont see why I shouldn't go ER