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I have.

One of the reasons 2025 was such a hell realm for me is because I had a little bit of hope left that things would get "better" - but they didn't. Even when I tried to put forth effort, it was extremely exhausting mentally and physically all because I have OCD that slows me down and holds me back. Normalfags would call me "pathetic" for giving up this early on, but they don't have a clue what I've been through. They're all ignorant POS.

Anyway, I've completely given up, I don't care to find a career or go to sheepllege, I just want to rot away until I die.
 
Not yet, but I've given up on women and such.
Hopefully the uni degree leads me somewhere worthwhile
 
Not yet, but I've given up on women and such.
Hopefully the uni degree leads me somewhere worthwhile
At least you've given up on foids. Best decision you can make.
 
yeah, everything is pretty much fucked only option is suicide now
 
Don't want to live, just to exist
 
Pretty much. I have nothing going for me and nobody cares about me
 
At least you've given up on foids. Best decision you can make.
It's honestly a good feeling too. Just taking the whitepill and accepting defeat.

Couldn't care less about my hair looks when I leave the house, couldn't care less about what clothes I am wearing, just enjoying myself in the moment.
 
I only given up on the “love” aspect of life, I still havent given up on other things
 
Couldn't care less about my hair looks when I leave the house, couldn't care less about what clothes I am wearing, just enjoying myself in the moment.
YES! This IS the spirit!

I actually feel comfy in my body after I switched to this mindset, fatalism is absolutely insane, even when walking outdoors I changed my posture.

Hair, looks, pussy, all out of our control, we all age and die.
 
I completely gave up long ago now. I have no will to do anything but rot and die, anything else is just a nightmare
 
YES! This IS the spirit!

I actually feel comfy in my body after I switched to this mindset, fatalism is absolutely insane, even when walking outdoors I changed my posture.

Hair, looks, pussy, all out of our control, we all age and die.
100% man it really is a good feeling haha.
The only kind of redpilled thing I still do is eat well honestly, otherwise I feel like crap.

But yes, accepting defeat is the cure for social anxiety XD
 
100% man it really is a good feeling haha.
The only kind of redpilled thing I still do is eat well honestly, otherwise I feel like crap.

But yes, accepting defeat is the cure for social anxiety XD
FYI eating well does not fall into "improooooooooooooooooooooooooove :soy:" category because without a proper diet the body falls apart, and if the body falls then the mind gets weaker, if the mind gets weaker you create a loop, and that loop will prevent you from being fatalist as you start having the old mindset of "Why me?" or 'Should I try again?"

We must accept we are failures in a society that does not wants us, then we just focus on our well being and ignore everything else, the more you care about the worse things get.

There will be ups and downs, but so far that is the only thing that worked for me in 15 or so years.

Also, fatalism allows one to tank almost anything, mockery and ridicule being two things, but we still need to occupy our mind with copes, posting here is good as 'being negative' does not affect me anymore, I can be as negative as I want now.
 
FYI eating well does not fall into "improooooooooooooooooooooooooove :soy:" category because without a proper diet the body falls apart, and if the body falls then the mind gets weaker, if the mind gets weaker you create a loop, and that loop will prevent you from being fatalist as you start having the old mindset of "Why me?" or 'Should I try again?"

We must accept we are failures in a society that does not wants us, then we just focus on our well being and ignore everything else, the more you care about the worse things get.

There will be ups and downs, but so far that is the only thing that worked for me in 15 or so years.

Also, fatalism allows one to tank almost anything, mockery and ridicule being two things, but we still need to occupy our mind with copes, posting here is good as 'being negative' does not affect me anymore, I can be as negative as I want now.
Very true. We are doing factors such as eating good for ourselves, rather than for anyone else. Due to the other benefits we get from doing so.

And if society didn't want us when we were improved and maximised, then what's the point in continuing to try? We will benefit more from giving up than continuing. And our time will be used more effectively on copes and enjoying life, rather than endless loops that lead nowhere if that makes sense.
 
Very true. We are doing factors such as eating good for ourselves, rather than for anyone else. Due to the other benefits we get from doing so.

And if society didn't want us when we were improved and maximised, then what's the point in continuing to try? We will benefit more from giving up than continuing. And our time will be used more effectively on copes and enjoying life, rather than endless loops that lead nowhere if that makes sense.
Exacto mundo!

Is not that we want to give up, is that we have nothing else to do but give up :lul:

The upper echelon does not care about us since we already out of the mating pool, thus unable to give then more hamsters for the wheel.
We aren't attractive enough, smart enough, or statusmaxxed enough for women to consider us as companions.

Thus what's left is enjoy what we can enjoy and that's it, we were never 'cornered' against a wall and forced to fight back, we never were challenged for a fight to begin with.

I don't even see copes as copes now, they are just our natural state, we just need to pick our poison and watch out for the 'downs' that will come, but with time they won't be as damaging to our well being as we get 'used' to our new life.
 
Exacto mundo!

Is not that we want to give up, is that we have nothing else to do but give up :lul:

The upper echelon does not care about us since we already out of the mating pool, thus unable to give then more hamsters for the wheel.
We aren't attractive enough, smart enough, or statusmaxxed enough for women to consider us as companions.

Thus what's left is enjoy what we can enjoy and that's it, we were never 'cornered' against a wall and forced to fight back, we never were challenged for a fight to begin with.

I don't even see copes as copes now, they are just our natural state, we just need to pick our poison and watch out for the 'downs' that will come, but with time they won't be as damaging to our well being as we get 'used' to our new life.
Great point with the copes being more of a lifestyle rather than a "cope" itself :yes: :yes:

We would be foolish to NOT give up on women :feelskek:
 
Great point with the copes being more of a lifestyle rather than a "cope" itself :yes: :yes:
It is our life now.
But we must also fill 'the void' with copes, multiples that actually bring us joy, if we use the same coping mechanism over and over it creates a fatigue, so walking, gaming, reading, bullshiting on .is, pile these up and the day will fly!
We would be foolish to NOT give up on women :feelskek:

Not as hard, people from the 'outside' already know we never had a signficant other, we just to have take the hint and understand nobody but us cared about it, we aren't important to the point of people be thinking about us, we take advantage of it.

What we CAN'T do is deny (ever) that we desired and STILL desire a signficant other, as this can become delusion and you just lying to yourself about the nature of the world and humans, we tried, it didn't work, that's not ok, but we go on.

My new life is are bitching online, walking and gaming.

Also good night :feelsYall:
 
I have. All I do is lie down and rot.
 
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Yes, I did it a decade ago.
 
I gave up
Just rot and browse .is and play videogames
 
I have.

One of the reasons 2025 was such a hell realm for me is because I had a little bit of hope left that things would get "better" - but they didn't. Even when I tried to put forth effort, it was extremely exhausting mentally and physically all because I have OCD that slows me down and holds me back. Normalfags would call me "pathetic" for giving up this early on, but they don't have a clue what I've been through. They're all ignorant POS.

Anyway, I've completely given up, I don't care to find a career or go to sheepllege, I just want to rot away until I die.
I'm 18 and i already gave up. I'll just rope and hope for reincarnation.

The chances of such a thing existing are very low, but there is some physics theory behind it
 

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