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Why can’t I act like myself around attractive girls?

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Valeriu31

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I’m not actually that ugly, I’ve been rated average at hltn and mmtn at best. But my interactions with girls, especially, are really awkward. I feel weird, like nothing I say makes sense and I can’t keep a conversation going, like I’m not even myself. I’ve never had a girlfriend. People who don’t really know me think I do, but I’m not even close. My looks kind of mess things up too, at 16 I look like a rough 30 year old, full beard and just too mature overall. When I talk to girls I’m not really attracted to, I do alright and get a bit of confidence, but everything changes when the girl is attractive. I don’t know how to act, I don’t know what to say, I just feel lost. Social anxiety is not the problem, I go well with boys and strangers.
 
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Niger nuke incoming
 
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-iu sounds like a Romanian name, how do you have trouble in that country of prostitutes, women should be coming up to you if anything :feelskek:
 
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I’m not actually that ugly, I’ve been rated average at hltn and mmtn at best. But my interactions with girls, especially, are really awkward. I feel weird, like nothing I say makes sense and I can’t keep a conversation going, like I’m not even myself. I’ve never had a girlfriend. People who don’t really know me think I do, but I’m not even close. My looks kind of mess things up too, at 16 I look like a rough 30 year old, full beard and just too mature overall. When I talk to girls I’m not really attracted to, I do alright and get a bit of confidence, but everything changes when the girl is attractive. I don’t know how to act, I don’t know what to say, I just feel lost. Social anxiety is not the problem, I go well with boys and strangers.
Stop trying to talk to girls that you like.
When you around the one that you really want, and you should work towards that, Propinquity, Take Care of Business - without sweating or whining.
Then take the first one that steps to you.
The ons you want will play their cards from there.
 
Stop trying to talk to girls that you like.
When you around the one that you really want, and you should work towards that, Propinquity, Take Care of Business - without sweating or whining.
Then take the first one that steps to you.
The ons you want will play their cards from there.
In fact, I would go so far as to say avoid talking to women above a 5 until you've got a Name.
Homely, fat or smart, be Their Chad.
 
I’m not actually that ugly, I’ve been rated average at hltn and mmtn at best. But my interactions with girls, especially, are really awkward. I feel weird, like nothing I say makes sense and I can’t keep a conversation going, like I’m not even myself. I’ve never had a girlfriend. People who don’t really know me think I do, but I’m not even close. My looks kind of mess things up too, at 16 I look like a rough 30 year old, full beard and just too mature overall. When I talk to girls I’m not really attracted to, I do alright and get a bit of confidence, but everything changes when the girl is attractive. I don’t know how to act, I don’t know what to say, I just feel lost. Social anxiety is not the problem, I go well with boys and strangers.
I believe i can keep a conversation going but i dont know what to talk about
 
failed normie problems.... .
 

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