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rickvanderhammer

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how am i supposed to change my situation when im a khv in my 20's 6k student debt and not a cent in my bank account? i cant even get a minimum wage job at mcdonalds and they cut my benefit i dont have a single fucking friend. what the fuck am i supposed to do?? i need a solution asap. what the fuck am i supposed to do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
Take care of your appearance, stop masturbating, eat healthy food, exercise and stick to a routine. These might help to discipline you and look at least presentable. Other than that, all you can do is apply to jobs like a madman, ask for help from your parents and family, to see if they can get a job for you.

It's helping me and might help you, but you need to let go of shit habits first, like masturbation, shit diet and lack of exercise. Also, if vidya or anime is holding you back, you should stop until you got your shit sorted out. Escapist media put us on a comfortable enough position where we don't have the will to do anything, that's why they should be consumed in moderation.

Anyway, good luck my man, I hope some bs I wrote actually helps you and you escape the pits of depression like I once did.
 
anon_899 said:
Take care of your appearance, stop masturbating, eat healthy food, exercise and stick to a routine. These might help to discipline you and look at least presentable. Other than that, all you can do is apply to jobs like a madman, ask for help from your parents and family, to see if they can get a job for you.

It's helping me and might help you, but you need to let go of shit habits first, like masturbation, shit diet and lack of exercise. Also, if vidya or anime is holding you back, you should stop until you got your shit sorted out. Escapist media put us on a comfortable enough position where we don't have the will to do anything, that's why they should be consumed in moderation.

Anyway, good luck my man, I hope some bs I wrote actually helps you and you escape the pits of depression like I once did.

Nice Normie advice
 
Tellem--T said:
Nice Normie advice

the part about exercise and routine/structure does help, IME.
 
Tellem--T said:
Nice Normie advice

And what do you recommend? It's either that, win the lottery or do what everyone here will do at some point, get the rope and sui. I would like you to suggest a better solution. I suggest something that worked with both me and some of the people I know. If you deem anything other than the rope as "normie advice" then just kill yourself already, if OP is desperate enough to create a thread asking for help, he obviously want to live.
 
anon_899 said:
And what do you recommend? It's either that, win the lottery or do what everyone here will do at some point, get the rope and sui. I would like you to suggest a better solution. I suggest something that worked with both me and some of the people I know. If you deem anything other than the rope as "normie advice" then just kill yourself already, if OP is desperate enough to create a thread asking for help, he obviously want to live.

He can cope with islam
 
Just lol at 6k student debt as being worrisome. Fucking lol
 
Become an African warlord like Joseph Kony and rule an army of child soldiers.
 
if it makes u feel better op i have 60k student debt
 
There's nothing to do if you're ugly.
 
Rope so the debt becomes the lender's problem.
 
anon_899 said:
Take care of your appearance, stop masturbating, eat healthy food, exercise and stick to a routine. These might help to discipline you and look at least presentable. Other than that, all you can do is apply to jobs like a madman, ask for help from your parents and family, to see if they can get a job for you.
It's helping me and might help you, but you need to let go of shit habits first, like masturbation, shit diet and lack of exercise. Also, if vidya or anime is holding you back, you should stop until you got your shit sorted out. Escapist media put us on a comfortable enough position where we don't have the will to do anything, that's why they should be consumed in moderation.
Anyway, good luck my man, I hope some bs I wrote actually helps you and you escape the pits of depression like I once did.

I agree with all of this except nofap strategy. Unless he is like this guy:

A guy is getting an exam and the doctor says "Bill you're going to have to stop masturbating.
The guy says "What? Why?"
The doctor says "So I can finish examining you"


Rójj said:

thats what weak ass bitch like you would do. Dont drag others down with you, asshole!
 
>take gun
>choose target(s), make plan
>do what you were always destined to do
 
EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEAAAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRR
 
Get a decent job and hire hookers, if you want love buy a dog.


anon_899 said:
Take care of your appearance, stop masturbating, eat healthy food, exercise and stick to a routine. These might help to discipline you and look at least presentable. Other than that, all you can do is apply to jobs like a madman, ask for help from your parents and family, to see if they can get a job for you.
It's helping me and might help you, but you need to let go of shit habits first, like masturbation, shit diet and lack of exercise. Also, if vidya or anime is holding you back, you should stop until you got your shit sorted out. Escapist media put us on a comfortable enough position where we don't have the will to do anything, that's why they should be consumed in moderation.
Anyway, good luck my man, I hope some bs I wrote actually helps you and you escape the pits of depression like I once did.
AAAAAAAAAAAAND another no-faper delusional giving shitty advice, go back to r/foreveralone dude

the only real cope is to train like a MF, and thats only a cope, not a real solution
 
Do nofap. Your sexual frustration will turn into motivation.
 
RealestFakecel said:
Get a decent job and hire hookers, if you want love buy a dog.


AAAAAAAAAAAAND another no-faper delusional giving shitty advice, go back to r/foreveralone dude

the only real cope is to train like a MF, and thats only a cope, not a real solution

You tell me I gave shitty advice while your advice is actually part of what I recommended, as I said "[font=Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif]exercise and stick to a routine". You're a fucking whiny faggot. NoFap/LowFap/NoPorn works, it doesn't give you magical powers but it sure helps you with your porn addiction. If you think incels.is is a place to tell everyone to give up and sui you're wrong, while I agree an incel should give up on women if he believe he won't manage to get a gf, I also agree we should try to improve the other aspects of our lives, since not everyone can neetbux their way into life and actually need to have a job to survive and enjoy their hobbies, which is a big part of an incel life.[/font]

[font=Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif]If you think everything is a cope and just want to eat shitty food and masturbate all day, do it, but don't try to bring other people down with you. We're still men and we want to do our shit, you're just a whiny bitch looking for excuses to not do anything.[/font]


Leaguecell said:
I agree with all of this except nofap strategy. Unless he is like this guy:

A guy is getting an exam and the doctor says "Bill you're going to have to stop masturbating.
The guy says "What? Why?"
The doctor says "So I can finish examining you"

Yes you don't need to be radical and just stop masturbating all together, but when you do it 2 or 3 time a day watching porn it's not beneficial.
 
anon_899 said:
Yes you don't need to be radical and just stop masturbating all together, but when you do it 2 or 3 time a day watching porn it's not beneficial.

Right. Solid advice overall tho.
 
RealestFakecel said:
Get a decent job and hire hookers, if you want love buy a dog.


AAAAAAAAAAAAND another no-faper delusional giving shitty advice, go back to r/foreveralone dude

the only real cope is to train like a MF, and thats only a cope, not a real solution
Uh he actually gave good advice
 
anon_899 said:
RealestFakecel said:
Get a decent job and hire hookers, if you want love buy a dog.
AAAAAAAAAAAAND another no-faper delusional giving shitty advice, go back to r/foreveralone dude
the only real cope is to train like a MF, and thats only a cope, not a real solution
You tell me I gave shitty advice while your advice is actually part of what I recommended, as I said "[font=Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif]exercise and stick to a routine". You're a fucking whiny faggot. NoFap/LowFap/NoPorn works, it doesn't give you magical powers but it sure helps you with your porn addiction. If you think incels.is is a place to tell everyone to give up and sui you're wrong, while I agree an incel should give up on women if he believe he won't manage to get a gf, I also agree we should try to improve the other aspects of our lives, since not everyone can neetbux their way into life and actually need to have a job to survive and enjoy their hobbies, which is a big part of an incel life.[/font]
[font=Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif]If you think everything is a cope and just want to eat shitty food and masturbate all day, do it, but don't try to bring other people down with you. We're still men and we want to do our shit, you're just a whiny bitch looking for excuses to not do anything.[/font]


Leaguecell said:
I agree with all of this except nofap strategy. Unless he is like this guy:
A guy is getting an exam and the doctor says "Bill you're going to have to stop masturbating.
The guy says "What? Why?"
The doctor says "So I can finish examining you"
Yes you don't need to be radical and just stop masturbating all together, but when you do it 2 or 3 time a day watching porn it's not beneficial.


nofap only helps with real real real lowT dudes, highT incels NEEDS fap
 
RREEEEEEEEE said:
Do nofap. Your sexual frustration will turn into motivation.

No it won't. It'll have the complete opposite effect.
 
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anon_899 said:
You tell me I gave shitty advice while your advice is actually part of what I recommended, as I said "[font=Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif]exercise and stick to a routine". You're a fucking whiny faggot. NoFap/LowFap/NoPorn works,[/font]

None of those false hopes work for anything. I don't see how they would. Your advice would induce more suicidal tendencies in me than I already have.
 
that's what you get for hating Jake Paul..

but tbh I cant get a job too, so fokken hard just lol
 
ATOMIC ACE PUGG said:
Uh he actually gave good advice

No he didn't.


anon_899 said:
[font=Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif]If you think everything is a cope and just want to eat shitty food and masturbate all day, do it, but don't try to bring other people down with you. We're still men and we want to do our shit, you're just a whiny bitch looking for excuses to not do anything.[/font]

Your bluepilled ""advice"" makes me want to vomit. 

We aren't still men. I man would carry on his genes. And you're a whiny bitch looking for excuses to do anything!
 
Kointo said:
No it won't. It'll have the complete opposite effect.

Depends on the person because people respond differently to it.Some people get a huge dopamine desensitization from fapping which can have a huge impact on other aspects of life.

Fapping 1-2 a week is probably the best solution. Not fapping can cause frustration and fapping to much with porn causes the problem that I mentioned earlier
 
Kointo said:
No he didn't.



Your bluepilled ""advice"" makes me want to vomit. 

We aren't still men. I man would carry on his genes. And you're a whiny bitch looking for excuses to do anything!



Don't let them get to you. They're just imbeciles
 
jackbud said:
I don't know OP. I'm trying to figure it out myself.

I have fantasies about a potential future for myself, and part of me wants to start striving towards it, but another part of me wants to succumb to my ER urges and become a legend. It's hard man. I fluctuate between extreme highs and extreme lows, feeling like I'm gonna make it one minute, and getting ready to end my life the next. I don't know what the fuck to do

Sounds like you are bipolar, it's common for bipolar people to have mood swings like that. This may be bluepill advice, but seek professional help if you can. A doctor may be able to prescribe you lithium which is used as a mood stabilizing drug in bipolar.
 
jackbud said:
I don't know OP. I'm trying to figure it out myself.

I have fantasies about a potential future for myself, and part of me wants to start striving towards it, but another part of me wants to succumb to my ER urges and become a legend. It's hard man. I fluctuate between extreme highs and extreme lows, feeling like I'm gonna make it one minute, and getting ready to end my life the next. I don't know what the fuck to do

ER but do it right kill the stacies and chads
 
rickvanderhammer said:
how am i supposed to change my situation when im a khv in my 20's 6k student debt and not a cent in my bank account? i cant even get a minimum wage job at mcdonalds and they cut my benefit i dont have a single fucking friend. what the fuck am i supposed to do?? i need a solution asap. what the fuck am i supposed to do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Become the next Charles Ponzi and go down in history.
 
Kointo said:
None of those false hopes work for anything. I don't see how they would. Your advice would induce more suicidal tendencies in me than I already have.

Did you even tried it for an actual lenght of time? Saying it doesn't work without providing any actual counter argument is eomthing a woman would do. Also, offense is not given, is taken, if you get suicidal because of my advice, that's your problem not mine.
 
Damn, you have it worse than me. I get paid to go to school, so no debt for me; I will get my shitty degree and GTFO of that hellhole. At least the government does one thing right.
 
Kointo said:
Your bluepilled ""advice"" makes me want to vomit. 

We aren't still men. I man would carry on his genes. And you're a whiny bitch looking for excuses to do anything!

We would carry our genes if our society wasn't sick, if you feel the need to emasculate yourself do it, but don't take other people with you. I am an incel who lost hope in getting a gf, a wife or a family, but I still want to better myself so I can think I did the best I could before I die, so I can die at peace. You think you're deserving of life without struggle because Chad and Stacy didn't had any struggle you're wrong, 99% of men in all history are meant to live a bad life, it was always like this and it will always be, once you accept that you can actually work towards something meaningful in your life. I like my hobbies and I like being alone, so I'll do my best to fulfil both.

Idk man, it's just this incel "it's over" ideoligy that gets on my nerves sometimes, yes it's over if our only goal in life is to get a gf, but your main goal shouldn't be that, should be to better yourself as a man.
 
anon_899 said:
We would carry our genes if our society wasn't sick, if you feel the need to emasculate yourself do it, but don't take other people with you.

I have no choice in the matter.


anon_899 said:
You think you're deserving of life without struggle because Chad and Stacy didn't had any struggle you're wrong

Nothing deserves anything, it's just simply envy.


anon_899 said:
once you accept that you can actually work towards something meaningful in your life. I like my hobbies and I like being alone, so I'll do my best to fulfil both.

Nothing is actually meaningful.


anon_899 said:
Idk man, it's just this incel "it's over" ideoligy that gets on my nerves sometimes, yes it's over if our only goal in life is to get a gf, but your main goal shouldn't be that, should be to better yourself as a man.

There's no point in doing any of these fruitless activities. You will die and cease to perceive anything. You won't have the capacity to care about how you bettered yourself when you're rotting 6 feet under.
 
Kointo said:
I have no choice in the matter.



Nothing deserves anything, it's just simply envy.



Nothing is actually meaningful.




Since nothing matters and you're just envious, what's stopping you from actually pursuing something? Maybe you want to leave your parents house and learn programming like I want to, or you just want to LDAR at peace without feeling depressed all the time, bang escorts or any other shit, as long you aren't crippled there is things to be achieved in life. Your nihilism seems like an excuse for being lazy.
 
rickvanderhammer said:
how am i supposed to change my situation when im a khv in my 20's 6k student debt and not a cent in my bank account? i cant even get a minimum wage job at mcdonalds and they cut my benefit i dont have a single fucking friend. what the fuck am i supposed to do?? i need a solution asap. what the fuck am i supposed to do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

be good looking
 
Kointo said:
There's no point in doing any of these fruitless activities. You will die and cease to perceive anything. You won't have the capacity to care about how you bettered yourself when you're rotting 6 feet under.

Yes, but it will happen in 40ish years from now, I have 40 years to survive here unless I decide to sui, and there's things I enjoy here to make me want to stay for at least a decade.
 
anon_899 said:
Since nothing matters and you're just envious, what's stopping you from actually pursuing something?

Because it's a worthless struggle.


anon_899 said:
Your nihilism seems like an excuse for being lazy.

Laziness is an effect of nihilism.


anon_899 said:
Yes, but it will happen in 40ish years from now, I have 40 years to survive here unless I decide to sui, and there's things I enjoy here to make me want to stay for at least a decade.

But everything you do will be forgotten.
 
Kointo said:
Because it's a worthless struggle.



Laziness is an effect of nihilism.



But everything you do will be forgotten.




Wants stopping you from killing yourself then? Survival instinct? Fear? Do you want to live in fear of killing yourself or actually do something? As I said in previous posts, as long you aren't crippled you can do something. No, laziness is an effect of staying in a comfort zone, nihilism can be interpreted like a half full or half empty glass of water. And everything Chad does will be forgotten too, no one will remember his name a thousand years from now, and so it will be with 99% of the human population.
 
anon_899 said:
Wants stopping you from killing yourself then? Survival instinct? Fear? 

Both.


anon_899 said:
 And everything Chad does will be forgotten too, no one will remember his name a thousand years from now, and so it will be with 99% of the human population.

Of course. Every human is equally worthless, but Chad is blissfully ignorant to the world around him. He does not indulge in such thoughts.
 
Kointo said:
Both.



Of course. Every human is equally worthless, but Chad is blissfully ignorant to the world around him. He does not indulge in such thoughts.



Are you implying we're actually superior than chad because we think about how meaningless is life? JFL@ you, you sound like a 14 year old that just got rejected. Also, if you think incels have a higher thought of any kind because of our condition, you already see there is meaning in something.
 
anon_899 said:
We would carry our genes if our society wasn't sick, if you feel the need to emasculate yourself do it, but don't take other people with you. I am an incel who lost hope in getting a gf, a wife or a family, but I still want to better myself so I can think I did the best I could before I die, so I can die at peace. You think you're deserving of life without struggle because Chad and Stacy didn't had any struggle you're wrong, 99% of men in all history are meant to live a bad life, it was always like this and it will always be, once you accept that you can actually work towards something meaningful in your life. I like my hobbies and I like being alone, so I'll do my best to fulfil both.

Idk man, it's just this incel "it's over" ideoligy that gets on my nerves sometimes, yes it's over if our only goal in life is to get a gf, but your main goal shouldn't be that, should be to better yourself as a man.

Holy shit, just shut the fuck up. You're not wise, quit spewing your garbage advice. Every man should live for themselves.
 

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