A similar thread already said something like this, basically they delude themselves with the bluepill as a means to avoid the harsh truths of the world.
Because foids allow them to be orbiters, I think in their minds they think they are close to getting foids but in reality they are only slightly ahead of us.
People usually won't accept some truth unless some real unpleasant stuff and punishment accompany it. Let's say such incel get beat up by white knights or spend a few years in prison for looking at a foid then may be perhaps he realized he is ugly and a non chad.