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what to do about retardation?

The Bickler

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im mute in real life, besides from saying things like 'yes' and 'no'.. as such ive never had any friends.. i cant talk online either, its really hard, pretty much impossible for me to come up with anything to say on forums. my mind runs too slow to read or understand what people are saying. can i fix this? should i rope?
 
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how do i cope until a new medication comes along
Like the rest of us, you find copes that make you happy and distract you from the brutal harshness of reality.
 
CantEscapeYourFate

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Like the rest of us, you find copes that make you happy and distract you from the brutal harshness of reality.
This is the best advice you'll get.
 
turbosperg

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how do i cope until a new medication comes along
Doctors, as a rule, won't help you.

Seek for off-label solutions... injectable suramin, for instance, has positive research in alleviating symptoms of autism.

It's a challenge to get.
 
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Try Phenibut
 
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BoywithEarring

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still haven't figured that out myself
i slur my words and talk really fast so most of the time people have to ask me to repeat myself
there's nothing you can do but get used to it.
 
Robb97

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Same here. Although I score high on iq tests and I've studied hard topics. In Jungian psychoanalysis it's called introverted thinking, which is dominant in my case. It's great for figuring things out on your own, but it's not fast enough in most conversations. People with very high introverted thinking can appear low energy, they have a monotone voice and almost no facial expressions.
 
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im mute in real life, besides from saying things like 'yes' and 'no'.. as such ive never had any friends.. i cant talk online either, its really hard, pretty much impossible for me to come up with anything to say on forums. my mind runs too slow to read or understand what people are saying. can i fix this? should i rope?
You can’t you need to either not be ugly or nt to fix it
 
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How old are you? When I was much younger (I'm 43 now) I too had considerable and debilitating social impediments which constructively prevented me from functionally engaging with anyone around me besides my parents. I have always suspected that I am arrayed somewhere along the autism spectrum but over the course of many years and through a disciplined and concerted exposure to versatile social venues (mostly via my work experiences) I have slowly acquired a level of comfortability and verbal fluency that is actually far superior to the vast majority of normies I encounter. I would suggest that you consider getting tested for autism spectrum disorder, Asperger's, or a learning disability and then being at least afforded the sort of safeguards that exist to ensure that someone such as you receives proper accommodations in work, school and life.
 
CopeHarderNow

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just unretard
 
The Bickler

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How old are you? When I was much younger (I'm 43 now) I too had considerable and debilitating social impediments which constructively prevented me from functionally engaging with anyone around me besides my parents. I have always suspected that I am arrayed somewhere along the autism spectrum but over the course of many years and through a disciplined and concerted exposure to versatile social venues (mostly via my work experiences) I have slowly acquired a level of comfortability and verbal fluency that is actually far superior to the vast majority of normies I encounter. I would suggest that you consider getting tested for autism spectrum disorder, Asperger's, or a learning disability and then being at least afforded the sort of safeguards that exist to ensure that someone such as you receives proper accommodations in work, school and life.
i got diagnosed with autism when i was very very young so im not sure about the accuracy, but if anything that diagnosis just gave my mum an excuse to be shittier to me and label me as a psychopath. i am still young but my brain has done developing so it might be over
 
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my mind runs too slow to read or understand what people are saying.
try to glow more and practice communicating more with simple topics. I think you're just missing the routine. Get that crazy ass out of yourself. This is a kind of liberation from suppressed aggression. Then you will also enjoy communication because you will increasingly no longer care how others react to it. You write and read because you enjoy it and at some point you also have the energy for more serious conversations.
 
Darth_Aurelius

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i got diagnosed with autism when i was very very young so im not sure about the accuracy, but if anything that diagnosis just gave my mum an excuse to be shittier to me and label me as a psychopath. i am still young but my brain has done developing so it might be over
It is not over for you my young Padawan merely because your brain has stopped developing. I can tell you this from both anecdotal experience as well as from my knowledge of neural physiology and the mechanics of neural plasticity (the capacity that the brain has to assimilate and process information thereby learning). I acquired the overwhlmingly vast majority of my insights, knowledge, verbal fluence and general functional intelligence much later in life and mostly throughout my early and mid-20's. I would have considered myself to have been in the lower 25th percentile in terms of the distribution of intelligence when I had been in high school and particularly before that time. But, through the cultivation of my mind, exposure to a rigorous academic curriculum (I attended and graduated from law school here in the US which is genuinely very hard to do) and by applying my mind on a regular basis through immersion in the study of case law, philosophy and history, I have enhanced my functional IQ and now consider myself to be more intelligent that probably 98% of the people I encounter in life. The lesson here is that you can acquire human intelligence or at least the sort of functional skill sets that enable you to successfully and indiscernibly emulate someone who has been endowed with natural intelligence. Likewise, most of this can be achieved through independent study and by just taking the time to engage your mind with intellectually enriching material such as great works of literature that can be found online for free (try Project Gutenberg) or YouTube videos featuring public intellectuals debating one another.
 

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