Why do we incels have no social skills?

[Wettinghose]

I read on another thread that we fail on dates because of our lack of social skills. Same goes with me, even though I live in Thailand where everybody even the ugliest incels alledegly can score with a jungle gook my skills in approaching women are so bad and I am so boring in conversations that I hardly ever get second dates.

The only inaction I have is with hookers who probably hate me as well. However how can we have social skills when we were cast out of society the whole life?

 

[MrRogers]

personally I have no social skills because I ldar 24/7 and no one bothers to talk to me.

 

[imbored21]

Im the most autistic person on this forum.

 

[theultimate341]

if a women likes you she doesnt really care how autistic you are. She'll carry that shit for you.

 

[Wettinghose]

if a women likes you she doesnt really care how autistic you are. She'll carry that shit for you.

So I guess all my dates were basically women getting free meals and hoping it get over fast enough soon

 

[A Good Friend]

I have wonderful social skills and can generally light up a room.

Never helped me.

 

[ThiccQueen]

Well, with the increase of normie looking 'mental'cels on here, its getting pretty clear that social skills come into play for inceldom

That date thing though which is probably my post. She just didnt seem that eager to talk so I kept bringing up topics of conversation. Maybe im coping and it was all my face

 

[Wettinghose]

Well, with the increase of normie looking 'mental'cels on here, its getting pretty clear that social skills come into play for inceldom

That date thing though which is probably my post. She just didnt seem that eager to talk so I kept bringing up topics of conversation. Maybe im coping and it was all my face

I have seen people uglier and poorer than me be successful than me. If the girl likes the guy sometimes she even pays. However in my case I am a stupid cuck who always pays and women never want to see me for a second date

 

[ThiccQueen]

Well, with the increase of normie looking 'mental'cels on here, its getting pretty clear that social skills come into play for inceldom
That date thing though which is probably my post. She just didnt seem that eager to talk so I kept bringing up topics of conversation. Maybe im coping and it was all my face

I have seen people uglier and poorer than me be successful than me. If the girl likes the guy sometimes she even pays. However in my case I am a stupid cuck who always pays and women never want to see me for a second date

Dude, never pay fqpor a date.

And yeah, if you cant talk to a girl irl, then its over anyway unless you're chad

 

[mylifeistrash]

i've never had anxiety and always had friends

face is all that matters

 

[takurak]

Chad doesn't need social skills

 

[theultimate341]

So I guess all my dates were basically women getting free meals and hoping it get over fast enough soon

like my man lil pump says, never take a bitch to a dinner.

 

[Wettinghose]

like my man lil pump says, never take a bitch to a dinner.

I live is a country where 99 percent of women are gold diggers and I still lose to poorer guys.

 

[theultimate341]

I live is a country where 99 percent of women are gold diggers and I still lose to poorer guys.

are you asian?

 

[spergcel]

It's hard to get a gf/get laid if you have no social skills.

 

[Prince]

I have wonderful social skills and can generally light up a room.

Never helped me.

You light up this forum too

 

[Fatchad]

Chad here.  Its not so much social skills as it is lack of confidence.  If a chick is willing to go out chances are she wants to fuck.  After the date is over ask her if she wants to go out for some drinks or go back to her place.   If she declines just play it by ear from there.  Maybe she really has something else planned or a busy day tomorrow.  Of she wants another date try again.   If not oh well move on.

 

[Prince]

Chad here.  Its not so much social skills as it is lack of confidence.  If a chick is willing to go out chances are she wants to fuck.  After the date is over ask her if she wants to go out for some drinks or go back to her place.   If she declines just play it by ear from there.  Maybe she really has something else planned or a busy day tomorrow.  Of she wants another date try again.   If not oh well move on.

"Chad here"

Pics of your face or am calling bs, most people think they are chads just because they score, chad = slayer.

I highly doubt chad knows what incels are, also you're probably just a normie, sorry brah

 

[Wettinghose]

are you asian?

Hapa actually

 

[theultimate341]

Hapa actually

Ah, so youre a firm believer of the just be white theory

 

[Jockcel]

Because from childhood people treated us like shit.

 

[Wettinghose]

Ah, so youre a firm believer of the just be white theory

Yes I see it with my own eyes everyday.some balding old white guy with young college educated girl.

 

[theultimate341]

Ah, so youre a firm believer of the just be white theory

Yes I see it with my own eyes everyday.some balding old white guy with young college educated girl.

all whites are locationcels

 

[Deleted member 1039]

Whos we? I have plenty, but i'm ugly as shit

 

[Bigbird]

Whos we? I have plenty, but i'm ugly as shit

I thought you got a few girls here and there? I may be confusing you.

 

[Sub8Hate]

Social skills alone won't get you the cute girl in the yoga pants. You need looks, too.

 

[Deleted member 1039]

I thought you got a few girls here and there? I may be confusing you.

Hell no. I've never even kissed a girl before.

 

[Bigbird]

Hell no. I've never even kissed a girl before.

Were you really born in 83?

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all whites are locationcels

What website is your sig from?

 

[Deleted member 1039]

Were you really born in 83?

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What website is your sig from?

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No, that's the date the clothing brand Nautica was established

 

[RREEEEEEEEE]

Speak for yourself. I have a lot of social skills. I just choose to not use them because of my 2/10 looks. I only speak when addressed to nowadays.

 

[Bigbird]

No, that's the date the clothing brand Nautica was established

So you are a juniorcel you just chose to use that user so people will take you more serious?

 

[Deleted member 1039]

So you are a juniorcel you just chose to use that user so people will take you more serious?

No, i'm 22 lol. I just chose that username because its the name of the clothing brand Nautica and that was the date they were established, its the same username i've been using on reddit before i came to this website.

 

[QuantumDummy]

Maybe it's a result of lifelong exclusion and ostracisation.

 

[Bigbird]

No, i'm 22 lol. I just chose that username because its the name of the clothing brand Nautica and that was the date they were established, its the same username i've been using on reddit before i came to this website.

This website feels like fucking purgatory. There is no trolling almost, Im pretty much your age but goddamn. Im getting old,I want a fucking wife at this point. I want to vent. I see some people here complaining about bullying,lol I used to get bullied in middle school and I miss that. It was the perfect excuse to let out your anger and beat someone silly. Now that isn't even an option.

 

[KV3]

Instant rejection= no chance to practice

 

[Minjaze]

Some of us were born with severe social anxiety while others never had the chance to hone their social skills due to being constantly avoided and having no-one to practice on. I'm a combination of both, unfortunately.

 

[Bigbird]

Some of us were born with severe social anxiety while others never had the chance to hone their social skills due to being constantly avoided and having no-one to practice on. I'm a combination of both, unfortunately.

Probs autism and parents too. Im not sure if social anxiety is caused by subconsciously knowing you are inferior though. It can also be caused by having weird parents IMO.

 

[BlackPill47]

Autism, over-protection from our parents and early and sustained social exclusion are reasons why a lot of us are doomed to inceldom. Added to that sub-8 looks/baldceling/manletism, no job or stable career and no opportunity or interest in socializing.

So between all that, I'd say we're doomed to rot.

 

[VST]

I moved around a lot as a kid so I never could really connect to people and when I did our friendships usually lasted 5 years max.
The whole concept of Childhood friends is alien to me because I haven't spoken to any of my Childhood friends in years, hell I don't even remember their names.

 

[KilluminoidBR]

I have great social skills... but at the same time im too weird to pick up woman.

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No, i'm 22 lol. I just chose that username because its the name of the clothing brand Nautica and that was the date they were established, its the same username i've been using on reddit before i came to this website.

LOL I ALWAYS THOUGHT YOU WERE 35 UHSAHUSUHASHUASHUAHUSAHUSHUSUHSUHSHUSA

 

[Deleted member 1039]

I have great social skills... but at the same time im too weird to pick up woman.

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LOL I ALWAYS THOUGHT YOU WERE 35 UHSAHUSUHASHUASHUAHUSAHUSHUSUHSUHSHUSA

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I'm going to clear this up in my signature. People keep thinking I'm over 30

 

[Deleted member 3129]

because no one wanted to be my friend unless it was other incels who needed me for grps in classes

 

[A Good Friend]

You light up this forum too

 

[OTaKu_WarrIOr_N]

Because ugly males are targets for exclusion, thus restricting us of ever acquiring social skills

 

[advancedatheist]

I've made a living for the last 27 years in the hospitality business, so I must have at least enough "social skills" to do that competently. 

But I have also been consistently rejected by women throughout my life.