I don't understand it either, I just can't no matter how hard I try, I don't know what the fuck I am supposed to say or act, but when I watch normies they all seem to be able to do it easily, as if it is just natural to them, it's fucking unfair.
Back when I was bluepilled I thought you just need "Le confidence" I tried forcing myself into social situations for more than 2 years, but I saw no improvement whatsoever, and I am still socially retarded.
Being ethnic, plus ugly and a manlet, also doesn't help in anyway, normies do not even try to include me in any groups or conversations, at the only job I ever had the normies literally ignored me as if I was invisible, whilst they stood in a group talking (Even when I tried to join in, twice actually, first time they just ignored me, the second they gave a one word reply then continued on amongst themselves), this went on for months, they didn't even make an effort to include me the entire time until I quit because of my anxiety.
Because incels are sub-8 in looks and extremely inhibited —- bad combination. Many incels are also on the spectrum and are naturally awkward and taciturn. Aspergy guys need to have looks of over 8 on the 10 scale to get some just by socializing
Average looking normies can degrade themselves by clowning or begging their way into some fuck puppets vagina.
normies are treated like dirt also it just doesn't register in their filthy peasant heads, they get divorced, accused of rape and still blame themeselves becuase they are brainwashed cucks, incels only have trouble conversing because we dont have inflated egos and know that "bruh like personalty and stuff man" is complete and utter bullshit
It's about being low-inhib. If you're like me, you're entirely at a loss for words when it comes to conversation because you don't know the right combination of words that will make the normies pleased with the chat. They're all talented actors, and have been doing it their entire lives, no problem. Just talk bro
Normies don't really have it easy; there's a complicated list of rules they have to follow and a lot of hoops they have to jump through. But they tell themselves they're "succeeding" and "it's all worth it" because they're brainwashed cucks.