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What would happen if I ask the girl at my job out?

The Wolf

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There are 9 employees at the office (very small place) I have my internship in for 3 weeks now (officially it runs until the end of the year), I'm the second youngest by far. She must be around 21-25, most likely in the 22-23 range. I'm 29. She is not a "model", but far from ugly. Very hard to explain, I rarely see such unclear examples of looks. I think most women/girls are ugly, but not her. She's not "beautiful" though just kind of attractive. Also, she has a nice body.

I'm 5'4", she's around 5'3-5'4". Brutal thing is, I'm 99% sure she whispered something to another employee that I scare her. Maybe even that I'm ugly. I have extremely good hearing. I was in my office-room, she outside in the kitchen/eating area. But I didn't even do anything or look at her weirdly or anything. Oh wait, I exist.

She does always say a friendly hello and goodbye though, but I won't misinterpret friendliness for attraction. I'm realistic.

If I did ask her she would with 100% certainty reject me and then I'd have to quit the job. It would be too damn awkward to keep working there. And I can't find another job or be bothered to apply. And I have my room rented for a fix 6 months! I have nothing to give, neither a good face nor height and I'm extremely boring.

Even now in my 3 weeks, like always, I behave very strangely. I don't talk, can't look people in the eye, behave very stiffly. So why am I thinking about it? It's ridiculous. I'll never have a chance like this again. The apple is tempting, and I'm hungry. But the apple is poisonous.
 
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You’re getting reported to HR immediately after, no ifs, ands, or buts.
 
you may lose your job, if she feels even remotely scared of you, it's already over. any thing you try to do she will perceive as the worst and report you. be very careful
 
You'd probably get fired bro
 
I would not do it. Work is work. Leave it that. You want to keep the job to pay your roof over the head.
 
Caulfields_Goat said:
I would not do it. Work is work. Leave it that. You want to keep the job to pay your roof over the head.
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I will not, but it's extremely tempting, given I'll never have a chance like this again. I will never go on dating apps, I never go to any clubs or bars. The internship isn't well paid, I need financial assistance from my parents for room and food. I'm doing the internship for my CV. The doctors say I am autistic, I think that is why I am so behind. But it is quite "cozy", also I just have the job because my parents know the boss.
 
Nothing good will come from that, forget about it. Unless this foid starts talking to you more, outside of basic hellos and goodbyes, there's no interest there.
 
Pancakecel said:
Nothing good will come from that, forget about it. Unless this foid starts talking to you more, outside of basic hellos and goodbyes, there's no interest there.
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To add on what pancake said, don’t speak to no foids unless spoken to first.
 
TheGrayWolf said:
HR is just 1 single person (a woman who is quite nice to me)
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Still, you shouldn’t take the risk. Do the work, mind your business, get paid. Nothing more, nothing less,
 
Pancakecel said:
Nothing good will come from that, forget about it. Unless this foid starts talking to you more, outside of basic hellos and goodbyes, there's no interest there.
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Thank you, I appreciate the reaffirmation.
 
TheGrayWolf said:
I will not, but it's extremely tempting, given I'll never have a chance like this again. I will never go on dating apps, I never go to any clubs or bars. The internship isn't well paid, I need financial assistance from my parents for room and food. I'm doing the internship for my CV. The doctors say I am autistic, I think that is why I am so behind. But it is quite "cozy", also I just have the job because my parents know the boss.
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I get it. Keep it the way it is. It may be tempting, but work is work. Keep it. It is not going to end good. Just Chads can get away with work relationships.
 
Sugar Cookie said:
To add on what pancake said, don’t speak to no foids unless spoken to first.
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Sugar Cookie said:
Still, you shouldn’t take the risk. Do the work, mind your business, get paid. Nothing more, nothing less,
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Yeah, that's objectively logical. Also the risk is so great (at least 99.9999% without exaggeration), you are correct.
 
Caulfields_Goat said:
I get it. Keep it the way it is. It may be tempting, but work is work. Keep it. It is not going to end good. Just Chads can get away with work relationships.
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Ok :feelsbadman: thank you.
 
subindian said:
you may lose your job, if she feels even remotely scared of you, it's already over. any thing you try to do she will perceive as the worst and report you. be very careful
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yeah dude it aint no game when it involves coworkers, especially when u know ur sub5, be careful twin
 
TheGrayWolf said:
There are 9 employees at the office (very small place) I have my internship in for 3 weeks now (officially it runs until the end of the year), I'm the second youngest by far. She must be around 21-25, most likely in the 22-23 range. I'm 29. She is not a "model", but far from ugly. Very hard to explain, I rarely see such unclear examples of looks. I think most women/girls are ugly, but not her. She's not "beautiful" though just kind of attractive. Also, she has a nice body.

I'm 5'4", she's around 5'3-5'4". Brutal thing is, I'm 99% sure she whispered something to another employee that I scare her. Maybe even that I'm ugly. I have extremely good hearing. I was in my office-room, she outside in the kitchen/eating area. But I didn't even do anything or look at her weirdly or anything. Oh wait, I exist.

She does always say a friendly hello and goodbye though, but I won't misinterpret friendliness for attraction. I'm realistic.

If I did ask her she would with 100% certainty reject me and then I'd have to quit the job. It would be too damn awkward to keep working there. And I can't find another job or be bothered to apply. And I have my room rented for a fix 6 months! I have nothing to give, neither a good face nor height and I'm extremely boring.

Even now in my 3 weeks, like always, I behave very strangely. I don't talk, can't look people in the eye, behave very stiffly. So why am I thinking about it? It's ridiculous. I'll never have a chance like this again. The apple is tempting, and I'm hungry. But the apple is poisonous.
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dont
 
Nxcrocxl said:
yeah dude it aint no game when it involves coworkers, especially when u know ur sub5, be careful twin
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:feelsbadman: I never stood a chance anyway, I might as well run for president, the odds are about the same.
 
Pancakecel said:
You can always try just striking up a conversation with her, and see how she reacts.
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Good idea. There is just 1 problem. If I am even slightly nervous, I start stuttering and stumbling over my words. I fucking hate myself. But yeah, I really see no reason why she would like me. My looks and mannerisms are both strange.
 
If you ask her out or something, you are stupid af.

Foids at work are absolutely off limits. Not even Chad should fuck around like that.

Never even try to start a relationship with a co-worker foid.
Even if you succeed in getting into one, the fallout once it ends will ruin your life at work.

Do not do this.

Also, the way you describe yourself, you are simply a virgin.
The whole being stiffly, not being able to look people in the eyes etc. .

You ABSOLUTELY need to go and fuck a few hookers.

I am not joking, man. Save up some money and do it.

Even if you will stay an incel forever, at keast experience sex.
Don't kiss em though. That is disgusting.

But you need sex. It will change you, make you relaxed around people. It is a milestone of its own.

I know this. Believe me, it has improved my life and is worth the investment.

Loose the fear from sex with a woman. Fuck a couple of whores and then you will be absolutely relaxed around foids and people in general.
 
Not worth the risk.
 
TooSomething said:
If you ask her out or something, you are stupid af.

Foids at work are absolutely off limits. Not even Chad should fuck around like that.

Never even try to start a relationship with a co-worker foid.
Even if you succeed in getting into one, the fallout once it ends will ruin your life at work.

Do not do this.

Also, the way you describe yourself, you are simply a virgin.
The whole being stiffly, not being able to look people in the eyes etc. .

You ABSOLUTELY need to go and fuck a few hookers.

I am not joking, man. Save up some money and do it.

Even if you will stay an incel forever, at keast experience sex.
Don't kiss em though. That is disgusting.

But you need sex. It will change you, make you relaxed around people. It is a milestone of its own.

I know this. Believe me, it has improved my life and is worth the investment.

Loose the fear from sex with a woman. Fuck a couple of whores and then you will be absolutely relaxed around foids and people in general.
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Ok thanks bro for the reply. Before I fuck hookers - and this isn't an excuse - I really need to start working out and increase my stamina, I have absolutely zero energy or endurance. I am also 29, which I regret that I did not start sooner, but I can't change that. So that would be an excuse. Also my arms are skinny like tree branches so to be more self assured I need to increase muscles. Then in summer or autumn I fuck a prostitute.
For anyone, grays, thinking of reporting me. It is legal in most of Europe.
 
TheGrayWolf said:
There are 9 employees at the office (very small place) I have my internship in for 3 weeks now (officially it runs until the end of the year), I'm the second youngest by far. She must be around 21-25, most likely in the 22-23 range. I'm 29. She is not a "model", but far from ugly. Very hard to explain, I rarely see such unclear examples of looks. I think most women/girls are ugly, but not her. She's not "beautiful" though just kind of attractive. Also, she has a nice body.

I'm 5'4", she's around 5'3-5'4". Brutal thing is, I'm 99% sure she whispered something to another employee that I scare her. Maybe even that I'm ugly. I have extremely good hearing. I was in my office-room, she outside in the kitchen/eating area. But I didn't even do anything or look at her weirdly or anything. Oh wait, I exist.

She does always say a friendly hello and goodbye though, but I won't misinterpret friendliness for attraction. I'm realistic.

If I did ask her she would with 100% certainty reject me and then I'd have to quit the job. It would be too damn awkward to keep working there. And I can't find another job or be bothered to apply. And I have my room rented for a fix 6 months! I have nothing to give, neither a good face nor height and I'm extremely boring.

Even now in my 3 weeks, like always, I behave very strangely. I don't talk, can't look people in the eye, behave very stiffly. So why am I thinking about it? It's ridiculous. I'll never have a chance like this again. The apple is tempting, and I'm hungry. But the apple is poisonous.
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You would get fired on the spot by your boss and humiliated.
 
TheGrayWolf said:
There are 9 employees at the office (very small place) I have my internship in for 3 weeks now (officially it runs until the end of the year), I'm the second youngest by far. She must be around 21-25, most likely in the 22-23 range. I'm 29. She is not a "model", but far from ugly. Very hard to explain, I rarely see such unclear examples of looks. I think most women/girls are ugly, but not her. She's not "beautiful" though just kind of attractive. Also, she has a nice body.

I'm 5'4", she's around 5'3-5'4". Brutal thing is, I'm 99% sure she whispered something to another employee that I scare her. Maybe even that I'm ugly. I have extremely good hearing. I was in my office-room, she outside in the kitchen/eating area. But I didn't even do anything or look at her weirdly or anything. Oh wait, I exist.

She does always say a friendly hello and goodbye though, but I won't misinterpret friendliness for attraction. I'm realistic.

If I did ask her she would with 100% certainty reject me and then I'd have to quit the job. It would be too damn awkward to keep working there. And I can't find another job or be bothered to apply. And I have my room rented for a fix 6 months! I have nothing to give, neither a good face nor height and I'm extremely boring.

Even now in my 3 weeks, like always, I behave very strangely. I don't talk, can't look people in the eye, behave very stiffly. So why am I thinking about it? It's ridiculous. I'll never have a chance like this again. The apple is tempting, and I'm hungry. But the apple is poisonous.
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Don't do it.
 
TheGrayWolf said:
:feelsbadman: I never stood a chance anyway, I might as well run for president, the odds are about the same.
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As inkwell, Youre more likely to win a DTM race than ascend btw
 
shemar moore swat GIF by CBS
 
they will send a squad of zogbots to exterminate yo ass
 
TheGrayWolf said:
wowww. So that is my new goal!
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Cars and Motorsports = S tier cope (As long as it isnt F1 aero train that sounds like shit and also lose speed on straights nor EVs :feelspuke:)
 
Well, it just depends on your money situation.

Do you need the money from your internship to pay your bills?

I once asked a foid out from work.
She said no.
I had to leave the job because shit got pretty damn awkward.

But, I didn’t need the money at the time.

Just don’t ever risk ending up homeless is my advice.
 
Feeshtu said:
Well, it just depends on your money situation.

Do you need the money from your internship to pay your bills?
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I'm 29 and never had a job. I need it mostly for my CV. My parents help me out with the apartment/room during the week and food. It's also quite comfortable job and a huge plus it's it's very small. But either way, with my looks and behavior, there is practically zero odds she would say yes. I am 5'4", but worse than that, I'm very ugly and behave in a very autistic way, sometimes also childish but not on purpose. I also stutter and speaking haltingly. I have this job only because my parents know the boss.

Feeshtu said:
I once asked a foid out from work.
She said no.
I had to leave the job because shit got pretty damn awkward.
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That is brutal, and that is exactly what I think will happen in my situation. You directly asked her out for a drink, or to be your gf, or how did it go?

Feeshtu said:
But, I didn’t need the money at the time.

Just don’t ever risk ending up homeless is my advice.
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Ok, got it.
 
WastedPotential said:
Don't even bother..
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I know. But believe it or not, my face is an even bigger hindrance than my height. I'd have better odds being 5'4 and chad face instead of 6'3 and my face. I have no facial bones, am deformed, and don't look clearly like a man. Even typing this out hurts me, as it confirms the brutal reality.
 
Here's the thing, I know it may seem tempting. It's even possible she'll be polite to you directly to your face. But in the background she's plotting to get you fired 100%.

She's not into you, she never will be. You have oneitis and you need to acknowledge it now. Because if you don't you will inevitably ask her out and it's going to end badly for you and then you'll feel even worse at the end.

I'm not trying to diss you or take away your freedom of choice, ultimately it's up to you. I'm just speaking from experience that it will only lead to more misery. Don't say I didn't warn you.
 
TheGrayWolf said:
I know. But believe it or not, my face is an even bigger hindrance than my height. I'd have better odds being 5'4 and chad face instead of 6'3 and my face. I have no facial bones, am deformed, and don't look clearly like a man. Even typing this out hurts me, as it confirms the brutal reality.
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Fucking brutal man :fuk: :blackpill:
 
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