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Serious Why are single men hated so much?

MaxZM98

MaxZM98

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I don't understand. I just dont. It really makes me sad. we are often seen as creeps. for most of us, sex and/or relationships are biological necessity to live a somewhat fulfilling life with meaning. it is a basic need for us. but stating that leads people to say things like "you're just angry because you can't get laid" or "women don't owe you sex, pal". this hatred towards single men is why websites like this exist, and yet their hate has only grown. It just makes me feel sad. what is the point of living such a life?
 
Why are UGLY men hated so much?


FTFY
 
Single men are seen as anti-conforming, whether they choose to be single or not. At the end of the day, we are still living in the jungle.
 
I don't notice anyone particularly hating me for being single. It pretty much never comes up. I go to work and I go home. I go to movies alone. I eat at restaurants alone when I want. When I go to buy a sub or go in a store no one asks me "BUT WHERE'S YOUR GIRLFRIEND?"

Who the fuck cares? Who are all these people hating you?
 
I don't notice anyone particularly hating me for being single. It pretty much never comes up. I go to work and I go home. I go to movies alone. I eat at restaurants alone when I want. When I go to buy a sub or go in a store no one asks me "BUT WHERE'S YOUR GIRLFRIEND?"

Who the fuck cares? Who are all these people hating you?
just because you are doing something alone, people arent going to assume you are single. the title should be 'ugly single men' because if you are ugly people will probably know you are single. if you try socialising with normies, especially women, they treat you as a subhuman. if you mind your own business and know your place as a subhuman, people will ignore you.
 
Because we are useless in the eyes of society they se us as wastes of space
 
Dunno but I get made fun of for it at work. Basically every other guy there is married or dating.
 
just because you are doing something alone, people arent going to assume you are single. the title should be 'ugly single men' because if you are ugly people will probably know you are single. if you try socialising with normies, especially women, they treat you as a subhuman. if you mind your own business and know your place as a subhuman, people will ignore you.

I've been ugly my whole life. I'm less ugly now. I never found this to be true. Most people never even asked me "do you have a girlfriend" in university because I'm guessing they all just knew I wouldn't since I was a short ugly ethnic.

Are you an aspie?
 
because being single means we are raging misogynists, since that is the only reason why women don't wanna date a man.
 
I've been ugly my whole life. I'm less ugly now. I never found this to be true. Most people never even asked me "do you have a girlfriend" in university because I'm guessing they all just knew I wouldn't since I was a short ugly ethnic.

Are you an aspie?
i have found that if you try mind your own business and act really agreeable, people will consider you subhuman and a pushover, but they will still not dislike you or show you any distain. but the moment you step out of line, you will get shat on. for example a girl was whining about hating some celebrity for no reason, and i jokingly said "if you hate him so much why do you like to talk about him so much unless you really do like him?". then she had a huge hissy fit, calling me a loser with no friends etc. it was out of nowhere. like how dare some subhuman try to talk to me like that? if a normie had done the same it would be different.

and yes, I am an aspie.
 
I don't notice anyone particularly hating me for being single. It pretty much never comes up. I go to work and I go home. I go to movies alone. I eat at restaurants alone when I want. When I go to buy a sub or go in a store no one asks me "BUT WHERE'S YOUR GIRLFRIEND?"

Who the fuck cares? Who are all these people hating you?
Same experience here, except for my parents, no one gives a fuck
 
i have found that if you try mind your own business and act really agreeable, people will consider you subhuman and a pushover, but they will still not dislike you or show you any distain. but the moment you step out of line, you will get shat on. for example a girl was whining about hating some celebrity for no reason, and i jokingly said "if you hate him so much why do you like to talk about him so much unless you really do like him?". then she had a huge hissy fit, calling me a loser with no friends etc. it was out of nowhere. like how dare some subhuman try to talk to me like that? if a normie had done the same it would be different.

and yes, I am an aspie.

Well keep in mind being an aspie is pretty much a guarantee of getting bullied:
https://www.amf.org.au/bullying-advice/bullying-for-schools/asperger-s-and-bullying/

And a 50% chance of being a virgin at 35 years old:
https://incels.is/threads/nuclear-autismpill-the-abysmal-sex-life-of-aspie-men.66103/

Aspies got it as bad as us short ugly ethnics or worse. At least those of us with just physical deficiencies can still banter and interact socially on a high enough level not to get pushed around like that.

Autism's a real shit deal man.
 
Well keep in mind being an aspie is pretty much a guarantee of getting bullied:
https://www.amf.org.au/bullying-advice/bullying-for-schools/asperger-s-and-bullying/

And a 50% chance of being a virgin at 35 years old:
https://incels.is/threads/nuclear-autismpill-the-abysmal-sex-life-of-aspie-men.66103/

Aspies got it as bad as us short ugly ethnics or worse. At least those of us with just physical deficiencies can still banter and interact socially on a high enough level not to get pushed around like that.

Autism's a real shit deal man.
jesus christ. that is bad...i knew it was bad but that statistic is very abysmal indeed. although i still think if i had a girlfriend i would be much more confident and happy. people probably wouldnt even suspect me of being aspie. i have definitely improved my social skills considerably.
Same experience here, except for my parents, no one gives a fuck
read my response to his comment.
 
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Why are UGLY men hated so much?


FTFY

This tbh.

Being ugly is far more detrimental to your status than being single is.

But on topic the general hatred towards towards single men basically comes from two factors:
- single men (ugly ones especially) are seen as having low genetic value due to not having a woman committed to them
- normies (ugly ones especially) want to show that they're awesome for being in a relationship and better than single men
 
Nobody gives a fuck about single men. We are just supposed to cuck and support this shit, failing system and not question it, so when we do question it, the normans try to shame us back into submission. normalfags dont understand that we don't want to just work for no reward in a system that hates us.
 
I don't understand. I just dont. It really makes me sad. we are often seen as creeps. for most of us, sex and/or relationships are biological necessity to live a somewhat fulfilling life with meaning. it is a basic need for us. but stating that leads people to say things like "you're just angry because you can't get laid" or "women don't owe you sex, pal". this hatred towards single men is why websites like this exist, and yet their hate has only grown. It just makes me feel sad. what is the point of living such a life?

Why are UGLY men hated so much?


FTFY
I don't notice anyone particularly hating me for being single. It pretty much never comes up. I go to work and I go home. I go to movies alone. I eat at restaurants alone when I want. When I go to buy a sub or go in a store no one asks me "BUT WHERE'S YOUR GIRLFRIEND?"

Who the fuck cares? Who are all these people hating you?

Yeah this.
 
We have no perceived worth. Simple as that
 
Women:
Femoids see it as something being wrong with them, and since women are very simillar to each other and embody comformism and hivemind, here's how i think it goes "if a man is single then some other women did not want anything to do with him therefore there must be something wrong with him and so i don't want anything to do with him"
Monkey see monkey do.
Men:
Men bring each other down as an attempt to attract female attention, they are competitive and ruthless creatures, they do this on a more subconcious level without much thought put into it, as opposed to the foid's hive reasoning.
 
Women:
Femoids see it as something being wrong with them, and since women are very simillar to each other and embody comformism and hivemind, here's how i think it goes "if a man is single then some other women did not want anything to do with him therefore there must be something wrong with him and so i don't want anything to do with him"
Monkey see monkey do.
Men:
Men bring each other down as an attempt to attract female attention, they are competitive and ruthless creatures, they do this on a more subconcious level without much thought put into it, as opposed to the foid's hive reasoning.

That's why unless you're at least 7.5/10 lookswise, being low social status means it's over
 
Single man = ugly man
Ugly man = worthless to women
Women = society
 
I dont feel any hate for being single.

Maybe you think about it too much. There are single women as well. It is getting more common.

And men often have kids in their 40s now.

If you marry at 40 its still acceptable.


Those few people who think about me think Iam antisocial weirdo who will just be single, or who will suddenly discover the need to have a family some day.

The thing is. What they dont know. The reasons Iam single are more serious than they could imagine. I have tried to have a gf many times but Iam just not attractive. Nobody wants me. I dont cry about it I have learned to live on my own, but there is no change going to happen. I will just grow old and if my copes/work/hobbies dont save me, I might get deeper into mental issues and on the path to doom.
 
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I don't understand. I just dont. It really makes me sad. we are often seen as creeps.
It‘s simple. If you’re ugly you‘ll always be seen as a creep/weirdo. Doesn‘t matter what you do or what your relationship status is. The failo effect is too strong. :feelsrope:
 
I don't notice anyone particularly hating me for being single. It pretty much never comes up. I go to work and I go home. I go to movies alone. I eat at restaurants alone when I want. When I go to buy a sub or go in a store no one asks me "BUT WHERE'S YOUR GIRLFRIEND?"

Who the fuck cares? Who are all these people hating you?


Being a loner is a self-fulfilling prophecy. They look at you like a potential school shooter. You must really tiny to be so alone, yet so nonthreatening. I'm tiny too, but I constantly have the sense that I creep people the fuck out. I have spergy dead vacant eyes, and a lack of expression for winning or losing like David Katz. Ironically when I feel most blackpilled and dont give a fuck, is when I sense that I give off the least creepy vibes. When I have strange delusions of hope is when people sense that threatening incel hunger, and want to stay the fuck away from me.
 
Single men are seen as a threat. In the feminized society we live in, single men have not been validated by a women so he is viewed as dangerous and untrust worthy.
I was a loner in high school. And also quiet and shy and people always saw me as a potential Elliot. Fucking suifuel. I fucking hate most people.
 
Single chads are respected and admired.

Big cope if you think the problem is with being single, it's being an ugly or average single male.
 
I don't understand.

If people believe that you just need to work hard and play by the rules to become wealthy, they also tend to believe that those who are NOT wealthy are lazy and morally tainted

Same with single men: if people believe that you only need to be confident and have a good personality to find a fulfilling relationship, they also tend to believe that those who are incel are weak, pathetic creeps.

And the fact that poverty tends to push people into criminality just as incelism pushes people into mental health issues and a bad personality is then used to justify this disdain for the poor and the incels.

But it's usually the other way around: you're not poor because you're prone to petty street crimes; you're prone to minor petty street crime because you're poor. And you're not incel because you're a misogynistic weirdo with a bad personality - you're a misogynist because female hypergamy, feminism etc. etc. etc. have made you incel.
 
Because single men are seen as feral wild animals. But depending on what you look like, there’s a difference: if you’re a hit Chad, you’re seen as a majestic tiger on the loose —- “dangerous” and concerning but still admired. If you’re an ugly incel, you’re seen as a repulsive hyena on the loose.
 
Single chads are respected and admired.

Big cope if you think the problem is with being single, it's being an ugly or average single male.
isnt that an oxymoron? single chad. (im not counting chads who dont have a gf but still get laid dont count as single)
 
isnt that an oxymoron? single chad. (im not counting chads who dont have a gf but still get laid dont count as single)

But you just invented your definition of single to make a point.

Single = not having a gf a guy fucking a different girl everyday is considered single if he isn't in a relationship.
 
But you just invented your definition of single to make a point.

Single = not having a gf a guy fucking a different girl everyday is considered single if he isn't in a relationship.
maybe i should have just said incel? including incels who do not identify as incel/dont know what incel is
 
Obviously there is no incel chad lol
 
Because the bottom 80% of men are disposable trash
 
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You on nofap ? If so , avert your eyes.
you think i would fap to underage anime girls?


...well. you would be right unfortunately.
 
We're considered a threat to society. They want us caught up so we don't think aka rebel.
 
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Unless someone has a familial bond with you as a single man they will simply see you as an interloper and possible threat. Back in the day single men would form warrior bands and raid their enemies for wealth and women so perhaps that's why. We live in unnatural massive towns and cities where we have no bonds with the people around us. The only interactions we have with these cunts is on the road and everyone here knows how cutthroat driving is. I'm starting to become content with the fact that I will always be disliked by society.
 
im trying to think who the incel would be of the sonic universe.

eggman maybe?
Personality wise “shadow” or “silver” tbh


Tails is a cuck though
 
Personality wise “shadow” or “silver” tbh


Tails is a cuck though

shadow had that bat chick interested in him if i remember right, so probably silver because nobody takes him seriously.
 
For women it is mostly because single men don't "share" their resources with a woman. This pisses women off to magnitudes. Non Chad men exist only to give their resources to women. A single man having fun, driving a nice sports car or motorcycle, taking vacations to Asia to bang escorts, being into fulfilling hobbies, this is seen as threat because their soyboy boyfriends might figure out what a shitty deal they have.
 

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