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What would happen if I ask the girl at my job out?

Fucking brutal man :fuk: :blackpill:
There I have it :feelscry: confirmation. But no worries, I know the truth hurts.

Here's the thing, I know it may seem tempting. It's even possible she'll be polite to you directly to your face. But in the background she's plotting to get you fired 100%.

She's not into you, she never will be. You have oneitis and you need to acknowledge it now. Because if you don't you will inevitably ask her out and it's going to end badly for you and then you'll feel even worse at the end.

I'm not trying to diss you or take away your freedom of choice, ultimately it's up to you. I'm just speaking from experience that it will only lead to more misery. Don't say I didn't warn you.
I appreciate your effort bro! I will not do it. I didn't take it as a diss at all. All I really wanted was confirmation to not do it. I have a bigger oneitis who doesn't even know me, I just really like her looks. Funnily enough, in both situations, the odds are zero.
 
Why risk your job over some hoe
 
I appreciate your effort bro! I will not do it. I didn't take it as a diss at all. All I really wanted was confirmation to not do it. I have a bigger oneitis who doesn't even know me, I just really like her looks. Funnily enough, in both situations, the odds are zero.
No problem, that's good that you didnt take it as a diss.
IT will say 'but muh crabs in a bucket mentality"

What they don't understand however is that we are real life gollums. It's not like we are shy guys that are like 5/10 in looks overall. We are literal human trash in the eyes of foids. Nay we are literally invisible to them.

They will never understand this. There used to be ugly laws in some countries that prohibited people like us from even walking the fucking streets. and this was not even less than a 100 years ago (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ugly_law)

There's a world of difference between living life as a normie male and an incel.
 
Fired for workplace misconduct or something
 
No problem, that's good that you didnt take it as a diss.
IT will say 'but muh crabs in a bucket mentality"
:feelsYall::yes:

What they don't understand however is that we are real life gollums. It's not like we are shy guys that are like 5/10 in looks overall. We are literal human trash in the eyes of foids. Nay we are literally invisible to them.

They will never understand this. There used to be ugly laws in some countries that prohibited people like us from even walking the fucking streets. and this was not even less than a 100 years ago (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ugly_law)
Insanity!

There's a world of difference between living life as a normie male and an incel.
Exactly. (I'm sorry I don't have more to say. But I do agree with you. Here you see how boring I am, and I'm much more boring IRL, not that it would make a difference!)
 
Exactly. (I'm sorry I don't have more to say. But I do agree with you. Here you see how boring I am, and I'm much more boring IRL, not that it would
You're fine, I don't think you're boring to be honest. and you seem like a genuine guy too.

But foids don't care about personality unfortunately, and even if they did just a little bit. They don't even give us the chance to talk to them face to face. Because we're too unattractive.

So fuck em'
 
you may lose your job, if she feels even remotely scared of you, it's already over. any thing you try to do she will perceive as the worst and report you. be very careful
This. Women have no qualms with ruining your career if you're not Chad
 
In the worst-case scenario, you could face charges of sexual harassment. NEVER do anything like that at work!
 
You’re getting reported to HR immediately after, no ifs, ands, or buts.
Ugh susan v0 xceblbdky3ez
 
Even as a normie looking dude, you'll get cooked alive for approaching, and that's not even accounting for hitting on a girl in the workforce.

Better to just keep it to yourself and not do anything besides your job.
 
if you do plan on hitting on her, start applying for other jobs while you still have a job and still have good standing with the office. instead of hitting on her from the getgo, make her laugh first to see if she warms up to you
 
Nothing good will come from that, forget about it. Unless this foid starts talking to you more, outside of basic hellos and goodbyes, there's no interest there.
 
You know what will happen.

1000052059
 
Brutal thing is, I'm 99% sure she whispered something to another employee that I scare her. Maybe even that I'm ugly.
If she said this, then that is already a crystal clear sign that the answer is no. Don't risk it, especially since it could possibly affect your job.
 
Never a good idea to approach through job tbh
 
You may as well try Woflie, although be prepared for what comes after.
 
Even as a normie looking dude, you'll get cooked alive for approaching, and that's not even accounting for hitting on a girl in the workforce.

Better to just keep it to yourself and not do anything besides your job.
Brutal, but true of course. I won't try, I never really planned to, it is just quite tempting as I would and did never download dating apps, and don't go to bars, cities or clubs and approach random girls. But, I will with 99,9999999% certainty (1 in 1 billion) be rejected, and the "no" will hurt me more than just the rejection itself. Winning the lottery has around 6x better chance of happening btw, if not more. It might as well be zero.
 
In the worst-case scenario, you could face charges of sexual harassment. NEVER do anything like that at work!
I won't, it was always a silly idea and I knew it. I don't have, never had and never will have any dating apps, or approach girls. It was just that it was almost auf dem Silbertablett serviert but in reality trying to "eat" what's on it would mir das Genick brechen.
 
Brutal, but true of course. I won't try, I never really planned to, it is just quite tempting as I would and did never download dating apps, and don't go to bars, cities or clubs and approach random girls. But, I will with 99,9999999% certainty (1 in 1 billion) be rejected, and the "no" will hurt me more than just the rejection itself. Winning the lottery has around 6x better chance of happening btw, if not more. It might as well be zero.
You would've unironically been in a better situation if you won lottery than with a foid anyways. At least with money you could do LL and maybe even some plastic surgery for you to at least get treated slightly, even if by miniscule, better than right now.

If she's not attracted to you by nature, which is impossible as a deformed short dude, it's practically over. I know it hurts, but it would've hurt more had you approached her and had to deal with the false accusations.
 
You would've unironically been in a better situation if you won lottery than with a foid anyways. At least with money you could do LL and maybe even some plastic surgery for you to at least get treated slightly, even if by miniscule, less badly than right now.
True! Smart thinking. Though I'd just use the money to cope. I've talked to 6 surgeons in 3 countries over the last 5 years (one by Zoom, because he's in the US). Even with very expensive surgery, which I can't afford anyway, my face can't really be improved. And even if I grew by 3 inches I'd still be short. I'd just stop working if I won millions. Hire prostitutes but that's really not what I want.
 
I won't, it was always a silly idea and I knew it. I don't have, never had and never will have any dating apps, or approach girls. It was just that it was almost auf dem Silbertablett serviert but in reality trying to "eat" what's on it would mir das Genick brechen.
Man scheißt nicht dort, wo man frisst.
Versuch es von mir aus an jeglichen anderen Orten, aber nicht am Arbeitsplatz. Das haben schon viele Normies getan und selbst die sind dabei in Teufels Küche geraten.
 
Man scheißt nicht dort, wo man frisst.
Versuch es von mir aus an jeglichen anderen Orten, aber nicht am Arbeitsplatz. Das haben schon viele Normies getan und selbst die sind dabei in Teufels Küche geraten.
Stimmt. Aber ich werde es nie und nirgends versuchen.
 
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Stimmt. Aber bitte versteh' mich nicht falsch, ich werde es nie und nirgends versuchen.
So wie zahlreiche Menschen auf Dich reagieren, ist das wohl die logische Konsequenz.
Ich wünschte mir, wir würden in einer anderen Welt leben, in der innere Werte mehr Bedeutung haben..
 
So wie zahlreiche Menschen auf Dich reagieren, ist das wohl die logische Konsequenz.
Ich wünschte mir, wir würden in einer anderen Welt leben, in der innere Werte mehr Bedeutung haben..
:feelsthink::feelsbadman::yes:
 
There are 9 employees at the office (very small place) I have my internship in for 3 weeks now (officially it runs until the end of the year), I'm the second youngest by far. She must be around 21-25, most likely in the 22-23 range. I'm 29. She is not a "model", but far from ugly. Very hard to explain, I rarely see such unclear examples of looks. I think most women/girls are ugly, but not her. She's not "beautiful" though just kind of attractive. Also, she has a nice body.

I'm 5'4", she's around 5'3-5'4". Brutal thing is, I'm 99% sure she whispered something to another employee that I scare her. Maybe even that I'm ugly. I have extremely good hearing. I was in my office-room, she outside in the kitchen/eating area. But I didn't even do anything or look at her weirdly or anything. Oh wait, I exist.

She does always say a friendly hello and goodbye though, but I won't misinterpret friendliness for attraction. I'm realistic.

If I did ask her she would with 100% certainty reject me and then I'd have to quit the job. It would be too damn awkward to keep working there. And I can't find another job or be bothered to apply. And I have my room rented for a fix 6 months! I have nothing to give, neither a good face nor height and I'm extremely boring.

Even now in my 3 weeks, like always, I behave very strangely. I don't talk, can't look people in the eye, behave very stiffly. So why am I thinking about it? It's ridiculous. I'll never have a chance like this again. The apple is tempting, and I'm hungry. But the apple is poisonous.
i dont see the point in asking her out of youre already sure she is scared of you .. just keep it moving !
 
You'd be fired buddy boyo
 
If you ask her out or something, you are stupid af.

Foids at work are absolutely off limits. Not even Chad should fuck around like that.

Never even try to start a relationship with a co-worker foid.
Even if you succeed in getting into one, the fallout once it ends will ruin your life at work.

Do not do this.

Also, the way you describe yourself, you are simply a virgin.
The whole being stiffly, not being able to look people in the eyes etc. .

You ABSOLUTELY need to go and fuck a few hookers.

I am not joking, man. Save up some money and do it.

Even if you will stay an incel forever, at keast experience sex.
Don't kiss em though. That is disgusting.

But you need sex. It will change you, make you relaxed around people. It is a milestone of its own.

I know this. Believe me, it has improved my life and is worth the investment.

Loose the fear from sex with a woman. Fuck a couple of whores and then you will be absolutely relaxed around foids and people in general.
he's not 6'2 like you
 
There are 9 employees at the office (very small place) I have my internship in for 3 weeks now (officially it runs until the end of the year), I'm the second youngest by far. She must be around 21-25, most likely in the 22-23 range. I'm 29. She is not a "model", but far from ugly. Very hard to explain, I rarely see such unclear examples of looks. I think most women/girls are ugly, but not her. She's not "beautiful" though just kind of attractive. Also, she has a nice body.

I'm 5'4", she's around 5'3-5'4". Brutal thing is, I'm 99% sure she whispered something to another employee that I scare her. Maybe even that I'm ugly. I have extremely good hearing. I was in my office-room, she outside in the kitchen/eating area. But I didn't even do anything or look at her weirdly or anything. Oh wait, I exist.

She does always say a friendly hello and goodbye though, but I won't misinterpret friendliness for attraction. I'm realistic.

If I did ask her she would with 100% certainty reject me and then I'd have to quit the job. It would be too damn awkward to keep working there. And I can't find another job or be bothered to apply. And I have my room rented for a fix 6 months! I have nothing to give, neither a good face nor height and I'm extremely boring.

Even now in my 3 weeks, like always, I behave very strangely. I don't talk, can't look people in the eye, behave very stiffly. So why am I thinking about it? It's ridiculous. I'll never have a chance like this again. The apple is tempting, and I'm hungry. But the apple is poisonous.
Don’t even think about it bro

Just put your head down
 
I'm 29 and never had a job. I need it mostly for my CV. My parents help me out with the apartment/room during the week and food. It's also quite comfortable job and a huge plus it's it's very small. But either way, with my looks and behavior, there is practically zero odds she would say yes. I am 5'4", but worse than that, I'm very ugly and behave in a very autistic way, sometimes also childish but not on purpose. I also stutter and speaking haltingly. I have this job only because my parents know the boss.


That is brutal, and that is exactly what I think will happen in my situation. You directly asked her out for a drink, or to be your gf, or how did it go?


Ok, got it.
Stay blackpilled and self aware bro

Rn foids just pity you because ur an autist incel

They absolutely DO NOT LIKE YOU. Don’t get deluded and end up putting yourself in trouble
 
Stay blackpilled and self aware bro

Rn foids just pity you because ur an autist incel

They absolutely DO NOT LIKE YOU. Don’t get deluded and end up putting yourself in trouble
This is the truth 100%,and I know it. Even that I considered it, is ridiculous. I shudder when I think about the aftermath of me asking her out in my extremely halting, stuttering way of speaking, sometimes making involuntary facial expressions.
 
This is the truth 100%,and I know it. Even that I considered it, is ridiculous. I shudder when I think about the aftermath of me asking her out in my extremely halting, stuttering way of speaking, sometimes making involuntary facial expressions.
Exactly you don’t want it to happen
 
Wtf does that have to do with anything I've said you ignorant fool?
@TheGrayWolf might be rejected by s whore, depends on how bad his facial deformity is
 
She is probably gagging on high tier normies cock as you posted this.
 
They’ll fire your ass if you try to ask her out. Sad truth
 
The last thing you need is a sexual harassment claim getting you terminated at work, as HR will instantly wash their hands of you the moment the accusation is made no matter how baseless because an allegation like that makes the accused instantly radioactive in the eyes of the company.

Plus, something like that could also follow you at future jobs when employers are looking at your employment history.
 
The last thing you need is a sexual harassment claim getting you terminated at work, as HR will instantly wash their hands of you the moment the accusation is made no matter how baseless because an allegation like that makes the accused instantly radioactive in the eyes of the company.

Plus, something like that could also follow you at future jobs when employers are looking at your employment history.
Brutal. But tbh, I'd never have asked her anyway, as I knew with virtually 100% certainty she would say no. And I have never asked a girl before, I can barely form a sentence due to my speech impediment.
 
Brutal. But tbh, I'd never have asked her anyway, as I knew with virtually 100% certainty she would say no. And I have never asked a girl before, I can barely form a sentence due to my speech impediment.
Being highly-inhibited is a wise strategy for people in our situation. As bad as that is, it can get so much worse if we stepped out of line. :feelsbadman:
 
Being highly-inhibited is a wise strategy for people in our situation. As bad as that is, it can get so much worse if we stepped out of line. :feelsbadman:
:yes::feelscry:
 
Go for it, What do you have to lose?
 
Did you ask her? What happened?
 
Did you ask her? What happened?
Nah, and I won't. As a 5'4", deformed autist, I don't see a way. It will be very awkward for the rest of the year (my contract expires then), if she says no.
I have better odds of winning the lottery. She doesn't seem to like me, no surprise there. I also can barely form a sentence when talking to people, I'm always very nervous.
Do you agree I shouldn't ask?
 
I know so did you ask her and if so, what happened?
Wait, sorry for the misunderstanding. I meant this question "Do you agree I shouldn't ask?" in my reply to you:

Nah, and I won't. As a 5'4", deformed autist, I don't see a way. It will be very awkward for the rest of the year (my contract expires then), if she says no.
I have better odds of winning the lottery. She doesn't seem to like me, no surprise there. I also can barely form a sentence when talking to people, I'm always very nervous.
Do you agree I shouldn't ask?
 

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