Blackpill Who is also a looooser in the literal "friend" game?

[SlayerSlayer]

At this point, I have hardcore given up on women. It's been so long I can deal with that. But who else is so fucked, they can't even get IRL platonic friendships going on? It's so brutal.

There is so much fucking hypergamy and monkey branching even applied to just male-on-male friendships. Everyone is just in a stupid competition to be associate with other people cooler than them. It makes me sick. Most normans don't even want make new friends anymore, because they have too many. What I HATE is that these bitches all you a "friend" but never fucking treat you like one. They never invite you to anything. Never help you. All they do is take, flake, and leave when they want. Incels are the kind of guys that would show up to your party rain, sleet, or snow. Upon the nightmare that you throw a party, and it's only your two incel friends are the ones that show up, maybe that's a sign that YOU are an incel, just like your friends.

 

[SlayerSlayer]

I have never in my life had a friend. Never. Not even online, I just don't have friends.

But that's largely of my own choice. I have an avoidant personality, so if people do want to befriend me and message me, I just ghost them. In my life there were like 2 or 3 times when people did try to invite me or something like that, but I ghosted them 100% of the time. I'm very uncomfortable with people who try to know me or are nice towards me, I don't trust that.

Do you explain you have trust issues, or are you a dick about it?

 

[Brahcel]

I'm not a dick about it and I don't explain anything either. I just avoid interactions with people as much as possible. If somebody does talk to me, I'm nice and I smile, make small talk, but that's mostly just to avoid any unpleasantness in the future.

Now that I'm working, it's not like in uni or school. People don't give a shit and don't even try to befriend you. It's great, I go straight home after that, so I haven't had people try and talk to me about personal stuff in years.

what made u so avoidant? Its good and bad in some ways

 

[StaroRavager]

I haven’t had a real friend since I was 10. All of my subsequent “friends” (who were far and few between) either used me, turned on me, abandoned, me or carried out all of the above

 

[non tollitur]

you can make friends with people who share same traits and hobbies, but they are very few

 

[Cuyen]

you can make friends with people who share same traits and hobbies, but they are very few

there is no friend for your ugly face