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Discussion Who else is completely friendless

How many friends do you have

  • 0

    Votes: 20 66.7%
  • 1

    Votes: 6 20.0%
  • 2+

    Votes: 4 13.3%

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nvrbegan

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I never had friends after the age of 10 or so.
 
O as enemies do not count as friends
 
I have no friends, that's why I use this forum
 
No real friends, only transactional buddies
 
Friends are nt exclusive
 
I can't stand sexhavers
and they can't stand me so
0
 
having friends is a genetic privilege
having the genes that are required to have and make friends
 
Not counting people here, 0
 
No real-life friends.
 
I don't drink so i can't have any friends in a slav country. And even if i would do they would be having gfs and kids so no friends for you after age of 26.
 
1 or 2 close friends but they're online, kinda close-ish with two other groups that I moved away from but hang out with sometimes (online/irl).
 
having friends is a genetic privilege
having the genes that are required to have and make friends
You can be friends with other autists though, there's some nt people that'll tolerate you enough too unless you're a complete sperg.
 
I haven't had a single friend since leaving school.
 
I don’t have any real friends just fake ones
 
0 and don't want any tbh
 
I have 1, but he lives in another country. He visits me every year or so, in daily life I've no friends.
 
I never had friends after the age of 10 or so.
I’m not sure I’d call them friends in the sense that I know they don’t value me much (and honestly the feeling is mutual since they’re all communist pronoun people, I mean let’s be real how close could I ever really be with people like that?) but there is a small group I run tabletop games for.

I’d rather play of course, least sometimes, but if I don’t run it there is no game since none of them will (and if they did they wouldn’t invite me if I’m betting here).

But yes, all that to say I have some friend-like acquaintances. Not close ones, but they’re people to spend time with at least. I do it because it beats being entirely alone all the time.

I used to have two or three really good friends, or at least I thought I did many years ago. After I moved things fell apart and one of them got married (then divorced) so he pretty much disappeared after that.

Friends aren’t like family at least normally — you cant count of them and the relationship is very transactional albeit that’s not stated or anything. Maybe that’s different if you grew up with someone. I had one friend who I knew for like 15 years, thought he was my best friend and we were like brothers/family. He ghosted me after college though, not sure what I did.

I don’t know, I used to care about people genuinely. Now I feel like you can’t trust anybody basically ever (even if you marry someone, you have to cover your ass, in fact marriage in general is just a horrible deal for men and exposes you to tremendous risk in the modern day). I also have to be very careful to hide my real views constantly because if people around me knew what I actually believed they would despise me. I think what I believe is true same as anybody but things get tough socially when your views don’t align with the current norms.
 
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