Serious Why do women on Tinder have the highest standards?

[throwawayseeker]

I've tried many dating/hookup/etc. apps and Tinder takes the bag every time. Women on there have the utmost extreme standards compared to similar apps. Even on HotorNot I do better than Tinder. I've tried Twoo, HotorNot, Tinder, OkCupid, Bumble and POF. I did the best on Twoo for some reason, aside from matches (they featured my profile for free -- don't know why). Anyways, it's always the same thing:

OkCupid: 67 matches.
Twoo: 45 matches.
HotorNot: 34 matches.
POF: 23 matches.
Tinder: 9 matches. 10 matches (just checked again).

These are all accumulated over several months time, constantly changing the photos around/new pics/etc.

WTF? Why is that, you think? Also, I only put "hookups" on OkCupid. I'm about 5'11", white and kind of look like a budget Ryan Gosling, but with wider IPD (same overall phenotype though).

 

[_incelinside]

you are white? What area are you in? That seems like a low number. How selective are you?

 

[Dry Spell]

Budget Ryan Gosling could be a bad thing.

(To me)
All men look the same nowadays.
So do all femoids.

I think maybe femoids don't just want an attractive guy, they want a guy who is so attractive it's rare and unique, even among other Chads.

 

[KyloRen]

Humble brag thread

 

[Robtical]

Maybe because all the chads choose tinder.

 

[The End]

If a woman is looking for quick sex, she can always get a beefcake to poke her. Only when she's looking for someone that will dependably give her $$$ will she start looking below the top 10%.

 

[Deleted member 60]

probably because it's more popular and gets more publicity

also,

Humble brag thread

 

[St.Tropez]

Budget Ryan Gosling could be a bad thing.

(To me)
All men look the same nowadays.
So do all femoids.

I think maybe femoids don't just want an attractive guy, they want a guy who is so attractive it's rare and unique, even among other Chads.

Most girls want a normal NT guy with all bases covered first and foremost.

NT
Non mentally ill
Employed
University student or finished
Normie looks or higher

These are kinda minimums to date average girl.

 

[Luv]

lucky you, I don't even get a single match on any app.

 

[Incelayer]

So you're an ugly manlet and surprised that women don't like you

 

[Deleted member 2119]

Tinder is a sausage fest

 

[Deleted member 2047]

People have as high of standards as they can get away with. Sex is a much lower investment for Chad then you guys realize, he is perfect happy fucking fatty every other Thursday, so why would that fatty settle for an incel? Just because a woman is ugly doesn't mean they're suddenly attracted to ugly people.

 

[Weirdcel]

Tinder is a sausage fest

This is what I think.

 

[Robtical]

Just because a woman is ugly doesn't mean they're suddenly attracted to ugly people.

They would be attracted if they didn't have as many options. When I was a kid I had super high standards, now I'd even fuck an ugly landwhale.

 

[throwawayseeker]

Most girls want a normal NT guy with all bases covered first and foremost.

NT
Non mentally ill
Employed
University student or finished
Normie looks or higher

These are kinda minimums to date average girl.

LOL I learned pretty well how it works. I would never go for my looks match or any average girl because they have high standards. I set my sights on below average always (uneducated, low paying job of unemployed, dirt status, drug/party girl,etc.).

I would never meet the demands of most average women overall because I don't have steady anything

 

[Letting Go]

Humble brag thread

 

[St.Tropez]

LOL I learned pretty well how it works. I would never go for my looks match or any average girl because they have high standards. I set my sights on below average always (uneducated, low paying job of unemployed, dirt status, drug/party girl,etc.).

I would never meet the demands of most average women overall because I don't have steady anything

You are bottom 20% then like most here.

Not.having steady shit means u arent even.in the game.

 

[throwawayseeker]

probably because it's more popular and gets more publicity

also,

Yeah I get it is supply and demand, but fuck I have managed to get in contact with women on any app other than Tinder. I feel like the black sheep of Tinder men. LOL

 

[throwawayseeker]

You are bottom 20% then like most here.

Not.having steady shit means u arent even.in the game.

Depends on how you want to quantify it.

I'm not too NT, but can fake it exceptionally well with drugs and right social situation. I do make money but it is not steady. I'm not ugly or incel but honestly not doing much better really. I used to be incel when I was fat and unkempt, but now I am like a normie looks pretty much. Also I'm not even going in to education discussions

I just go for what I feel I can get, and that's not your typical woman in the dating market.

The last woman I was with was mentally ill.

So technically I could fall under the bottom 20% or still kind of incel-ish to many.

 

[VisVoi]

Lots of men, few women. They can afford to be picky.

 

[uninstall]

low tier male model is the minimum to find a good looking girl on tinda

 

[throwawayseeker]

Lots of men, few women. They can afford to be picky.

We need that in reverse. Someone make the Russia of Tinder.

you are white? What area are you in? That seems like a low number. How selective are you?

In the beginning I would swipe right about 50% of the time -- now I do it pretty much 100%. Let's see if anything changes.

This is one of my recent matches. Not too bad in my opinion. I am in the southern U.S.

Better than this one: