Serious What’s the age where you think “I failed” ?

[highschoolcel]

I’ve heard some guys would have a major breakdown when they reach 30.

They realise “I have no career, no accomplishment, no family. At my age my parents were already married, lived in their own house and had children”

What do you think is the age where most ppl realise they’ve failed ?

 

[I want to believe]

30 is quite accurate, I think.

 

[copemaxx9002]

18

 

[VλREN]

Shit

 

[VλREN]

Shit

Excuse the language

 

[Doesitmatter?]

25

 

[anotherwastedlife]

I knew i was going to fail the moment i turned 13 but it really set in at around 24

 

[BasedAdam]

0

 

[light]

25

 

[Deleted User 451254]

18 is the age you look around and think: "What the fuck went wrong?"

 

[Deleted User 451254]

18

 

[Serious]

when they reach 30.

They realise “I have no career, no accomplishment, no family. At my age my parents were already married, lived in their own house and had children”

Im almost 33 and of course I had thoughts like look at all my peers from primary-, middle-, high- school, 99% of them have it better than me despite the fact that I was usually getting one of best scores in school.

The point is, brain always tries to cope. I have no career and my brain still gives me this thoughts: learn programming, learn foreign languge, get another university course and your life will suddenly become better.
Im already part time studying to get 4th unviersity degree, at the same time I cant even find a proper job because Im fat and severely ugly. Im fucked but my brain constantly gives me copes.

 

[Layollyus II]

Excuse the language

You are excused

 

[Incline]

24+

 

[TheJester]

Around 22.

 

[IncelsNeverCry]

Mid 20s but hitting 30 is probably the actual point of mental disaster

 

[Runt171]

18 is the age you look around and think: "What the fuck went wrong?"

 

[AutisticMonstrosity]

I’ve heard some guys would have a major breakdown when they reach 30.

They realise “I have no career, no accomplishment, no family. At my age my parents were already married, lived in their own house and had children”

What do you think is the age where most ppl realise they’ve failed ?

my life was over at 15 years old when I should have had my first summer job. could not get summer jobs the next summers because no prior work experience. or any work after. only at 15 in summer jobs it is OK to not have prior work experience. i couldn't work or even look for a job because i was held in hospital against my will.

 

[darkdoomer]

I’ve heard some guys would have a major breakdown when they reach 30.

They realise “I have no career, no accomplishment, no family. At my age my parents were already married, lived in their own house and had children”

What do you think is the age where most ppl realise they’ve failed ?

It was this morning

 

[Incedel]

18, people can cope about how your still a kind but as I approach 27, my personality, habits and traits just haven't changed that much. I went to college for 1 semester and people were already way more exprieince in sex and mature than me. There might be some late bloomers but the overwhelming majority wasn't.

Also college or sex camp for HTN , Chadlites and Chads is crazy blackpilled. All the tropes of high school movies and college shit is based on this man constant drinking, sex having and basically doing shit Incels couldn't do. Eventually I had to drop out because I heard my white chadlite having sex with a slutina in my dorm room.

If you aren't having sex or social maxxed by 18 90% odds it doesn't get better than that

 

[Notkev]

21 (me rn)

 

[beyondschizo]

30 is quite accurate, I think.

Yea early to mid 30s

 

[Kaz馬鹿みたい]

Mid 20s but hitting 30 is probably the actual point of mental disaster

 

[CrackingYs]

Early 30's. You can still have some hope in your 20's, especially if you have friends and you have a job and a place of your own. But then quickly the agepill happens, your life really doesn't change very much for years, time starts to slip by, all your dreams and goals seem farther away the more time passes. And you come to the conclusion it's probably too late. And then it really is too late.

 

[nice to NEET you]

Just recently actually. This is the reason why I returned here

 

[Ghost]

I’ve heard some guys would have a major breakdown when they reach 30.

They realise “I have no career, no accomplishment, no family. At my age my parents were already married, lived in their own house and had children”

What do you think is the age where most ppl realise they’ve failed ?

40

 

[daydreamER]

I knew it was over when I was around 7. I used to get made fun of for how ugly I was and I knew that I was treated differently.

 

[allDead]

Can confirm 30

 

[PolnischeKartoffel]

20 (if khhv and no hs completed or being neet) to 25 (even with completed college and well paid job someone has no social life and begins to seeing their incoming misery)

 

[NIGGER BOJANGLES]

18

This

 

[Devilspawncel]

I’ve heard some guys would have a major breakdown when they reach 30.

They realise “I have no career, no accomplishment, no family. At my age my parents were already married, lived in their own house and had children”

What do you think is the age where most ppl realise they’ve failed ?

0

 

[prajeet88]

Apart from romantically, I really don't think I've failed. And actually, looking at many of my friends, colleagues, and acquittances who got divorceraped, I didn't even fail that badly romantically by simply staying celibate. A 35yo virgin is arguably less of a romantic failure than a 35yo guy who gets married, gets cucked with children who aren't his, then gets divorceraped and is left with nothing. I know such examples.

 

[XDFLAMEBOY]

I’ve heard some guys would have a major breakdown when they reach 30.

They realise “I have no career, no accomplishment, no family. At my age my parents were already married, lived in their own house and had children”

What do you think is the age where most ppl realise they’ve failed ?

25+

 

[NIGGER BOJANGLES]

25+

I can guarantee you are not 25+

 

[XDFLAMEBOY]

I can guarantee you are not 25+

I’m 26

 

[NIGGER BOJANGLES]

I’m 26

If you say so. I find that very hard to believe

 

[Shark]

I would say 19. At that point you are already supposed to have had multiple girlfriends, experiences with jobs etc.

 

[XDFLAMEBOY]

If you say so. I find that very hard to believe

Incel trait: Just turned 26 and no optimism

Now that I just turned 26 and still KHHV. I have no optimisim at all in my future heck I don't even know if anyone will even wish me happy birthday. Since I remember a year when only my parents wish me happy birthday. Well I just hope that this year I could atleast master a skill on somethimg...

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[NIGGER BOJANGLES]

Incel trait: Just turned 26 and no optimism

Now that I just turned 26 and still KHHV. I have no optimisim at all in my future heck I don't even know if anyone will even wish me happy birthday. Since I remember a year when only my parents wish me happy birthday. Well I just hope that this year I could atleast master a skill on somethimg...

incels.is

Alright then, lol

 

[bimmercel]

nearly 30 when I started to realise that I will never get a hot JB.

 

[Neucher The Kanga]

23 at the latest I would say

 

[McFlurryCel]

It nevER began

 

[FinnCel]

11

 

[curryboy420]

Well I realised this at about 21 or 22 and my mum kicked me out into my council flat to rot here forever by 24. So yeah I would say 22 or 23 you know you life is over.

 

[PunishedNEETcel]

It started to hit me at around age 20. I became severely depressed for several years until I learned how to cope. Then I got a second wind of "it's over" depression at 28/29 when I realized my 20's were pretty much over and I had done nothing noteworthy

 

[Sloth]

Early 20s

 

[Lux]

Lux determined it is 21

 

[LOLI BREEDING]

I'm 30, both my grandparents ascended at 30 so I have high hopes of finally losing my virginity this year

 

[Truecelcel]

12 (2013/14)

 

[LifeMaxxer]

All the important things happen before 18. After 18, itll take you many years, decades or even a lifetime reversing the damage that’s already done.

The mistakes are logarithmic and basically works in a upward or downward cycle. It starts from elementary school honestly and just continues onward. The differences get bigger and bigger.

I messed up in high school by not going to a proper college and just picking a random one where people don’t care. I didn’t apply for any scholarships because the process is so daunting and endless. I ended up connecting with people who I don’t really click with. I swapped to a different school but now im surrounded by mid 20s- early 30s folk who give me looks for walking in with my hoddie in a finance class. Old fucks.

Everyone already has their own little group, experience(s), etc. People dont hit you up outside of class, its a isolation cycle that you can feel get smaller but bigger simultaneously. You end up caring less because it really isn’t that serious.

So now Im lonely with students loans and 0 reliable things to show for it. I had to transfer to a city college but a degree from my old university wouldn’t get me anywhere in this market. All of this started at 18.

All the important times of your life where you have the most opportunities to jump from lower class to middle class also end up being when you are at your dumbest. 3 years after high school, Im only just learning how fucked things were.

At 18 it’s already decided if its over or not. You might not know it but just because you don’t know something doesn’t mean that it’s not there. It’s at the age of 21 that I realize how much I was left behind by my NT peers when they were only 16 and younger. I hung out with losers all my life. I was a loser all my life. After going through the oneitis cope at 19-20 and depression for this entire year, I’m only now realizing how much people hate you if you are incel. You can’t fake your way out of it. It starts before you even realize. And you are that way for the rest of your life.