Why do our parents tell us that we’re not unattractive when in reality we are like if girls didn’t like you when you were in high school then you’re ugly if women don’t like you as an adult then you’re unattractive it’s that simple I’ve been rejected enough times to know that from an objective perspective I’m not attractive anybody that says otherwise is in denial
I'll tell you why.
Because your parents want grandchildren.
If they blackpill you -- it's over. You either LDAR, rope, or cope in peace until death.
If they bluepill you, and if you manage do spend decades redirecting your sexual energy towards acquisition of resources, there is a non-zero chance that you will eventually become a prime target for spermjacking (child-support-rape) from an economically desperate foid (e.g.: ugly drug addict) who will pretend she fell in love with anything other than your wallet (e.g.: your beautiful face) -- and you will believe her lie because you spend your entire life believing you're attractive and have a "nice personality" thanks to your parents.
Then you'll spend decades supporting her drug habit while she abuses your kid, who was born a retard due to the mother's genes and drug habits. But it doesn't matter, because if your kid is a foid of if he becomes a thugmaxxed ghetto gangbanger he will eventually get a chance to breed too, and your parents become great-grandparents, and so on.
Bluepilling non-Chad sons is a last-ditch effort to create a mental state that allows them to breed, however badly.
When parents give "the talk" to their Chad sons,
the subject is usually very different, something along the lines of "be careful with the slutty girls" or "bring your girlfriends here for us to vet her" etc. always in the sense of directing him into having the highest quality offspring possible.