when marriage/children-minded women in their 20s through early 30s have fun with chad, what are their plans/goals?

[southeastoldcel]

Basically, I'm referring to white professional average to fairly attractive women who are neurotypical. We all know they chase chad in these age ranges, and then when they hit a certain age transition end up marrying the best provider/normie they still can. But for your typical woman in this period, I've always been curious as to what's going on in their head. Is it:

A) true belief that a high earning successful chad is going to wife them up? And it takes until their early to mid 30s to realize that isn't happening and since they still want marriage and kids just get the best career oriented/provider normie who fits in with their lifestyle?

or

b) that the plan all along was to have fun with chad throughout their 'best' and most attractive years(since thats when chad would value them good enough for casual sex sometimes) with no expectation that they could snag a successful chad for marriage/kids, then pivot to the marriage/motherhood route with a suitable normie when they realize they need to get off the exit route then or it will be too late?

 

[Todd Thundercock]

Wife them up. I assume women have levels of self-esteem and belief they can win people over more than we can imagine. I've been around women in their 40s who were nothing special that seemed to believe they could get any man they wanted.

I don't believe holes when they say it's just fun with Chad. I think they're coping when they say that.

 

[southeastoldcel]

Wife them up. I assume women have levels of self-esteem and belief they can win people over more than we can imagine. I've been around women in their 40s who were nothing special that seemed to believe they could get any man they wanted.

I don't believe holes when they say it's just fun with Chad. I think they're coping when they say that.

For most of them that's what I'm guessing too.

The thing is it's super important for these type of women to realize it's not going to happen with Chad as early as possible, because when they get off the exit ramp and try to sign up for the best normie they can get is going to go a long way in determining what they get.

Take some typical white girl in a suburb of Atlanta. She's a pharmacist. She was in a sorority at UGA. The problem is she's only a 6/10 or so and lagged way behind the more attractive girls in her sorority.

If she realizes the truth with Chad fairly early on and is able to exit at age 27-28, she's going to have a great shot at a htn(and not just in looks but in $, career and social status, outgoing personality, etc)

But if she refuses to get off the interstate onto an exit ramp until she is 35-37, that very same girl at age 27-28 is now forced to accept an average normie.

It could literally be the difference between ending up marrying a high tier normie surgeon who has a large and popular friend group, was in a frat in college, etc vs marrying a mid tier normie who has a dead end office job in human resources making 85k/year that forces the woman to keep working full time even after kids, live in a less desirable neighborhood, and on and on.......

Even most women understand that their marriage prospects(and the quality of guy they can get) are much better at 27 than 36.

 

[SIR ETHNICCEL]

Basically, I'm referring to white professional average to fairly attractive women who are neurotypical. We all know they chase chad in these age ranges, and then when they hit a certain age transition end up marrying the best provider/normie they still can. But for your typical woman in this period, I've always been curious as to what's going on in their head. Is it:

A) true belief that a high earning successful chad is going to wife them up? And it takes until their early to mid 30s to realize that isn't happening and since they still want marriage and kids just get the best career oriented/provider normie who fits in with their lifestyle?

or

b) that the plan all along was to have fun with chad throughout their 'best' and most attractive years(since thats when chad would value them good enough for casual sex sometimes) with no expectation that they could snag a successful chad for marriage/kids, then pivot to the marriage/motherhood route with a suitable normie when they realize they need to get off the exit route then or it will be too late?

The thing with youth is people are dumb as fuck, they believe they will never die and do stupid stunts, either they come out the other side through a bit of luck or end up injured or dead.
Young men think they have time and can be anything they want. Reality is by age 26 its already too late to be chosen as trainee in entry level for long term retention in almost worthwhile careers except medical jobs, jobs like stuff like fireman, officer rank and above in the military, detectives, all dont deal with older applicnts. The wall is real for professional men. Either didnt neet when young, worked out regurarly , got your school diplomas and if you failed, you repeated and studied hard, maybe got a university degree or got an entry level traineeship job etc etc.
The professional wall for young men is real.

Young women think they will be desired and attractive forever because as of 13 years old women start getting crazy amounts of male attention and thirst online and in real life. They can get sex easly from the highest smv Chads , rich men willing to spend $$$$$ on them, multiple men every single day asking for their number/snapchat/insta everyday.

Women also want to marry, but old washed up, dried out hags that are alone, miserable and living with their cats jealous of young women getting all the male attention tell young women not to marry young, to chase a career yet majority of women just like men will never ever have top careers, majority do nonsence jobs like retail, call center, government jobs etc etc etc and AI is replacing many of data entry type jobs anyway.
Young women getting so much male thirst attention believe they will always be desired and "can settle down later, get married and have 2 babies"

Reality hits hard like a train. Alot of women reach menopause in early 30's . For a portion of women they really were not that high smv , pretty, attractive when young anyway but they were young and men still went crazy for their young bodies but reach 30 and those ugliest women of their generation are the first to hit the wall HARD. The Stacys still have some time and can still easly land a betabuxxer . Then each year from that generation 10-15% smash hard into the wall and at about 36 women are nolonger desried AT ALL as marriage or LTR candidates same as the young men after 26 are not considered for worthwhile careers. Exceptions for these old hags exists, either they have $$$$$$$ or power then they can still get a good husband else they become cat ladies.

No man honestly desires to wife up a hag. Older men like in their 50's will wife over 34 year old women but most "valuable" men i.e still healthy, got a job etc etc are taken out the dating market FAST anyway leaving mental, neet or problem men(alcoholics, druggies) etc in the dating market for the hags . Many hags end up single

Do you understand now?

 

[southeastoldcel]

The thing with youth is people are dumb as fuck, they believe they will never die and do stupid stunts, either they come out the other side through a bit of luck or end up injured or dead.
Young men think they have time and can be anything they want. Reality is by age 26 its already too late to be chosen as trainee in entry level for long term retention in almost worthwhile careers except medical jobs, jobs like stuff like fireman, officer rank and above in the military, detectives, all dont deal with older applicnts. The wall is real for professional men. Either didnt neet when young, worked out regurarly , got your school diplomas and if you failed, you repeated and studied hard, maybe got a university degree or got an entry level traineeship job etc etc.
The professional wall for young men is real.

Young women think they will be desired and attractive forever because as of 13 years old women start getting crazy amounts of male attention and thirst online and in real life. They can get sex easly from the highest smv Chads , rich men willing to spend $$$$$ on them, multiple men every single day asking for their number/snapchat/insta everyday.

Women also want to marry, but old washed up, dried out hags that are alone, miserable and living with their cats jealous of young women getting all the male attention tell young women not to marry young, to chase a career yet majority of women just like men will never ever have top careers, majority do nonsence jobs like retail, call center, government jobs etc etc etc and AI is replacing many of data entry type jobs anyway.
Young women getting so much male thirst attention believe they will always be desired and "can settle down later, get married and have 2 babies"

Reality hits hard like a train. Alot of women reach menopause in early 30's . For a portion of women they really were not that high smv , pretty, attractive when young anyway but they were young and men still went crazy for their young bodies but reach 30 and those ugliest women of their generation are the first to hit the wall HARD. The Stacys still have some time and can still easly land a betabuxxer . Then each year from that generation 10-15% smash hard into the wall and at about 36 women are nolonger desried AT ALL as marriage or LTR candidates same as the young men after 26 are not considered for worthwhile careers. Exceptions for these old hags exists, either they have $$$$$$$ or power then they can still get a good husband else they become cat ladies.

No man honestly desires to wife up a hag. Older men like in their 50's will wife over 34 year old women but most "valuable" men i.e still healthy, got a job etc etc are taken out the dating market FAST anyway leaving mental, neet or problem men(alcoholics, druggies) etc in the dating market for the hags . Many hags end up single

Do you understand now?

excellent take. I would argue though that for the marriage/children minded white women who wait until they are older to marry, it's not because older cat ladies(or anyone else) tell them "don't get married young". I would argue it's more they are wanting to marry chad. They can't stand the thought of cashing in their chips at age 28 with a htn provider type when they still have hope they can marry chad.

what these women don't understand is that they are taking a *big* risk by spending their late 20s and early 30s trying to marry chad, because if they don't(and if they are 6/10 they likely won't) those years that has downgraded the type of guy they will actually end up marrying and having kids with.

 

[SIR ETHNICCEL]

excellent take. I would argue though that for the marriage/children minded white women who wait until they are older to marry, it's not because older cat ladies(or anyone else) tell them "don't get married young". I would argue it's more they are wanting to marry chad. They can't stand the thought of cashing in their chips at age 28 with a htn provider type when they still have hope they can marry chad.

what these women don't understand is that they are taking a *big* risk by spending their late 20s and early 30s trying to marry chad, because if they don't(and if they are 6/10 they likely won't) those years that has downgraded the type of guy they will actually end up marrying and having kids with.

yes true , every woman want a LTR with Chad. But still who told lower smv women they can get Chad? Why do lower smv women even believe Chad will settle with them? Who told them they are so amazing and godesses and princesses and "desreve better" . Why are young women not told from young to be realistic? To be pragmatic? Who instead of that tells them "not to settle for less" , that "marriage is slavery"?

By the way majority of women are low smv i.e sub 6

 

[southeastoldcel]

yes true , every woman want a LTR with Chad. But still who told lower smv women they can get Chad? Why do lower smv women even believe Chad will settle with them? Who told them they are so amazing and godesses and princesses and "desreve better" . Why are young women not told from young to be realistic? To be pragmatic? Who instead of that tells them "not to settle for less" , that "marriage is slavery"?

By the way majority of women are low smv i.e sub 6

Well for starters let me specify that I'm talking about a very specific sort of women- basically white educated women in that age group who are neither really hot nor unnattractive. I just know this group of women better because that's typically the group I would try to date when I was younger. My goal was to always be the beta buxxer type they settled down with. The problem in the end was that better looking non-chad guys would beat me out for that role. But what stuck with me is I once came closer with a girl who was like 33-34 than any of the 26 year olds. In the end too she ended up with a fairly low end guy in terms of looks who was an oncologist I actually went to med school with, but i guess I was even lower end lol and he still beat me out.

but to answer your question, part of the 'who' are chad himself. He does fuck them occasionally after all right? Now sure they are in many cases thinking that him fucking her occasionally means more than it does, but still......I'd say when he fucks her he is telling her *something* at least.