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This topic is perhaps the most interesting to me, but I have absolutely no one to discuss it with. And probably it's not worth discussing it here, but I'll try anyway. I will be using a translator, so I apologize in advance for any errors in my text.
So why doesn't God help ugly guys like us find a girlfriend?
After all, if we go to Church and stubbornly pray to God to send us a girl, then nothing will change. Girls, regardless of their religion, remain the same girls for whom the appearance of a guy is very important. No one wants to be with an ugly guy, even if he has a great personality. Girls would rather choose a good-looking bully or criminal than a good-natured incel.
Moreover, Christian girls probably already have experience of relationships with Chads, and why do they need an incel who has not even held a hand with a girl in his whole life? Moreover, they are probably obsessed with the fact that sex is only after marriage (sex with chads does not count lol). For incels, this is very terrible, they are simply not mentally ready for this. It's the same if you take a shovel from a little boy in the sandbox, instead give him a machine gun and send him to war. Nothing good will come of it.
So I have no idea what to do. I believe that there is a God, but I also know that God will never help me find a girl and I will die a lonely loser.
I like Orthodox Christianity the most, but in the same USA this denomination has less than 1% of followers. In addition, there are a lot of representatives of other religions, as well as atheists, so, unfortunately, I'm not sure that they will understand me here...
I don't know why I wrote all this. It seems very pointless... But what inspired me to write this text was that I came across porn with a beautiful girl and I started praying to God not to break my nofap lol (I have 8 days today) and fortunately this time I succeeded avoid falling. But sadness remained in my heart. Sadness that I will never have sex with a girl like in that adult video.
So why doesn't God help ugly guys like us find a girlfriend?
After all, if we go to Church and stubbornly pray to God to send us a girl, then nothing will change. Girls, regardless of their religion, remain the same girls for whom the appearance of a guy is very important. No one wants to be with an ugly guy, even if he has a great personality. Girls would rather choose a good-looking bully or criminal than a good-natured incel.
Moreover, Christian girls probably already have experience of relationships with Chads, and why do they need an incel who has not even held a hand with a girl in his whole life? Moreover, they are probably obsessed with the fact that sex is only after marriage (sex with chads does not count lol). For incels, this is very terrible, they are simply not mentally ready for this. It's the same if you take a shovel from a little boy in the sandbox, instead give him a machine gun and send him to war. Nothing good will come of it.
So I have no idea what to do. I believe that there is a God, but I also know that God will never help me find a girl and I will die a lonely loser.
I like Orthodox Christianity the most, but in the same USA this denomination has less than 1% of followers. In addition, there are a lot of representatives of other religions, as well as atheists, so, unfortunately, I'm not sure that they will understand me here...
I don't know why I wrote all this. It seems very pointless... But what inspired me to write this text was that I came across porn with a beautiful girl and I started praying to God not to break my nofap lol (I have 8 days today) and fortunately this time I succeeded avoid falling. But sadness remained in my heart. Sadness that I will never have sex with a girl like in that adult video.