Most incels would cherish and adore their hypothetical girlfriends. We would be legitimately grateful towards any women willing to look passed our failos. We would appreciate them for making our lives worth living. After waiting so long for a relationship, most of us would be too afraid to upset our girlfriends. And due to our lack of options, it's not like we would even be able to cheat on them.
A dehydrated man in a desert would value a bottle of water far more than a man with access to tap water. The same principle applies to incels and relationships.
