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Why are you incel?

What are the main reasons you're incel

  • looks (face)

    Votes: 58 75.3%
  • looks (height)

    Votes: 38 49.4%
  • autism or other legit chronic mental disorder

    Votes: 26 33.8%
  • social anxiety

    Votes: 41 53.2%
  • poor social skills

    Votes: 48 62.3%
  • ethnicity

    Votes: 27 35.1%
  • low masculinity

    Votes: 40 51.9%
  • overprotective/helicopter parents

    Votes: 29 37.7%
  • bullying

    Votes: 32 41.6%
  • other (see poll part 2)

    Votes: 14 18.2%

  • Total voters
    77
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Very basic qeustion, but what do you think are the main factors aside looks (if there are any) that made you incel? How did you arrive in this situation? I've heard a lot of different stories already, but I'm curious how the proportions are, so I made a list as complete as I could think of.

If you were missing something, you can check the second poll

Edit: Sorry, a second part is forbidden apparently, if you want to, write an additional reason in the comments
 
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Idk nigga maybe because I ugly as fuck? What else could it be lol.
 
Cuz I have a bad personality
 
Extreme shyness. Short for now; average for any other time in history. Low economic status. Nondegenerate.
 
A lot of factors, but almost all could be redeemed by having better looks.
 
sorry fucked up the poll but here it is
 
Lol if you think anything but face and height
 
its literally just looks. sure i have other issues but if i was attractive they wouldnt matter to foids
 
for me the main reasons are:
height (170 cm)
not being NT
 
Lol if you think anything but face and height

I would add frame to this. If youre a tall string bean looking anorexic and weak af even a nice face wont be enoug. but either way its looks all the way clearly
 
For me, height, norwooding, poor social skills and a bad financial and living situation
 
*autism or other legit chronic mental disorder
*social anxiety
*poor social skills
*overprotective/helicopter parents
*bullying
 
Not even kidding. I'm mixed race so I ticked ethnicity as well
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Because I call women “femoids” in real life and then try to rape them while wearing a fedora (this is what IT actually believe)
 
Face
Social anxiety aka negative reinforcement
Shit social skills
Ethnic
Parents who never let me do anything as a kid
bullied

but let’s be real, a good looking face would have made all of these problems not even occur
 
Looks and poor upbringing
 
posts such as this one make me wonder, how many here are in fact blackpilled, cause not everyone it seems :feelsseriously: ...
Idk nigga maybe because I ugly as fuck?
You need have face and height, if not , it's over.
All other points are either results of inceldom, or they are much less relevant.
 
You should add "looks (hair)". I voted face btw.
Obviously I also have awful social skills, mild social anxiety and I have experienced bullying but you're abysmal IQ if you think that has nothing to do with your looks. It's just a consequence
 
more than two
 
Looks: I'm on the shorter side @ 5'6. So add that with an average face and it means I won't get a foid's attention just by existing.

Personality: Socially awkward, shy and just generally all the bad stuff that makes a dude unmanly/not confident.

I've tried approaching and being more social, but after a certain point I just gave up. I'm 30+ without a social circle so even if I could get the odd date here and there it would probably end in failure just because she would literally be all I had between work and rotting. So there's no status for her to cling to. Combine that with average looks and income and there's nothing for her to brag about.

I'm white and have a license/car/own place which to some makes me volcel.
 
Shyness and social anxiety
 
My main reasons are height and race
 
Like five of the above
 
cuz i look like a little 50s nerd boy
 
Horribly bullied after changing schools, absolutely destroyed what I was before.
A domineering mother that controlled and made fun of me. A submissive father who did literally nothing to stop it.
 
I have a pretty subhuman face that's why.
I probably also have some form of high functioning autism as well to put on top of that.
 
My height is one of the biggest reasons and I am also pretty small in general
 
Height, Rice, Acne
 

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