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What's the difference between a guy going a long time without sex and an incel?

The only people we have here are dumbasses who wasted their youth willingly and are now pissy about it.

Look back on your 200,000 posts (you have like 8 years left to reach that) when you hit 30 and what a good use of your time it was.

If anything, it's us oldcels who belong on this forum cuz it's fucking over for us. Age will fuck you over so badly. There will come a time when hot EDIT: ANY halfdecent (3+) woman will reject you on AGE ALONE even if your face isn't horrific.

Are you too ugly for surgery to give you a +2 bump? Which are your top 3 flaws?
I don't remember him getting laid.

OK but hypothetically, you agree that a limbless man now qualifies as incel, even if none of them post on this forum. So you believe that inceldom is a STATE rather than some intrinsic inborn quality.
 
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Holy shit this thread is retarded.

I haven't had sex this decade; if I'm not incel then you should fucking kill yourselves.
 
Look back on your 200,000 posts when you hit 30 and what a good use of your time it was.

If anything, it's us oldcels who belong on this forum cuz it's fucking over for us. Age will fuck you over so badly. There will come a time when hot women reject you on AGE ALONE even if your face isn't horrific.

Are you too ugly for surgery to give you a +2 bump? Which are your top 3 flaws?

Obviously, but age happens to everyone. You can't escape it, everyone ages. It's not something that happens to a select few.

I'll be 30 one day too. But what will I have to show for it? Nothing. These guys at least had SOMETHING in their youth. Something to look back to. Nostalgia, see? What do I have? NOTHING. ZILCH. Just endless misery.

Sure being old sucks, but imagine being getting old without ANYONE GETTING EVEN CLOSE TO SHOWING YOU ANY AFFECTION. That's when it starts getting shit, and that's when I'll bow down and respect you.

And I'm too poor for surgeries. Doctors are practically impossible to find in my country and I don't have a job currently. I'm studying a trade, but that will only likely get me measly minimum wage that would never pay for those surgeries. Eye area surgery is INSANELY expensive and risky.

Plus I'm a manlet at 5'7, underweight, pitiful frame. I legit can't name a single good quality I have, and if you say "your skin" I will personally fucking assassinate you.
 
Obviously, but age happens to everyone. You can't escape it, everyone ages. It's not something that happens to a select few.

I'll be 30 one day too. But what will I have to show for it? Nothing. These guys at least had SOMETHING in their youth. Something to look back to. Nostalgia, see? What do I have? NOTHING. ZILCH. Just endless misery.

Sure being old sucks, but imagine being getting old without ANYONE GETTING EVEN CLOSE TO SHOWING YOU ANY AFFECTION. That's when it starts getting shit, and that's when I'll bow down and respect you.

And I'm too poor for surgeries. Doctors are practically impossible to find in my country and I don't have a job currently. I'm studying a trade, but that will only likely get me measly minimum wage that would never pay for those surgeries. Eye area surgery is INSANELY expensive and risky.

Plus I'm a manlet at 5'7, underweight, pitiful frame. I legit can't name a single good quality I have, and if you say "your skin" I will personally fucking assassinate you.

LOL.

But we have the term TRUECEL for this very reason. I mean if incel means virgin, does truecel mean EVEN-MORE-VIRGINAL? Then what is a LEGIT TRUECEL? Someone who has never been LOOKED at by a woman before? The hair-splitting and levels of precision become ridiculous.

And like I said above, if BO2cel got to 42 and fucked a 48 yo, 2/10 hag once or twice, meanwhile a 7/10 Weed-lookalike here is a virgin, if you would call the Weed-lookalive an incel but not BO2cel, then you would have effectively said that looks don't matter.

Virgin, virgincel, truecel all describe what you're referring to. Why does incel have to be one more synonym for "virgin incel"?
 
Look back on your 200,000 posts (you have like 8 years left to reach that) when you hit 30 and what a good use of your time it was.

If anything, it's us oldcels who belong on this forum cuz it's fucking over for us. Age will fuck you over so badly. There will come a time when hot EDIT: ANY halfdecent (3+) woman will reject you on AGE ALONE even if your face isn't horrific.

Are you too ugly for surgery to give you a +2 bump? Which are your top 3 flaws?


OK but hypothetically, you agree that a limbless man now qualifies as incel, even if none of them post on this forum. So you believe that inceldom is a STATE rather than some intrinsic inborn quality.


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I've said this before but I'll say it again. People under 22 need to gtfo for their own good. And leave us truecel/oldcels here to rot in peace.
 
LOL.

But we have the term TRUECEL for this very reason. I mean if incel means virgin, does truecel mean EVEN-MORE-VIRGINAL? Then what is a LEGIT TRUECEL? Someone who has never been LOOKED at by a woman before? The hair-splitting and levels of precision become ridiculous.

And like I said above, if BO2cel got to 42 and fucked a 48 yo, 2/10 hag once or twice, meanwhile a 7/10 Weed-lookalike here is a virgin, if you would call the Weed-lookalive an incel but not BO2cel, then you would have effectively said that looks don't matter.

Virgin, virgincel, truecel all describe what you're referring to. Why does incel have to be one more synonym for "virgin incel"?

Okay. Give me a site that's SOLELY geared towards virgins and has an active userbase and I'll go there. Wizchan doesn't count because you need to be 30+ to go there.

But guess how many sites there are for guys who have gotten laid? Too many to count.

We want "virgin incel" BECAUSE NO SITES FOR VIRGINS EXIST. THIS IS LITERALLY THE ONLY PLACE WE HAVE. But of COURSE people with an ITCH to feel superior have to come along and act as "alphas".

And your argument doesn't even make sense here : " if BO2cel got to 42 and fucked a 48 yo, 2/10 hag once or twice, meanwhile a 7/10 Weed-lookalike here is a virgin, if you would call the Weed-lookalive an incel but not BO2cel"

Well yeah the definition is in the fucking name. If he's getting sex HE'S NOT AN INCEL. HE IS NOT BEING CELIBATE. It has nothing to do with "looks don't matter" sex is fucking sex, I don't care how you got it. If you've gotten sex, you're not celibate. Time doesn't matter. Nothing else matters. It's just EXCUSES. I've never even said I want Weedoids posting here, where did you get that from?

I want people I can relate to. I can't relate to you, or anyone who has gotten laid.
 
Okay. Give me a site that's SOLELY geared towards virgins and has an active userbase and I'll go there. Wizchan doesn't count because you need to be 30+ to go there.

But guess how many sites there are for guys who have gotten laid? Too many to count.

We want "virgin incel" BECAUSE NO SITES FOR VIRGINS EXIST. THIS IS LITERALLY THE ONLY PLACE WE HAVE. But of COURSE people with an ITCH to feel superior have to come along and act as "alphas".

And your argument doesn't even make sense here : " if BO2cel got to 42 and fucked a 48 yo, 2/10 hag once or twice, meanwhile a 7/10 Weed-lookalike here is a virgin, if you would call the Weed-lookalive an incel but not BO2cel"

Well yeah the definition is in the fucking name. If he's getting sex HE'S NOT AN INCEL. HE IS NOT BEING CELIBATE. It has nothing to do with "looks don't matter" sex is fucking sex, I don't care how you got it. If you've gotten sex, you're not celibate. Time doesn't matter. Nothing else matters. It's just EXCUSES. I've never even said I want Weedoids posting here, where did you get that from?

I want people I can relate to. I can't relate to you, or anyone who has gotten laid.

if this site got rid of all the nonvirgins -- who actually speak about women with a DEGREE of actual experience rather than the blind leading the blind -- then the guys who weren't KISSLESS would be the next hated group. Get rid of them and then those that have had HUGS would be next until you got to "your mum loves you and bought you Xmas presents! Fakecel reee!". If you think that's hyperbole, see the posts where guys here say that if you have FRIENDS, you can't be incel. As if some ugly guy that likes to chill with you makes you fuckable to women.

Why do you not take into account AGE? My youth ended before Tinder was made, before smartphones, etc. Why do you not take into account the likely looks of the woman? e.g. If I have fucked a woman out of desperation that you couldn't get it up for or wouldn't date -- e.g. a 100% Congolese 50 yo granny, 10 years ago -- that makes me no longer a VIRGIN but does that mean I am less incel because my standards are lower?

Why do you not take into account EFFORT. I dare anyone to say I haven't put effort into getting a gf. I will look for my cosmetic surgery bills if need be. Or my flight bookings. Etc.
 
Your friend is indeed an incel but since he has a kid he would never be accepted somewhere like here.

I wonder how many lucky incels with kids there are like him?
 
Incels are virgin by default, if you had sex ever in your life you are not Incel. period.

Well I see many here saying that even if a guy had sex he can still be considered Incel. Well that is a common mistake, because it leads to this: 5 minutes after having sex a guy (normie) can already be considered Incel? If no, why not? A Chad would be Incel every time between his daily fucks? What is the amount of time between sexual relations until one can be considered Incel? Months, Years, Days?

Every one has a different perception of time. 15 years for someone may be just a short time. 1 day for me may be a maddening experience.

An Incel is virgin by default. He never had sex, that is not normal in today's society. Therefore if he is not normal (normie) he is Incel. Normal is to have sex. But if he only had sex once OR if he only has sex every 10 years that is a failed normality (failed normie).

Do True Forced Lonely guys need to be virgin too?

The guys who think inceldom = virginity happen to be under 25 for the mostpart.

Some of you guys just need a good dictionary.

INCEL means UNWILLINGLY GIRLFRIENDLESS. Nothing more than that. If you think differently then look up the word CELIBATE in any dictionary.

I bet I'm uglier than any of the stimming reeeing autists ITT who think incel = virgin.
 
It was hyperbole, sorry. But the autistic, black-and-white-thinking part is true. There are guys here who think if you have friends, you can't be incel, if you've had sex once in 45 years, you're not incel. This is the very "us vs them" mentally among the younger members here, most of whom haven't really approached women before: "Why should I approach? If they don't approach me then I'm ugly. I don't go out socially but they should cold-approach me in Walmart while I'm picking up Cheetos" - That kind of mentality disregards sexual dimorphism.

Most guys here (esp youngcels) think that a 17 yo kissless virgin who never approached a girl before is more incel than a 45 yo man who got sex in the 90s before Tinder.

Have you ever arrange to meet up with a mentally ill girl out of frustration only for her to reject you?
Have you had blepharoplasty to get rid of eyebags and lower eyelid droopiness?
Are you working a 9-6pm job to pay out of pocket for lower jaw advancement and a genioplasty?

Trust me, I would not have done/be doing these things if I could just do a few appproaches and get a gf.
Yes there are many guys like that. I see many guys in rating mega thread that look way better than normies but are incel. But apart from that, if you could see, women are actually much shallower now than they were in 90's. I would say internet and social media uprising are causes, but guess what things have been going worse since the start of 20th century continuously. Many guys here are incels solely because of feminists and not their autism. But yeah I understand your point, there are some 15 yo- 16 yo introvert children here who already think it's over for them.
Tbh I never saw a mentally ill girl. All the girl I've known were very shallow and degenerate. Idk how things were in 90's but these days most women just look at physical attributes and agree to sex. Was it possible in 90's for an 18 yo ordinary girl to have slept with 100 guys, or a 14 yo girl already becoming a mother? I don't think so. But this is not very uncommon now. As a man, when I see this level of degeneracy then it compels me to hate them. This is simply why I don't talk to women. Would you call that autism?
So, you've never tried cosmetic surgery yourself but think that others should in order to get a girlfriend. LOL
I'm in last year of university atm. I don't think I need major facial changes. My face is fine. However I'll go for height increasing surgery once I'm able to save that much. But not to impress women, but to receive a higher social status in present shallow society.
 
Said guy had the sexual cinematic experience at least once.

We never will.
 
I don't remember him getting laid.
if you count a hand job from a religious christian girl being laid. Then, technically I was laid before I lost my arm.
 

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