Discussion What's the best way to get over a oneitis?

[Deleted member 22571]

This adorable blonde, blue eyed tomboy foid at my job has been on my mind 24/7 for the past 2 months. I can't stop thinking about her.

I keep imagining these scenarios in my head of us doing romantic stuff like kissing, hugging, holding hands, fucking, and going on dates together.

But the more I think about her, the more depressed I get because I know that I will never have her, and these scenarios in my head will never happen, but I can't stop.

Please help.

 

[VindalooCell]

Just remember she is a whore who would humiliate you to get a chad.

 

[Quarantined]

go on tinder/tiktok/instagram
then you'll hate women
unless your chad

 

[Deleted member 22571]

Just remember she is a whore who would humiliate you to get a chad.

I used to do this, but it doesn't work anymore. She literally has a tallfag Chad-lite boyfriend and she probably swallows his cum on the daily, but my mind seems to conviently block that part out of my brain.

 

[crestfallencel]

imagine her getting spitroasted by countless chads, it will kill her innocence in your mind and you will become disgusted by the thought of her

 

[Deleted member 22571]

go on tinder/tiktok/instagram
then you'll hate women
unless your chad

This doesn't work because my brain keeps telling me "she's not like that" even though she's exactly like that.

imagine her getting spitroasted by countless chads, it will kill her innocence in your mind and you will become disgusted by the thought of her

I did this before but it only works temporarily because whenever I go back to work and she puts on a fake smile and says hi to me, I instantly fall in love again. It's like a cycle that I can't break out of cause I lack the will power.

 

[tiredofthisshit]

ask her out, get denied

 

[Quarantined]

This doesn't work because my brain keeps telling me "she's not like that" even though she's exactly like that.

Youngcel trait

 

[Deleted member 22571]

ask her out, get denied

Hmmm this is some high IQ advice right here. I don't know why I didn't think of that. Time to humiliate myself tomorrow, wish me luck.

 

[TINMAN]

Can't relate, so I any advice I give probably isn't that good.

Maybe try to avoid her when you're at work. When you do have to be around her, stop looking at her and pretend she doesn't exist.

Most likely after a while of not seeing her you won't think about her as much.

 

[Deleted member 22571]

Youngcel trait

Well I'm 20, I'm still a little young

Maybe try to avoid her when you're at work. When you do have to be around her, stop looking at her and pretend she doesn't exist.

Most likely after a while of not seeing her you won't think about her as much.

I already do this as much as possible, but since she's the manager she always has to talk to me at least twice a day as part of her job. Unfortunately, that's all it takes for me to be put under her spell again

 

[Uglyme]

Think that one day she will be dead

 

[Deleted member 31630]

just dont have any false delusions about who she really is. You probably havent even talked to her and are making up her reality in your head. I made the same mistake with my oneitis. Its hard, but u have to face reality and learn that she is a whore that hates your face

 

[carnivalofrust]

I wouldn’t ask her out if she’s your manager, that could cause problems down the line. Hope there’s relief for you soon

 

[dirtykombatcel]

Focus on any negative trait of her you see and amplify it in your head, also never forget her shit still stinks she isn't some unicorn.

 

[Ellsworth]

I have not idea tbh. Likely not possible.

 

[Studiocel]

Ive said this before, oneitis is like a virus. Chad can build an immunity because he has other girls but incels are a high risk group and the only way to stop it is to quarentine.