They self-harm for an entirely different reason than us. Men self-harm because they feel otherwise numb, just to feel something. Or as a type of punishment for some perceived failure.
Women *only* do it for attention, some of them are just so retarded or insane they think self harm is worth the attention they will get from it. That's why they will never shy away from telling you they self harm: in their mind they hope you will go and tell people, they'll go and tell people, and eventually everyone will be talking about them and how they self-harm.
It's also why women are 3x MORE LIKELY to attempt suicide but men are 4 TIMES MORE LIKELY to actually die by suicide. Women have suicidal thoughts wondering how everyone will think of them when they're gone. Men have suicidal thoughts because they are trying to solve a problem. Women are completely superficial, retarded, and vain.