Why do you think you became an incel?

[GooberMcKee]

I find common patterns among the background of incels and it's not just looks, there's a whole set of things stacked against us. A lot of it includes poverty, lack of opportunities, and shitty parents. I noticed that a lot of "autistic" people come from shitty backgrounds as well. Looking back for me, it's:

1. Growing up with neglectful parents, lack of medical care, and malnutrition which affected my height, musculature and bone structure, and overall health
2. Growing up eating high carb, low quality poor people food despite being financially middle class because my mom comes from a trashy family and didn't know how to cook, which gave me diabetes and it's a struggle to gain muscles and lose fat even if I work out a lot because of destroyed metabolism
3. Nobody seems to have close friends or even really friends at all in my immediate family, and my extended family is also antisocial. Neither me or my siblings are married even though we are aged 30-40.
4. I had stints of homelessness and foster care throughout my childhood and early adulthood. I spent most of my adulthood in poverty, living in cheap rooms in crack houses, and without access to places like college where you meet non-trashy people, so my social group was either lacking or full of fucked up weirdos also in poverty, federal convicts, drug users, personality disorders. I had to pick between having fucked up "friends" or not having friends at all. Also my own stench of poverty, trauma, and lack of social skills drove normies away.
4. Intergenerational trauma. My grandma was a mistress and had my mom, so they were treated like shit by society. From what I heard, my grandma didn't really stick around to be a mother to her kids and spent a lot of her "husbands" money to travel and enjoy life while she dumped her kids onto an illiterate nanny who comes from a trashy background. Mom grew up antisocial and with no social skills, and talks like she's from the trailer park.
5. My dad was barely around though he didn't abandon my mom, so me and my siblings grew up lacking a strong male role model and father figure. My siblings hate our dad. Mom and dad got together because dad thought she was hot, mom got him by getting knocked up (unintentionally).

That's how I became an incel. It's like I never had a chance. What's your story?

 

[wereq]

You are born an incel. You don't become one. Inceldom is directly determined by your genetics. Read this:

Deeper causes of inceldom that I've identified so far.

Domestication Progressive loss of skeletal and craniofacial robustness. Shift from K Selection to R Selection/Slow to Fast Life History Shift from conservative patriarchal culture of traditional gender roles to one of promiscuity, degeneracy, chad-takes-all sexual feudalism. Behavioral Sink...

incels.is

 

[greggymex7]

Soyciety and hypergamy

 

[wereq]

A lot of it includes poverty, lack of opportunities, and shitty parents.

All of this is due to bad genetics. Poor people are poor for a reason.

 

[Pancakecel]

my face, end of GrAY

 

[I want virgin girl]

All you wrote is a cope. You are incel because you are ugly.

Also this:

You are born an incel. You don't become one. Inceldom is directly determined by your genetics. Read this:

And this:

my face, end of GrAY

 

[copemaxx9002]

You are born an incel. You don't become one. Inceldom is directly determined by your genetics.

 

[autisticveganretard]

• Why do you think you became an incel?

- undiagnosed autism for a long time. had it diagnosed in my last 20's. + im super shy
- never had a sister
- unloving mother. i never felt loved or cared for my either of my parents, especially my mothers. i grew up hating my mother, and still do. she was a horrible parent, honestly
- moved around a lot, so i lost the small friend group that i had. also my best friend when i was 12 years old moved to another city, which was a huge blow for me, as i had no other friends. and i moved to a brang new city at 14, so in highschool i made ZERO friends, always went to tim hortons to eat a cinnamon bun alone during lunch

4. I had stints of homelessness and foster care throughout my childhood and early adulthood. I spent most of my adulthood in poverty, living in cheap rooms in crack houses, and without access to places like college where you meet non-trashy people, so my social group was either lacking or full of fucked up weirdos also in poverty, federal convicts, drug users, personality disorders. I had to pick between having fucked up "friends" or not having friends at all. Also my own stench of poverty, trauma, and lack of social skills drove normies away.

ahhahaha, me too!
ive lived in 2nd base in scarborough, YMCA house back when it was still up, turning point, i slept a night at covenant house. all of this was in toronto in the mid 2000's. right now you cant even get a shelter bed, so you are forced to sleep on the streets. all of toronto shelter beds are full, and have been for years. all of this was at 16/17 when i ran away from home because it was so unbearable living with my parents. they really are horrible people. i was kicked out of my parents home at 18, because i was forced to live with them for some legal issues i got into

i also camped out in a tent for several weeks in a park in toronto, but it was away from core downtown, because normie homeless people scare me, so i try to stay away from them as much as i can. id easily rather go without access to free food if i can avoid other homeless people

2. Growing up eating high carb, low quality poor people food despite being financially middle class because my mom comes from a trashy family and didn't know how to cook, which gave me diabetes and it's a struggle to gain muscles and lose fat even if I work out a lot because of destroyed metabolism

sorry for the random tangent, but there is evidence that carbs dont cause diabetes at all. lots of vegans eat very high carbs because they dont eat meat or dairy, but vegans have the lowest diabetes rates out of any dietary group. i dont think theres good evidence to suggest that dietary carbs alone, even processed carbs, are cause of diabetes

 

[Friezacel]

Me being manlet and me having AssburgERs

 

[GooberMcKee]

- undiagnosed autism for a long time. had it diagnosed in my last 20's. + im super shy
- never had a sister
- unloving mother. i never felt loved or cared for my either of my parents, especially my mothers. i grew up hating my mother, and still do. she was a horrible parent, honestly
- moved around a lot, so i lost the small friend group that i had. also my best friend when i was 12 years old moved to another city, which was a huge blow for me, as i had no other friends. and i moved to a brang new city at 14, so in highschool i made ZERO friends, always went to tim hortons to eat a cinnamon bun alone during lunch



ahhahaha, me too!
ive lived in 2nd base in scarborough, YMCA house back when it was still up, turning point, i slept a night at covenant house. all of this was in toronto in the mid 2000's. right now you cant even get a shelter bed, so you are forced to sleep on the streets. all of toronto shelter beds are full, and have been for years. all of this was at 16/17 when i ran away from home because it was so unbearable living with my parents. they really are horrible people. i was kicked out of my parents home at 18, because i was forced to live with them for some legal issues i got into

i also camped out in a tent for several weeks in a park in toronto, but it was away from core downtown, because normie homeless people scare me, so i try to stay away from them as much as i can. id easily rather go without access to free food if i can avoid other homeless people



sorry for the random tangent, but there is evidence that carbs dont cause diabetes at all. lots of vegans eat very high carbs because they dont eat meat or dairy, but vegans have the lowest diabetes rates out of any dietary group. i dont think theres good evidence to suggest that dietary carbs alone, even processed carbs, are cause of diabetes

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well diabetes runs in my family (actually nobody runs in my family)

 

[GooberMcKee]

You are born an incel. You don't become one. Inceldom is directly determined by your genetics. Read this:

Deeper causes of inceldom that I've identified so far.

Domestication Progressive loss of skeletal and craniofacial robustness. Shift from K Selection to R Selection/Slow to Fast Life History Shift from conservative patriarchal culture of traditional gender roles to one of promiscuity, degeneracy, chad-takes-all sexual feudalism. Behavioral Sink...

incels.is

Money can help prevent inceldom or buffer your problems. Money for plastic surgery, money for braces, money for better food with high protein content so you don't become fat and diabetic and instead can build muscle mass.

Lack of money can turn you into incel. Lack of education and job opportunities. Lack of food so you grow up dsygenic and never reach your genetic potential.

My parents are not bad looking people but they didn't want me so they neglected me and never gave me medical care that I need, so I am now short and dysgenic. They still look at me with contempt that they don't for me siblings.

 

[Slut_Annihilator298]

First and foremost, my terribly recessed facial bone structure, then lack of father figure, social media and porn, kyphosis, and then narrow frame.

 

[foidrapist69]

Autism, being ugly, 1.64m

 

[⭑papers]

I don't know, maybe because i was born?

 

[Mayocel]

You became incels, I was born one.
We are not the same

 

[The Darkcel]

Genetic failure, shitty social skills, shorter than most foids (let alone my fellow man), small head, child-like body, voice of a teenager, etc. And just to add a few more (though not totally relevant), I'd say my lack of driving skills (failed DMV - never went back) and don't own a car.

 

[Johnny_Connecticut]

My ugly face.

 

[Vendetta]

water

 

[StepyAkermanskie]

"I was born and it was ovER", as one wise man said

 

[Vendetta]

"I was born and it was ovER", as one wise man said

 

[Mrugly420]

Bad genetic

 

[Slut_Annihilator298]

Having an extremely recessed facial bone structure led to me being treated like shit and being left out, which led to me having socially autistic due to little interaction with people, which led to what I am now.

 

[Tacomonkey]

I find common patterns among the background of incels and it's not just looks, there's a whole set of things stacked against us. A lot of it includes poverty, lack of opportunities, and shitty parents. I noticed that a lot of "autistic" people come from shitty backgrounds as well. Looking back for me, it's:

1. Growing up with neglectful parents, lack of medical care, and malnutrition which affected my height, musculature and bone structure, and overall health
2. Growing up eating high carb, low quality poor people food despite being financially middle class because my mom comes from a trashy family and didn't know how to cook, which gave me diabetes and it's a struggle to gain muscles and lose fat even if I work out a lot because of destroyed metabolism
3. Nobody seems to have close friends or even really friends at all in my immediate family, and my extended family is also antisocial. Neither me or my siblings are married even though we are aged 30-40.
4. I had stints of homelessness and foster care throughout my childhood and early adulthood. I spent most of my adulthood in poverty, living in cheap rooms in crack houses, and without access to places like college where you meet non-trashy people, so my social group was either lacking or full of fucked up weirdos also in poverty, federal convicts, drug users, personality disorders. I had to pick between having fucked up "friends" or not having friends at all. Also my own stench of poverty, trauma, and lack of social skills drove normies away.
4. Intergenerational trauma. My grandma was a mistress and had my mom, so they were treated like shit by society. From what I heard, my grandma didn't really stick around to be a mother to her kids and spent a lot of her "husbands" money to travel and enjoy life while she dumped her kids onto an illiterate nanny who comes from a trashy background. Mom grew up antisocial and with no social skills, and talks like she's from the trailer park.
5. My dad was barely around though he didn't abandon my mom, so me and my siblings grew up lacking a strong male role model and father figure. My siblings hate our dad. Mom and dad got together because dad thought she was hot, mom got him by getting knocked up (unintentionally).

That's how I became an incel. It's like I never had a chance. What's your story?

Became? Nigger I was born hideous.

 

[XDFLAMEBOY]

As a mentalcel, I have autism, ADHD, and OCD which made making friends so hard especially because of my shitty social skills, and all of my crushes got uncomfortable with me plus in school I was an outcast and by female students so much rejection gave me like some kind of sensitivity to rejection trauma, I was labeled as a creep by foids, it eventually became a point of starting liking people less because of feeling unlikeable, plus even after high school, I try to approach women, they never want my number or rudely walk away, and every time, I approach a foid they cross their arms which if you didn’t know it means they’re not interested over and over again, and online no match also all that foids did to me online just because I had crushes on them was to get blocked blocked by foids, Foids are full of bullshit

 

[Skoga]

Because I'm 5'5 and balding

 

[Slut_Annihilator298]

Recessed chin + bloated chipmunk face

 

[autisandugly]

As a mentalcel, I have autism, ADHD, and OCD which made making friends so hard especially because of my shitty social skills, and all of my crushes got uncomfortable with me plus in school I was an outcast and by female students so much rejection gave me like some kind of sensitivity to rejection trauma, I was labeled as a creep by foids, it eventually became a point of starting liking people less because of feeling unlikeable, plus even after high school, I try to approach women, they never want my number or rudely walk away, and every time, I approach a foid they cross their arms which if you didn’t know it means they’re not interested over and over again, and online no match also all that foids did to me online just because I had crushes on them was to get blocked blocked by foids, Foids are full of bullshit

How can you approach girls??? Im fear of it only imagining that

 

[autisandugly]

Genetic failure, shitty social skills, shorter than most foids (let alone my fellow man), small head, child-like body, voice of a teenager, etc. And just to add a few more (though not totally relevant), I'd say my lack of driving skills (failed DMV - never went back) and don't own a car.

How old are u? Im oldcel and also can't drive

 

[Bruce_Bonepresser]

Because I was born into this time and place therefore having no say in the matter

 

[I want to believe]

I was born ugly.

 

[Dusk]

There are many reasons. The main one is genetics. The second is environment.
Juvenile facial development along with autism and a bunch of fucked up stuff that means I can't even relate to the average sperg anymore anyway. All meaningless, really. Genetics is the main one though.

 

[NiggerSlayer]

I find common patterns among the background of incels and it's not just looks, there's a whole set of things stacked against us. A lot of it includes poverty, lack of opportunities, and shitty parents. I noticed that a lot of "autistic" people come from shitty backgrounds as well. Looking back for me, it's:

1. Growing up with neglectful parents, lack of medical care, and malnutrition which affected my height, musculature and bone structure, and overall health
2. Growing up eating high carb, low quality poor people food despite being financially middle class because my mom comes from a trashy family and didn't know how to cook, which gave me diabetes and it's a struggle to gain muscles and lose fat even if I work out a lot because of destroyed metabolism
3. Nobody seems to have close friends or even really friends at all in my immediate family, and my extended family is also antisocial. Neither me or my siblings are married even though we are aged 30-40.
4. I had stints of homelessness and foster care throughout my childhood and early adulthood. I spent most of my adulthood in poverty, living in cheap rooms in crack houses, and without access to places like college where you meet non-trashy people, so my social group was either lacking or full of fucked up weirdos also in poverty, federal convicts, drug users, personality disorders. I had to pick between having fucked up "friends" or not having friends at all. Also my own stench of poverty, trauma, and lack of social skills drove normies away.
4. Intergenerational trauma. My grandma was a mistress and had my mom, so they were treated like shit by society. From what I heard, my grandma didn't really stick around to be a mother to her kids and spent a lot of her "husbands" money to travel and enjoy life while she dumped her kids onto an illiterate nanny who comes from a trashy background. Mom grew up antisocial and with no social skills, and talks like she's from the trailer park.
5. My dad was barely around though he didn't abandon my mom, so me and my siblings grew up lacking a strong male role model and father figure. My siblings hate our dad. Mom and dad got together because dad thought she was hot, mom got him by getting knocked up (unintentionally).

That's how I became an incel. It's like I never had a chance. What's your story?

Really similar situation for me. Parents who didn't care about me, father who was never there, malnourished growing up, everyone in family is friendless, I'm almost certainly autistic to some extent

Oh yeah and the biggest one of all, my face

It sucks but it is what it is

 

[VλREN]

It’s everyday bro !

 

[Logic55]

Looks are everything

 

[Grotesque Deformity]

I was born a 170cm 3.5/10 guy with autism and a 4'' penis.

 

[Repulsive123]

Soyciety and hypergamy

 

[SteelCentaur]

I was born an incel.

 

[Buried Alive 2.0]

Looks will always be a secondary cause of inceldom. The root cause will always be foids' hypergamy, entitlement, narcissism. Your reasons are also valid with bad parenting being very common among incels too.

Saying you're incel because ugly is less than half the answer and promote self-hate. In an ideal world, if foids don't have the sense to be accepting of us (like we are of them) then they should be made to. People that have successfully paired up for decades or even life didn't do this based on looks.

Inceldom will always be a majorly externally inflicted condition

 

[Misogynist Vegeta]

1. Society, the Sexual liberation and growing up into a society in which hypergamy is at it's worst
2. While i'm not extremely ugly i'm not attractive at all.
3. Severe social autism
4. Bullied for said autism which encouraged me to self isolate
5. Grew up in a poor divorced family
6. Various Mental illnesses starting consuming me at the age of 16.