Who is socially skilled? What are social skills?

[LaFayette]

What exactly does it mean to be socially skilled? Supposedly, if you can maintain friendships, charm people and avoid chimping out you are all set.
What exactly does it mean to have GREAT SOSHUL SKULZ? What? It seems like a mystic ability only geniuses posess.

 

[Deleted member 29001]

Looks = Social Skills

 

[Deleted member 28903]

Social skills = grace and knowing what kinds of actions and words are acceptable and appropriate depending on the situation. A person with good social skills rarely does socially acceptable things, or if he does, it's because he did them willfully even though he knew they were socially unacceptable. Social skills + looks = charisma.

Looks = Social Skills

No. Looks affect how people respond to you socially, but social skills are still a real thing which also affect it.

 

[LaFayette]

Social skills = grace and knowing what kinds of actions and words are acceptable and appropriate depending on the situation. A person with good social skills rarely does socially acceptable things, or if he does, it's because he did them willfully even though he knew they were socially unacceptable. Social skills + looks = charisma.

No. Looks affect how people respond to you socially, but social skills are still a real thing which also affect it.

Nailed it I guess... I think I am decent social-skill wise, althrough humor is not my forte

 

[Deleted member 29001]

Social skills = grace and knowing what kinds of actions and words are acceptable and appropriate depending on the situation. A person with good social skills rarely does socially acceptable things, or if he does, it's because he did them willfully even though he knew they were socially unacceptable. Social skills + looks = charisma.

No. Looks affect how people respond to you socially, but social skills are still a real thing which also affect it.

I'm too low IQ to reply to your argument so I'm just gonna call you fakecel.

 

[Deleted member 14577]

If you know what to say and how to say it in a given situation to get the desired outcome, you are socially skilled.

 

[LaFayette]

If you know what to say and how to say it in a given situation to get the desired outcome, you are socially skilled.

Yeah but, if this is the case, then for example you can not know if you have good social skills when trying to flirt, and the foid rejects you.

 

[Deleted member 14577]

Yeah but, if this is the case, then for example you can not know if you have good social skills when trying to flirt, and the foid rejects you.

Sure, but flirting isn't the only interaction. You can get a gauge of where you stand by taking a look at how you do in interactions where looks are less of a factor.

 

[AnonAutist]

What exactly does it mean to be socially skilled? Supposedly, if you can maintain friendships, charm people and avoid chimping out you are all set.
What exactly does it mean to have GREAT SOSHUL SKULZ? What? It seems like a mystic ability only geniuses posess.

I think they are real. Social skills are the ability to

- make new friends/acquaintances quickly and maintaining relationships with them.
- be attentive: answering greetings, emails, phone calls, texts in a timely and appropriate manner
- learn new etiquette in an unfamiliar situation by following the cues of others.
- be aware of other people's boundaries: maintain proper distance, both physically and emotionally
- resolve conflicts appropriately: solving conflicts without being a timid walkover or an aggressive, violent prick.

These are the basics of navigating the social world. This is what normies 'learn' intuitively.

 

[Deleted member 19546]

My experience chadfishing, you don’t have to do anything, if they don’t straight up suggest a hookup and send you nudes, you just ask for it, if they say no, just keep asking like an autist, they’ll give in because of your looks.

Social skills is a meme.

Also the idea that women don’t like hookups and ONS is a lie, single women are the biggest whores.

 

[Deleted member 26506]

Social skills = grace and knowing what kinds of actions and words are acceptable and appropriate depending on the situation. A person with good social skills rarely does socially acceptable things, or if he does, it's because he did them willfully even though he knew they were socially unacceptable. Social skills + looks = charisma.

No. Looks affect how people respond to you socially, but social skills are still a real thing which also affect it.

You need to have some autistic traits in order to be "socially skilled", since you don't do what's normal but people still copy you
it happened me many times where people copied what I said and acted as I did and since a young age I showed more autistic traits then average (I am not)
this is also how people who are leaders have autistic traits

My experience chadfishing, you don’t have to do anything, if they don’t straight up suggest a hookup and send you nudes, you just ask for it, if they say no, just keep asking like an autist, they’ll give in because of your looks.

Social skills is a meme.

Also the idea that women don’t like hookups and ONS is a lie, single women are the biggest whores.

to be fair tinder isn't real-life, however it obviously has some bases on reality, personally I never found girls attractive looking at pictures

 

[Haywire]

im stupid in that way

 

[Mecoja]

I cant smalltalk even if my life depends on it, i hate answering on phone. I wish i was mute.

 

[_wifebeater_]

A good jaw, no recessed chin, hunter eyes and NW0.

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

avoid chimping out you are all set.

I didn't know that was a problem people had.

My experience chadfishing, you don’t have to do anything, if they don’t straight up suggest a hookup and send you nudes, you just ask for it, if they say no, just keep asking like an autist, they’ll give in because of your looks.

Social skills is a meme.

Also the idea that women don’t like hookups and ONS is a lie, single women are the biggest whores.

agree with everything you said, but just want to add that married women are also whores.

 

[Uglymuggly]

Looks = Social Skills

 

[Deleted member 16390]

the better you look the less social skills you need,
if you an ugly incel,/trucel, you need good social skills more than an average normies.
To avoid getting beat up and have the cops call on you.