Venting Whenever I look in the mirror and think I look decent, past memories immediately crush any positive feelings I have about myself

[Getlooksordie]

I will look in the mirror and think I look good, but then I remember I also felt good about my appearance right before getting rejected 30+ times in a row by women at speed dating events (literally every woman rejected me) or getting no Tinder matches with my best pic while getting flooded with matches as soon as I change my pic to a male model.

As an incel it´s literally impossible to feel good about your appearance. Even if I get all my surgeries and end up getting a girl I will forever have BDD and always feel physically unattractive.

The only thing that would cure me is getting as many matches as a male model because that would be the ultimate proof that I pass the minimum looks thresold to be considered physically attractive.

 

[Deleted member 677]

 

[metal]

past is terrible, for other motives I feel same sensation

 

[_wifebeater_]

Mirrorview - 2 points = Real rating.
So if you look 5/10 in the mirror your real rating is 3/10.

 

[Edantez]

Escapism is the only way, bro.

 

[TheHumanFactor]

Sex is necessary to get real confidence in your appearance yet it only takes one rejection to lose it

 

[Mickeyonacid]

Mirrorview - 2 points = Real rating.
So if you look 5/10 in the mirror your real rating is 3/10.

Looks like I'm a 1 then, grrreat.

 

[IHateMySelf]

Mirrors are our biggest enemy.

 

[FiveFourManlet]

My only cope is staring at myself in the mirror