what's with the love vs attachment thing?

[mgtow]

If you google 'love vs attachment', there's a number of psychology websites talking about how love is selfless while attachment is insecurity, jealousy, dependency etc.

Wondering if this modern age hacking of psychology into defining love that suits the foid->roastie path by which they can pick & choose narratives that suits them as love and mark everything else as attachment?

Eventually resulting in any man who stays long term with a woman ends up becoming a cuck by playing the love vs attachment card:

''you are angry about me talking to Chad#53, so insecure you are, you don't accept me for what I am''
''you are just jealous that I have many male friends, can't do anything that you don't have (female) friends.. it is upto you, something wrong with you maybe?''
''you want me to be around the house all the night? Love is not everything in life! I need to have a life apart from love too!''

Please discuss.

(Personally I am not into any ascending dreams; wizard that I am by age (37). Trying to make sense of the relationship world).

 

[Oroborus]

Women get attached to Chad/thugs, men love

 

[I want to believe]

''you are angry about me talking to Chad#53, so insecure you are, you don't accept me for what I am''
''you are just jealous that I have many male friends, can't do anything that you don't have (female) friends.. it is upto you, something wrong with you maybe?''
''you want me to be around the house all the night? Love is not everything in life! I need to have a life apart from love too!''

And if you somehow are able to do the same things (i.e. you're Chad), she'll be upset about that. JFL.
Double standards and hypocrisy, so to speak.

 

[mgtow]

Women get attached to Chad/thugs, men love

Just change the labels: Their attachment to chad is love and therefore he can plunder their pussy every weekend till he gets bored or gets new stock and everything(including ghosting, abandoning) is okay because 'i love him though'. But subhumans wanting their first love is attachment, or even worse: infatuation.

And if you somehow are able to do the same things (i.e. you're Chad), she'll be upset about that. JFL.

Chad never loses (always wins) even if she is upset. He 'makes love' with her to drive away all her upset time.

 

[Oroborus]

Just change the labels: Their attachment to chad is love and therefore he can plunder their pussy every weekend till he gets bored or gets new stock and everything is okay because 'i love him though'. But subhumans wanting their first love is attachment, or even worse: infatuation

Attachment is simpler than love i think, just biological. Love is a male delusion, women don't love

 

[Deleted member 43314]

I’m a still attached to my oneitis it’s been 5 years

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

Love is just an emotion, while attachment is a result of desire. Both are necessary for a functioning relationship between man and woman.

I’m a still attached to my oneitis it’s been 5 years

@faded this man needs immediate emergency escortcel intervention/advice, or else it will lead to roping.

 

[I want to believe]

Chad never loses (always wins) even if she is upset. He 'makes love' with her to drive away all her upset time.

Yeah. But I mean foids are hypocritical. They'll themselves be jealous of their Chads talking to other foids.
I think it's normal to worry that your partner is cheating on you.

 

[Deleted member 43314]

Brutal... did she reject you?

3 times I actually thought she was “playing hard to get” my fuking god how much I was bluepilled back then

 

[turbosperg]

Women are only ever capable of loving their own children (if not ugly males).

Only beta males love women.

Limerance, attachment, passion are mental disorders. Plato used to say this much 2400 years ago. Nothing changed.

 

[Deleted member 43314]

@faded this man needs immediate emergency escortcel intervention/advice, or else it will lead to roping.

Already did since 2019 , they actually made me miss her even more than ever

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

Already did since 2019 , they actually made me miss her even more than ever

I used to have a one-itus once as well. It took more than 5 years for me as well.

 

[Izayacel]

3 times I actually thought she was “playing hard to get” my fuking god how much I was bluepilled back then

 

[Deleted member 43314]

I used to have a one-itus once as well. It took more than 5 years for me as well.

Mine will be forever , no other girl will replace her

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

Mine will be forever , no other girl will replace her

I thought that too as well, but time heals all wounds. It’s hard for us incels because normally a man would just find another woman to full his heart, but for subhumans life will just be full of rejections forever.

 

[subhuman]

I don’t think anyone can be truly selfless. Everybody is self interested, even if they don’t know it or accept it.

 

[mgtow]

Attachment is simpler than love i think, just biological. Love is a male delusion, women don't love

Love as a feeling Vs how it is shaped up by words into an intellectual form.

A chad told me once that a Stacy requested ''please say 'i love you' at least'' before fucking. A lot of coping there using the word love which they can't have the capacity for.

A lot of it is cuckoldry bs tbh.

A lot of room for expansion as the definition of the terms love, attachment keeps expanding. Polyandry and such.

Love is just an emotion, while attachment is a result of desire. Both are necessary for a functioning relationship between man and woman.

What begins as a basic reproduction drive, made too complicated because the western couples don't make kids and progress towards parenting.

Yeah. But I mean foids are hypocritical. They'll themselves be jealous of their Chads talking to other foids.
I think it's normal to worry that your partner is cheating on you.

Securing the source of their oxytocin.

Only beta males love women.

Limerance, attachment, passion are mental disorders. Plato used to say this much 2400 years ago. Nothing changed.

Human doing, loving, to secure the attention and the begging for affections that the alpha don't have to.

Mental disorders because, what isn't obtained easily is valued at a premium, for which the subhumans are misled into working their whole life.

Would you mind sharing the book of Plato that talks about this?

I don’t think anyone can be truly selfless. Everybody is self interested, even if they don’t know it or accept it.

Only those who have a lot can afford to say they don't care about money/sex/etc.

It's a momentary feel good thing of liberation before getting sucked into yet another cycle of life.

 

[Substitute Subhuman]

Mine will be forever , no other girl will replace her

She must have been a negro foid

 

[Deleted member 43314]

She must have been a negro foid

No , u probably into sheboons tho

 

[Substitute Subhuman]

No , u probably into sheboons tho

Was she a white foid?

 

[Copexodius Maximus]

What begins as a basic reproduction drive, made too complicated because the western couples don't make kids and progress towards parenting.

Non-western parents also love one another and think their life is over when their spouse dies.

 

[Loner94]

I don’t think anyone can be truly selfless. Everybody is self interested, even if they don’t know it or accept it.

Indeed every man or woman for him or herself.

 

[LeFrenchCel]

Love and attachment are the same thing imo
I don't have the right to have neither so in the end it doesn't change anything

 

[turbosperg]

Would you mind sharing the book of Plato that talks about this?

Symposium.
That's whence "Platonic love" was defined.