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Discussion Why having standards is not volcedom

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Sometimes bluepillers argue that you're volcel if you don't lower your standards, even people here sometimes.
I disagree with this.

MY standards are simply down to the point i'm no longer attracted to that person. I can't force physical attraction to landwhales. Not that landwhales give me a chance either anyway, but that's besides the point.

Even if a foid below my standards were to give me a chance and I were to give her a chance, that relationship would ultimately fail and be theatre for both individuals.
I still don't respect/have sympathy for the bottom of the barrel foids though because
1. They never give me a chance + sometimes even higher standards than foids better than them
2. Usually their unattractiveness is something they can control, like their weight. Unlike the things they rate us for (Height) which are immutable.
 
My only physical standards for a woman are that she isn't deformed, morbidly obese, or extremely unhygienic; there are some other factors—and exceptions could be made—obviously, but these are the primary ones. Of course, even those would not want me.
 
My only physical standards for a woman are that she isn't deformed, morbidly obese, or extremely unhygienic; there are some other factors—and exceptions could be made—obviously, but these are the primary ones. Of course, even those would not want me.
 
I'd fuck almost any foid tho i wouldn't date a non virgin.
 
My only physical standards for a woman are that she isn't deformed, morbidly obese, or extremely unhygienic; there are some other factors—and exceptions could be made—obviously, but these are the primary ones. Of course, even those would not want me.
Yup same, include that she's not autistic and borderline retard for me.


I'd fuck almost any foid tho i wouldn't date a non virgin.
You can assume that basically every foid that has reached puberty is a non-virgin though.
 
Sometimes bluepillers argue that you're volcel if you don't lower your standards, even people here sometimes.
I disagree with this.

MY standards are simply down to the point i'm no longer attracted to that person. I can't force physical attraction to landwhales. Not that landwhales give me a chance either anyway, but that's besides the point.

Even if a foid below my standards were to give me a chance and I were to give her a chance, that relationship would ultimately fail and be theatre for both individuals.
I still don't respect/have sympathy for the bottom of the barrel foids though because
1. They never give me a chance + sometimes even higher standards than foids better than them
2. Usually their unattractiveness is something they can control, like their weight. Unlike the things they rate us for (Height) which are immutable.

Would you have a relationship with a retarded one?
 
I'd have to be physically attracted to her (and vice versa), we'd have to be compatible personality-wise, the logistics have to work, and there can be no deal-breakers such as STDs, children, major health problems, the list goes on.
 
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Would you have a relationship with a retarded one?
Maybe, I'd probably give her a chance initally try to make it work. But I don't think the relationship would be succesful and or satisfactory in the long run.

But the hypothetical ultimately doesn't matter, because no foid ever gives me a chance anyway.
 
Well, you can be hideous and stacy-only at the same time I suppose!
 
MY standards are simply down to the point i'm no longer attracted to that person
By that logic "femcels" are real, cause they are only attracted to chads
My only physical standards for a woman are that she isn't deformed, morbidly obese, or extremely unhygienic; there are some other factors—and exceptions could be made—obviously, but these are the primary ones. Of course, even those would not want me.
I'd fuck almost any foid tho i wouldn't date a non virgin.
 
Sometimes bluepillers argue that you're volcel if you don't lower your standards, even people here sometimes.
I disagree with this.

MY standards are simply down to the point i'm no longer attracted to that person. I can't force physical attraction to landwhales. Not that landwhales give me a chance either anyway, but that's besides the point.

Even if a foid below my standards were to give me a chance and I were to give her a chance, that relationship would ultimately fail and be theatre for both individuals.
I still don't respect/have sympathy for the bottom of the barrel foids though because
1. They never give me a chance + sometimes even higher standards than foids better than them
2. Usually their unattractiveness is something they can control, like their weight. Unlike the things they rate us for (Height) which are immutable.
I am so beggarly that I would be happy even with a subhuman fat chick because of my desperation
But because they have infinite SMV, they will simply choose htn-chad
 
By that logic "femcels" are real, cause they are only attracted to chads
Wrong, because there countless simps attracted to her.
I'm not incel, because I'm attracted to 'only' 99% of women instead of 100%. I'm incel because 0% of women are attracted to me.
 
Wrong, because there countless simps attracted to her.
I'm not incel, because I'm attracted to 'only' 99% of women instead of 100%. I'm incel because 0% of women are attracted to me.
Fair enough but if a fat (not to the point were she is diable and about to die) foid asked you out would you reject her ?
 
Fair enough but if a fat (not to the point were she is diable and about to die) foid asked you out would you reject her ?
No, like I said I would give it a chance. I can't magically be physically attracted to her, but I would give it a chance yes. Maybe I'd be attracted to her pERsonalITy, but I do think that that relationship would not be very satisfactory.
 
i get rejected by landwhales
 
I'm genuinely curious: How would you reply if someone called you a volcel, arguing that you could just save a few hundred bucks and you'd inevitably find some foid who would do you for a few bills?

I suppose if you dissect the word "incel," it's all about sex, but would you have sex with a foid whose very physique disgusts you? Also, and this might just be me being paranoid, but a quick Google search told me that condoms are only 98% effective, and that is assuming that it's used perfectly. Due to human error, the effectiveness is probably a lot lower. And once the condom fails, you are in deep shit. If you are lucky, the foid is reasonable and uses birth control, but if she isn't keen to prevent a pregnancy, there is nothing you can do anymore, and then it's, "Hello, baby daddy. Where's my alimony?" That's what scares me the most, to be honest.
 
Wanting my looksmatch is volceldom?
Also realistic looksmatch not the "foids have infinite SMV" looksmatch
(aka comparing foid obesity to a mans height)
 
My standards are as long as I can get my pp hard
 

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