Discussion Where do you draw the line between incel and volcel?

[Reddit=Bandwagonism]

I’ve been really thinking about this. What really separates a volcel from an incel? Let’s be honest with ourselves, everyone here has met at least one woman who isn’t old or disfigured yet can’t find her attractive at all—like at all. Are we all then volcels in some way? Where is the line drawn? Who decides? Do you consider yourself an incel? Volcel? Stacycel? In between?

 

[Roastie Crusher]

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[warm wool blanket]

I draw the line at agency. An incel experiences involuntary sexual exclusion despite a desire for partnership, whereas a volcel is celibate by choice and treats that condition as self-directed rather than imposed.

 

[Subhuman Niceguy]

Volcel = "I had girls into me. They tended to be fat Mexican women, so I never dated any of the girls from my high school."

Incel =

 

[LeFrenchCel]

Volcel is a vague term, tbh what it means depends of the person

Some would say that not going to escorts is being a volcel
Some would say that not trying to ask out every foid you see on the street is being volcel
Some would say that never asking out a foid in your life is being volcel