Serious When people say "just go out" what does that even mean?

[ControlledInsanity]

What do they imagine you doing when told to just put yourself out there? Are they subconsciously projecting? The only things I can even think to do might involve go to the store to acquire x [food/fuel/item], go to public place [mall/park/store] and wander, drive around aimlessly. Normies cannot understand that if you failed to cultivate a social life before 20, it is impossible to recover from.

 

[Hunter]

they dont understand that with the social skills of a walnut you cant actually interact with people in public.

 

[Deleted member 3725]

Probably women mostly giving this advice as they dont have to do anything but exist.

 

[Deleted member 677]

It's the advice of privileged Chads who have women approach them or respond kindly to their advances.

 

[Its_OVER]

Lol @ going out as a sub7
BRB dropping coin on a trendy haircut and clothing
BRB getting an uber to get to the club/bar
BRB buying overpriced priced drinks at the club/bar
BRB hitting on a bunch of sloots that find your existence repulsive and trying to dance next to them
BRB getting rejected like crazy and nothing to show for your effort
BRB getting an uber back and contemplating suicide but too tired to excute it.

 

[acnescarcel]

Lol @ going out as a sub7
BRB dropping coin on a trendy haircut and clothing
BRB getting an uber to get to the club/bar
BRB buying overpriced priced drinks at the club/bar
BRB hitting on a bunch of sloots that find your existence repulsive and trying to dance next to them
BRB getting rejected like crazy and nothing to show for your effort
BRB getting an uber back and contemplating suicide but too tired to excute it.

 

[ControlledInsanity]

Probably women mostly giving this advice as they dont have to do anything but exist.

Exactly why I mentioned projecting. They probably imagine you will step outside and immediately be having face to face jovial banter with aquaintances in no time ...just like in their own personal experience.

 

[BlackpilledBetaBux]

They want to force you into a hell of rejection, mockery and bullying. Those with "good intentions" think that when you're among people for some time, they will some day magically accept you, so you can get along with them, maybe even find a girl or woman. Which can, of course, not work.

There is nothing to recover from. If you've been forced into groups all your childhood and youth, given a daily hell, it is clear that you could never "learn" how to be accepted in society. Forums like this are full of people with "light weight" disorders, autistic spectrum, ADHD and the like, which make living in society impossible, or at least hard as hell.

Strangely, when one "goes out" and tries to approach girls/women (of course without any clue how to properly do), they are quick to cry "sexual harassment" and "creepy pervert", so they should have better left one alone with the computer, or whatever is good for life in solitude.

 

[whogivesafucc]

they dont understand that with the social skills of a walnut you cant actually interact with people in public.

 

[Shower_Taker]

It literally means “I won’t be bothered with your problems so have a one-liner dismissal.”

 

[Woody Allen]

I go out a lot and it doesn't mean much. Walk to the bus, walk around the mall, go out to eat at various places, hit the water park. go to the movies. I can go a full day, even when I go outside, and not talk to anyone. Or if I talk to someone, it's something basic and quick, like buying a movie ticket. It doesn't mean anything. I'm out and about, but I'm still alone.

 

[Stoiccel]

It literally means “I won’t be bothered with your problems so have a one-liner dismissal.”

Probably women mostly giving this advice as they dont have to do anything but exist.

 

[grayjedi90]

What do they imagine you doing when told to just put yourself out there? Are they subconsciously projecting? The only things I can even think to do might involve go to the store to acquire x [food/fuel/item], go to public place [mall/park/store] and wander, drive around aimlessly. Normies cannot understand that if you failed to cultivate a social life before 20, it is impossible to recover from.

When normies mean just go out they mean that you should hit up the bars, clubs and discos in your area and socialize. Sadly for us incels those places are hell but that's what normies mean.

 

[Piquedram]

Have you tried joining a club/organization or something like that.

I'm about to join a religious organization in my area.

It doesn't matter if you like doing certain things or if you believe in them, it's about getting as much social interaction as possible. Trust me it does wonders for your mental health.

 

[ControlledInsanity]

@Piquedram I have and continue to try. It hasn't yielded any success yet but I figure it's better than looking back decades from now and wondering if anything might have changed.

 

[Indari]

they are just barely trying to virtue signal and tell you it's not over

 

[GeneticDysfunction]

Shut up and stop complaining, go out get rekt and suicide so they wont have to hear u complain anymore.