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Why are there so few oldcels here over 30?

Men over 30 that are NT betabux a used up whore with her kids. Autistic males over 30 tend to rope.

We didn't grow up with the internet like younger ppl too.
 
because most men over 30 would not have grown up under the hyperfeminist culture we have today
It was around back then, it was just different. 15 years ago even feminists were in agreement that trannies are insane (and in fact, if you watch TV from the late 90s/early 00s they were often the butt of jokes) and hating gays wasn't controversial. As far as foid-worship goes, schools and the media were still brainwashing people with feminist propaganda and it was arguably worse back then than it is today because nobody was standing up to them. People still got canceled back in the 00s, and nobody would support them or offer them an alternative platform or decry how unfair it is because everybody was terrified of pissing off the SJWs.
 
I stopped after people started posting videos of uglier and uglier women having chads hit on them on tinder.

What is there to really say after that? It's fucking over for nearly all men.

Also suicide peaks for males and goes sky high for white males in their 30s.
yes, I feel the pressure to give up too, I've only survived by basically doing a mental Windows Restore back to 2016 and coping that way

many such cases
 
As I've said b4: You either die an incel or live long enough to see yourself become a cuck.
 
41, here.

Although inceldom has probably always existed, it probably exploded with mobile phones, social media and dating apps. When did highschool girls start owning a mobile phone ? I'd say about ten years ago.
My guess is that generation really started the phenomenon, and they are around 25 or something now.

Thus I'm not surprised most members are below 30.

Also, as others mentioned, oldcels, if they did not rope, must have either ascended or found good copes.

Me, for instance, I was coping pretty well until I turned 40 and decided to gymmax, only to realize it was pointless. Then I found out about MGTOW, then r/braincels, then this place.
 
oldcel (34) here. I have fully accepted the conditioning of 'it's over'.

The rage is replaced with melancholy; honkpill keeps it going.
I'm the same age bro. Noticing now how my back feels constantly fucked an my general fitness is declining. I've peaked, and are now heading down the other side.
 
because most men over 30 would not have grown up under the hyperfeminist culture we have today

I'm in my late-30s and all I know is hyperfeminist culture. Things weren't much different in the 1990s and 2000s when I was in my teens and 20s. Females my age were still ruthless towards unattractive males. And they still had plenty of sex with jocks, loudmouthed frat boys, violent and nonviolent criminals, and prettyboy "players" (as we called them back then) before the advent of smartphones and hookup apps

Are things worse today? Of course, but you have to go back to the Greatest Generation or earlier to find decent women in a less decadent culture. My guess is that incels my age either roped, overdosed on drugs, got divorced-raped by the first cunt who showed them interest, or don't know about incel hangouts like these.
 
The rope beckons...
 
Most oldcels are not as entrenched in technology as the younger generations. Even if they are, they are probably just immersing themselves in other copes. You don't just stumble upon this site, you have to seek it out.
 
As an oldcel, I relate more to doomers than late millennials. I feel like I was virginal 30 when I was in my teens, and now feel like a teenage virgin in my 30s.
Same.

As for why oldcels don't post: roped, mgtow-coped by hobbymaxxing, workaholism/wageslaving, alcoholism. I think the longer you're depressed the less inclined you are to outwardly complain and express yourself. The misery becomes normalized, the anger and libido lessened.
 
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Long hours of wagecucking.

Lack of energy associated with the aging body.

Lack of motivation.

Desensitization to life from all of the years of suffering that comes with being a low SMV male.

The same human drama, different faces....repetitive.
 
36 here. I debated even making an account, but I understand the suspicion of those seeing anonymous lurkers outnumber the registered members, so here I am posting.

I resisted spending time on internet sites like this in general in the past. I knew they could monopolize my time, which up until that point I used to read non-fiction and write in my journal after taking edible cannabis doses. I still do that, but combined with working a full time job, I have little spare energy for posting and participating here.

There is an older woman who I met at my workplace who said I could come to her family Thanksgiving. She has 3 children though, the oldest 25. It feels like a trap tbh, I will not let myself be wrangled.
 
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i found them here they are
Peep
 
I wish more older guys posted on here. I find I tend to befriend people in the late twenties age bracket. People my own age have thoroughly rejected me. Most people under mid twenties have not fully settled on who they are and are hostile to anyone who is different.
 
I think you can rot to the point where posting on a forum is too much work, you just don't care enough anymore.
 
Oldcels lived too long in solitude without copes like braincels and blackpill content. They either roped (not likely), or swallowed the bluepill and betabuxxed.
Most people under mid twenties have not fully settled on who they are and are hostile to anyone who is different.
Swallowing the blackpill at a young age doesn't do you any good, maybe question your motives.
 
By 30 they usually accept its better to beta bux a 3/10 whale then be a incel.

being a virgin till 30 takes its toll
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Well in a year tops half the people will be banned, so yeah, i guess so.
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36 here. I debated even making an account, but I understand the suspicion of those seeing anonymous lurkers outnumber the registered members, so here I am posting.

I resisted spending time on internet sites like this in general in the past. I knew they could monopolize my time, which up until that point I used to read non-fiction and write in my journal after taking edible cannabis doses. I still do that, but combined with working a full time job, I have little spare energy for posting and participating here.

There is an older woman who I met at my workplace who said I could come to her family Thanksgiving. She has 3 children though, the oldest 25. It feels like a trap tbh, I will not let myself be wrangled.
Is she attractive?
 
I guess you learn to accept your situation.
 
YES IT GET WORSE

Yes and women in their 30s onwards never lowered their standards when I was the same age, so I don't get this repeat statement that gets posted regularly!

Also where is my landwhale to be cucked with that should have appeared by now?
 
31 truecel, checking in!

They either rope, or too busy wallowing in doom to post here or to out of touch with modern internet to know about here. Stats show that theres now a lot of incels out there.
 
Because inceldom was no where as bad 30 years ago.
 
The boomers actually could have sex with their women without being accused of rape. The millennial woman is cold hearted, sadistic. They enjoy using the long arm of the law afforded to them by the state, and they fight for more power at the expense of men, especially those whose presence (read: aesthetics) she doesn't enjoy.
Yeah but boomer women were the ones who rallied for things that enabled millennial and z women to behave like they do now. It's also them who started the metoo movement cause they are old and bitter hags now jealous of young foids getting all the Chads and rich boomers.
 
I can guess that a lot of ugly men in late 20's/early 30's get a "gf" that settles for him, so they think their problem are over. When they get cheated on or they broke up they start to find other women. They do not see themselves as "incels" anymore (well, in fact, they aren't).
 
I’m 33....it’s really hit me the past year or so just how over it is for me.....jfl at the people who say a mans prime is in his 30’s. I’m the same as I was in my 20’s, only uglier.
A man's prime is 15-25. Case closed.
 

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