36 here. I debated even making an account, but I understand the suspicion of those seeing anonymous lurkers outnumber the registered members, so here I am posting.
I resisted spending time on internet sites like this in general in the past. I knew they could monopolize my time, which up until that point I used to read non-fiction and write in my journal after taking edible cannabis doses. I still do that, but combined with working a full time job, I have little spare energy for posting and participating here.
There is an older woman who I met at my workplace who said I could come to her family Thanksgiving. She has 3 children though, the oldest 25. It feels like a trap tbh, I will not let myself be wrangled.