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What school of thought are you?


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It’s an interesting subject. :feelshehe:
 
Women are so used to getting approached by hundreds of men that they will never approach. But they will drop hints to chad (smile, small talk etc) to indicate interest
 
I usually start by showing them my dick
(I take the first move)
 
Women are so used to getting approached by hundreds of men that they will never approach. But they will drop hints to chad (smile, small talk etc) to indicate interest
Yeah which leaves me conflicted on which option to vote, you still have to do most of the work in the interaction but they could have "approached" you under the guise of small talk or whatever so technically you did not cold approach

Foids do not approach in the typical sense though almost never
 
The second option is only applicable to Chad.
 
I work with a Chadlite, and the first time I saw my bitch of a manager smile was at him on his first day at work.
She finds every opportunity to interact with him and touch him. Daily fucking ropefuel
 
women don't really approach. they'll drop hints to let you know they like you, and you lead the way.
 
I don’t know that these two are mutually exclusive enough. Not that they need to be I guess. But I don’t really believe either is true.
 
I don't like dichotomies like this. It's often muddled. For instance, it's likely that women will walk up to a Chad yet that Chad will also walk up to women.
What I really think is that if you're Chad then you wouldn't even worry about this kind of stuff.
But if I had to pick one, it would be the second option. Even though if you're not a chad and approach a woman you're going to get told to fuck off if not laughed at
 
I've seen it happen, girls would throw themselves at my best friend at the time. It's really depressing to be around unless you've already accepted your faith. Weirdly enough he ended up with a pretty ugly girl in the end.
 
I picked the first one but with the caveat that the word “approach” isn’t entirely accurate. Sure sometimes she will, but most often she will drop hints or give off other indicators of interest and leave it to him to approach.
 
Women are looking for top genetics to pass on to their offspring, so they can't control themselves around chad and even approach him, something they don't do for 99 percent of men
 
If you’re avERage/below-avERage looking as a Man, you will need an above-avERage/significantly above avERage salary in order to compensate for your looks.
 
Approaching a woman in the past was fine but now you could be charged with rape. The only way anyone should approach a woman now is if she is alone, and in a position where you can strangle her to death when she starts screaming
 
If a girl wants to fuck you she'll make it easy for you so basically approaching but women are cringe so they wont approach directly
 
Women approach men they want.
If they don't approach you, they don't want you, it's over.
 
I picked the first one but with the caveat that the word “approach” isn’t entirely accurate. Sure sometimes she will, but most often she will drop hints or give off other indicators of interest and leave it to him to approach.
Honestly the poll is a false dichotomy.
 
You’ll know if a woman likes you. She does all the work, she will try her best to hang out with you, she’ll find out ways to try to get you to touch her whether it’s leaning too close, “accidently”bumping into you, her foot always touching yours etc.
 
I used to believe 2. But the last part is too extreme. PUAs pushed persistence way too hard. Don't persist, bail on the first non-yes. Because getting shot down doesn't just happen there, she will say very nasty things behind your back afterward, and you won't find out for weeks, months, or even years.

Now, I think 2 is the natural truth for our species, but since the west is a gynocracy, 1 is currently true. I had read that 20 years ago in Germany, this was the standard. Men would make eye contact with women and wait for the women to approach. I thought this was cucked. Now I understand, the social consequences were too extreme for the man to assume the risk, and there was no risk for the woman. That's how it is here now too.
 
Foids can and do approach, but IMO they won't always do that

It's because they generally go most of their lives without having to do it, so it's not always a modus operandi they're used to

Chad will still usually approach in most cases, but since he's received positive reinforcement from soyciety he will do that without hesitation. Foids approaching Chads happens, but it's not guaranteed, so I think that 'always' is overstating the matter

That said, approaching as a subhuman is ropefuel, so not recommended
 
I don’t think you would even have to analyze all this if a foid is genuinely attracted to you. It would just sort of happen. If you approach it will be made easier for you as you walk up/text/call you’d be given so many clear signals that it’s hard to mess up. There is no real barrier that you would have to break through.
 
Women never approach here in Finland. Maybe gigachads
 
Only small portion of women will approach men and usually most attractive men. Lol at the numbers. All the incels coping.
 
Picked 1 just because seeing those approaches IRL is truly brutal when you're an incel who will never experience it, but others have a point in the poll being a bit too limited.

Women approach men they want.
If they don't approach you, they don't want you, it's over.
Honestly the poll is a false dichotomy.
 
A lot of women don't directly approach, and when they do, it is only for the gigachads.

If a foid likes you, she will be like an annoying fly buzzing around you.
 
Women are so used to getting approached by hundreds of men that they will never approach. But they will drop hints to chad (smile, small talk etc) to indicate interest
this is how you get arrested. it's super easy to develop erotomania especially if you are an inkwell that obsessively looks for IOIs.
reminder - women approach chad and they make it really fucking obvious. if it isn't obvious, she isn't into you
 
women will do anything for chad but it’s up to subchads (even chadlites in some cases) to make the first move so they can become oofy doofies
 
  • If a man is attractive a woman will always approach him first. It’s over if this never happens.​

this is mostly true.
the only caveat is if you can get a lots of repeated exposure to a woman, she might decide to show some sign of interest eventually, some tension might build up. etc.

however you will probably not have this because normies love to very carefully curate their socialization. basically as soon as 6th grade you will need a very good reason, to be at the same hangout or party or sleepover as the other kids, and if you don't have it, you will be all alone.
this will never change later and you will always need a very good reason for people to bother having you around.

  • It’s up to you as a man to approach a woman first and force her to accept or reject you.​

this is mostly not true simply because women have too many tools to deal with you trying to "force" them to do anything.

obviously you can approach them, but if you approach in a decent way by being nice and hinting at your intentions, they will act totally ignorant and like they have no idea what you mean.
this lasts until you go over the top in making your intentions obvious, at which point they declare you are creepy and overbearing, and that they're scared of you now.

thye know very well how to make approaches from unremarkable males completely pointless and lacking in any reward. they know how to create a chilling effect that makes unremarkable males not approach.
 
I've seen women approach many times, they usually approach in normal enviroments such as work or school while men usually go full retard at bars, parties, raves etc
 
If you’re avERage/below-avERage looking as a Man, you will need an above-avERage/significantly above avERage salary in order to compensate for your looks.
It's ovER
 

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