Why does mentalceldom exist?

[23yearsanincel]

Anyone else here think they just might have adequate charisma, looks, etc, but are just too neurotic or insane to get a gf. Doesn't it feel by design? Why does modern society want us caged in like this? Domesticated. Our ancestors were able to reproduce. Are we just the end of the line? Or is this somehow targeted sterilization through cultural propaganda? A long long con. I just see too many incels who deserve a shot, too many incels with the same story as me. I suffer for us all. Your pain is mine now.

 

[Deleted member]

i'd say it's just a cope for most of the people that identify as such, really.

 

[Vodaccenu]

i'd say it's just a cope for most of the people that identify as such, really.

 

[23yearsanincel]

i'd say it's just a cope for most of the people that identify as such, really.

Probably, idk what to believe, I get so much conflicting advice even from within the community. I must accept my suffering regardless.

 

[The End]

I've gotten pretty good at putting up a mask of a friendly and empathetic man. Inside I am rotten, but it takes a while to see it.

I can't get girls to talk to me because I am ugly. There are plenty of psycho Chads; Chads who beat and cheat on girlfriends with no feelings of remorse, and who overly-imbibe drugs leading to self-destruction.

 

[23yearsanincel]

I've gotten pretty good at putting up a mask of a friendly and empathetic man. Inside I am rotten, but it takes a while to see it.

I can't get girls to talk to me because I am ugly. There are plenty of psycho Chads; Chads who beat and cheat on girlfriends with no feelings of remorse, and who overly-imbibe drugs leading to self-destruction.

I mean more, people with social anxiety, agoraphobia, schizotypal, etc. Things that make you not want to interact with others. But I guess these probably manifest as a natural cope.

 

[The End]

I mean more, people with social anxiety, agoraphobia, schizotypal, etc. Things that make you not want to interact with others. But I guess these probably manifest as a natural cope.

Yeh, it's a chicken or egg scenario, isn't it?

It's like if you do something well and people compliment you. You get more confident, more people pay attention to you and enjoy your positivity, give you more compliments, and your confidence keeps expanding until you're an insufferable ass-hole.

Except in our case it's the inverse of all that. Except for ending up an insufferable asshole; that's the same in both scenarios.

 

[23yearsanincel]

Yeh, it's a chicken or egg scenario, isn't it?

It's like if you do something well and people compliment you. You get more confident, more people pay attention to you and enjoy your positivity, give you more compliments, and your confidence keeps expanding until you're an insufferable ass-hole.

Except in our case it's the inverse of all that. Except for ending up an insufferable asshole. That's the same in both scenarios.

well said man