It's Over When waitresses refer to you as 'sweetheart' you know it's over

[Vermilioncore]

Was eating with my family for my brother's birthday at a sit down restaurant. When the Stacy waitress brought our food out, she served everyone normal, but when she put my plate down, she said, "here you go sweetheart" in a light voice as if she was talking to a toddler. I'm 23 but everyone says I look 17. She probably thought I was just a little boy.

 

[Insomniac]

I never go out but I would probably receive similar treatment. I look the exact same as I did when I was 16.

I guess it’s better than looking old.

 

[Norky]

That and "honey"

 

[RollD20]

I am called "Dear, honey or sweetie".
I get called out for I.D when buying vidya.

 

[Mainländer]

 

[Vermilioncore]

I am called "Dear, honey or sweetie".
I get called out for I.D when buying vidya.

buy vidya from home boyo

 

[Hikikomori]

Oh i hate that so much, the "you're all set hon" treatment. It's over.

 

[Vermilioncore]

"yay! there we go, doll!"

 

[Deleted member 17752]

Yeesh man that's brutal.

 

[FrothySolutions]

Better to look young than to look old. I don't wanna patronize you, but maybe you can't relate because you're still young at 23. Once you hit your 30s or 40s? I think you're gonna start wishing people called you "sweetheart."

 

[LastGerman]

she said, "here you go sweetheart" in a light voice as if she was talking to a toddler. I'm 23 but everyone says I look 17. She probably thought I was just a little boy.

 

[Deleted member 14866]

mogs me

 

[HighTGymcel]

Yeesh man that's brutal.

 

[Deleted member 17889]

 

[Deleted member 17997]

I never go out but I would probably receive similar treatment. I look the exact same as I did when I was 16.

I guess it’s better than looking old.

I look like I'm 12 JFL

 

[Insomniac]

No bro, no one respects you if you look like a boy. Chads look masculine.

 

[Dstig97]

This happens too me all the time especially when I just shaved, people look at me like I’m crazy when I buy booze

 

[Joelossus]

Could've been worse ngl.

 

[NoMoreSlaving]

I never go out but I would probably receive similar treatment. I look the exact same as I did when I was 16.

I guess it’s better than looking old.

It is. My face is like Gordon Ramsay's but with extra acne

 

[Nakuro]

Was eating with my family for my brother's birthday at a sit down restaurant. When the Stacy waitress brought our food out, she served everyone normal, but when she put my plate down, she said, "here you go sweetheart" in a light voice as if she was talking to a toddler. I'm 23 but everyone says I look 17. She probably thought I was just a little boy.

okey chad, go to chad.is

 

[Bangkok or bust]

I get called "darling" and "sweetie" by early 20's girls when ordering fish and chips. I'm 41.

why does this happen?

 

[Deleted member 16455]

I can relate to this. I look 15. But it could be worse tbh

 

[Bangkok or bust]

I can relate to this. I look 15. But it could be worse tbh

Why does it happen to me at age 41, by girls 20 years younger or more?

 

[Deleted member 16455]

Why does it happen to me at age 41, by girls 20 years younger or more?

Do you think you look young for your age ?

 

[Bangkok or bust]

Do you think you look young for your age ?

I used to get shit for it well into my 30's, yes. But its not that i look 15 or something at 41.

Why do you think its related to how young somebody looks anyway?

 

[Deleted member 16455]

I used to get shit for it well into my 30's, yes. But its not that i look 15 or something at 41.

Why do you think its related to how young somebody looks anyway?

Well OP said it was because he looked young for his age. Maybe it’s because that’s what teachers usually call children. Words like “honey” or “sweetie”. They see you as a little boy. I’m not sure about you though.

 

[Deleted member 1783]

It’s over if you look young for your age, you will be patronized and treated like a young teenager by strangers every day when you’re in your adult years. Everyone suddenly acts like they know better than you and can order you around.

 

[Bangkok or bust]

Well OP said it was because he looked young for his age. Maybe it’s because that’s what teachers usually call children. Words like “honey” or “sweetie”. They see you as a little boy. I’m not sure about you though.

I can send you a pic if you want.

It’s over if you look young for your age, you will be patronized and treated like a young teenager by strangers every day when you’re in your adult years. Everyone suddenly acts like they know better than you and can order you around.

Thats true. It was fucking horrible being mistaken for 17 at 25 and 20 at 30.

 

[ihaveno1]

never had a waitress say this to me but yea its brutal, i've seen 14 year olds look older then what i am now

 

[Deleted member 16455]

I can send you a pic if you want.

Sure

 

[Mainländer]

No bro, no one respects you if you look like a boy. Chads look masculine.

I'd love to be some boymaxxed pretty boy. Beats being an ugly bald ogre EZ.

 

[Deleted member 16359]

this is legit bragging

 

[RopeIsCope]

 

[Looksmaxxcel]

At least you can hit on highschool/college-aged girls without being seen as a creep.

 

[this is hell]

No bro, no one respects you if you look like a boy. Chads look masculine.

justin bieber doesnt look masculine and yet he has endless hordes of JB sluts throwing their pussies at him. same thing with all those kpop stars like jungkook, he looks like a girl yet women love him. not all slayers look masculine, some slayers have babyfaces.

 

[AsiaCel]

Slayers.co

 

[Honeypot]

Imagine being called "kid" with 26 years old, I must be some kind of mutant tbh, at this ritme I will live a thousand years.

justin bieber doesnt look masculine and yet he has endless hordes of JB sluts throwing their pussies at him. same thing with all those kpop stars like jungkook, he looks like a girl yet women love him. not all slayers look masculine, some slayers have babyfaces.

he is a worldwide known celebrity
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[Smallondick]

Better to look young than to look old.

 

[Bangkok or bust]

Imagine being called "kid" with 26 years old, I must be some kind of mutant tbh, at this ritme I will live a thousand years.

he is a worldwide known celebrity
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.
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Lol, I was called "kid" by strangers not many years older than me when i entered my 30's.

 

[Blacktarpill]

I never go out but I would probably receive similar treatment. I look the exact same as I did when I was 16.

I guess it’s better than looking old.

immune to the agepill
complains

Jkjk, i also look younger than my age.

 

[Honeypot]

Lol, I was called "kid" by strangers not many years older than me when i entered my 30's.

kids me

 

[Deleted member 1252]

When I go to a restaurant the waitress grimaces, shudders and pukes in her mouth.

 

[AsiaCel]

I was called "kid we're promoting phone discounts" by a 6'3 guy JFL, FYI I'm 5'10 with shoes

 

[tanfeo]

When I go to a restaurant the waitress does not attend me and pretend that I'm not there.
I have to ask directly if they can serve me, and even then she pretends she doesn't understand and/or calls the manager.

 

[RollD20]

buy vidya from home boyo

Be me.
Try to buy MKII and DoA 6.
Cashier: "Are you sure you are over 18?"
Me: "Yes"
Cashier: "What is your birthday?"
Me: Says birthday.
Cashier: "Hmmm... Do you have I.D. on you?"
Me: Don't bring I.D. because you were just going to buy vidya and milk.
Cashier: "You look too young to play this game."

Great now I have to spend 3 more dollars to catch a bus home just for I.D. then come back. Decide to just to go home.

I get called "darling" and "sweetie" by early 20's girls when ordering fish and chips. I'm 41.

why does this happen?

If you still get asked for I.D like me for vidya, you probably look very young for your age. Otherwise, it could just be a polite way waitresses treat guests, and it isn't related to your appearance.

Imagine being called "kid" with 26 years old, I must be some kind of mutant tbh, at this ritme I will live a thousand years.

This is my cope tbh. Maybe I have some random genome that makes me possibly immortal or something.

 

[Deleted member 8206]

I was called "kid we're promoting phone discounts" by a 6'3 guy JFL, FYI I'm 5'10 with shoes

how tall are u bare foot

 

[Saung-Hui Cho]

That means:

“Fuck you.”

 

[AsiaCel]

how tall are u bare foot

5'95 I think

 

[incels.REEEE]

Was eating with my family for my brother's birthday at a sit down restaurant. When the Stacy waitress brought our food out, she served everyone normal, but when she put my plate down, she said, "here you go sweetheart" in a light voice as if she was talking to a toddler. I'm 23 but everyone says I look 17. She probably thought I was just a little boy.

Happened to me many many times. One cashier at Kroger asked if I was on the autism spectrum and had a Stacy worker help me out of the store with my groceries.

 

[TheRiseOfCope]

Tbh people don't talk down to you because you look young, it's because you're subhuman and they consider you beneath them.