I blame society for everything. If I was born 100 years ago, I would work hard and find a wife and settle, because everything was much more serious, moral and patriarchal back then. But today none of this exist, everything is much faster, there are no more moral values. If you don't look good and have weak social skills you fall behind, as simple as that. Society of today is superficial, losing virginity early and fucking as much as possible in your youth is a norm. Almost all women are whores... plus you are degraded and spitted on by all these society laws, it's like society makes life a living hell for you if you are incel.
There are no more values that existed in the past. No one appreciates virtue of bravery in war, strong character, will to learn, intellect, being a good father anymore. All of that is gone... now, you just need to seduce and fuck and that's it. And if you are not a normie you lose, you become a reject and society keeps shitting on you.