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Discussion Why does watching porn "destroy" your mind but having sex doesn't?

GoyimLivesMatter

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Ever since 2019 there has been a huge influx of "porn is bad man :soy:" normies on the internet, probably because of the rampant increase of inceldom in this modern day and age and normies always having to cope and blame something (porn in this case). Now I'm not saying porn is good for you, almost everyone today knows that it causes a lot of negative effects, but I won't go into the details because that's not what this thread is about.

Now my question is, why is everyone pushing this STOP WATCHING PORN narrative but no one says STOP HAVING SEX. In other words, why is porn bad but having sex isn't? It's obvious that the main difference is that having sex involves 2 people and masturbating involves you and your monitor, but how does your brain know the difference? Your brain sees something arousing (pixels or real person) and sends blood to your dick. And when you're jerking off, how does your brain know if you're jerking it, or you're getting a handjob or penetrating a pussy. And why exactly is it damaging your brain if humans are designed to find certain things arousing and to ejaculate?

I've reached the point where I just don't fucking care about the negative effects of watching porn anymore, obviously it would be better to have sex but since I can't, this is pretty much the only cope that gives me at least a little bit of pleasure. My shitty life is too short to live with my balls about to explode and having sex on my mind 24/7, which is essentially what nofap has done for me. It just made me way hornier and frustrated and I didn't gain any superpowers.
 
It’s cause watching porn is far more likely to send you down the fetish pipeline (which frequently ends with cuckoldry or troon/ladyboyism), plus watching porn is in and of itself kind of a cucked act since you’re jerking off to another man fucking a girl you find hot.

This isn’t to say sex addiction isn’t bad either, but it’s two different beasts
 
It’s cause watching porn is far more likely to send you down the fetish pipeline (which frequently ends with cuckoldry or troon/ladyboyism), plus watching porn is in and of itself kind of a cucked act since you’re jerking off to another man fucking a girl you find hot.

This isn’t to say sex addiction isn’t bad either, but it’s two different beasts
Well what if you only watch solo/lesbian porn (like in my case). I can't stand seeing guys/cocks in porn it makes me incredibly jealous and like you said a cuck
 
Not having sex destroys your brain, and people who don't have sex watch porn to satisfy the sexual need, so they mistakenly assume that their porn addiction is the cause of their problems, and not the consequence.
 
That's why I edge maxx to JBs snaps in gta5
 
 
No one ever said sex doesn’t destroy you
 

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