If you want to successfully control a nation without war you must propagandize to its gatekeepers of love, that is after indoctrinating in their adaptive mind the sense of personal liberty as their free-thinking counterpart. The ultimate weapon against NT men is manipulating their psyche until they give up their inherent ability of free thought in the act of desperate compromisation. The way to access this phenomenon is to starve them of a primal basic need. In a famine you can learn to grow your own food. If you wish to pollute the area with noise to deprive sleep, you can sound-proof the house. But a satisfiable(psychologically legitimate) intimacy is based entirely off genetics, and gives our oppressor the advantage of affecting as far as western tools and propaganda reach. The Internet was initially a very useful government intercommunications tool that wasn't properly regulated. Because of this, it allowed its abuse for profit. And now we're in the apocalyptic after effects of a miracle tool becoming a means of self-destruction by gradually deestabolishing evolved social tradition in favor of the rise of Fisherian Runaway.
Which is of course the result of the blackpill, brocel. And a major part of the great filter at the dawn of cosmic exploration.
What we need is a tool that can be a viable alternative to the conventional human consort. One that can successfully trick the mind of a man that the result is genuine. And that will constitute a major feat of human ingenuity that will require nearly ever aspect of STEM. Including the machine's capability of human reproduction, or a different method of propagation entirely that doesn't require another.
Women will create their own counterpart, and may reproduce. But this will not last long because their indoctrinated collective mindset is not sustainable on an anarchic scale. You are absolutely right, there is a disparity. Those who follow their collective will be another section of human history, as we are already starting to see with the pride movement. Transitioners regretting their decision and resorting to suicide. They will back this, by disregarding realistic testimonials in favor of exceptions. The 44% domestic violence statistic among lesbian marriages. It is far less of an issue in gay marriages because of this mental disparity between the two genders. Truly androgynous chromosome mutations are a different category all together, but that's a broad and variable spectrum of limited factual data that modern science hasn't weaponized to push an ulterior motive such as agendas.
I refer to this time as the later dark ages. I define the end of this era as the inevitable instant access of all needs, including sexual. Instant access to desires will be that next step beyond. All of this in a way that doesn't impose on another's personal life because just being real, I have no desire to be butt-raped by somebody that wanted to transition to a werewolf tentacle monster.
So perhaps a simulated reality, like the concept behind creative mode in Minecraft. Immediate access to everything. A better UI to this would be prompting what you want, instead of scrolling a list that mogs the Library of Babel. This simulated reality must be entirely physically indistinguishable from the waking world. Now you'll be able to have the full ER experience, if you want that.