This is very hard to define, because it's not purely genetic. And looking trustworthy can mean different things in different contexts. For example, a meek asian man looks more trustworthy than a slick Italian-looking man if I were to hire them as an accountant. Yet you'd rather trust a white man to be a firefighter over an indian man. For the sake of inceldom lets keep this theorizing limited to looking trustworthy within the context of romance.
1. I think the most foundational aspect of looking trustworthy is NOT looking like a pedophile. Just watch TCAP if you want a general sense of what a pedo looks like. Just typing this, actually makes me backtrack a bit on JBW, because most pedos are white. But they are specifically pasty-white. Just unfit either overweight or skinnyfat. They wear glasses, and have a glazed over post-nut haze of frequent masturbation. A lot of pedos are also indian. They drive Honda fits or civics. Bad jawlines. They have a poor sense of fashion. Their hands tremble from anxiety and a poor diet. Short pedo fingers. Poor posture. Many don goatees. Asymmetry. Poor skull shapes. A lot of pedophiles wear polo shirts with an undershirt, or shirts that have a stripe in the middle. I think the 3 biggest takeaways of not looking like a pedophile:
Don't be pasty-levels of white
Don't be overweight
Don't wear glasses
2. Somebody trustworthy looks middle class. They don't look like an upper-class C-suite exec, or a fucking bum. They just look like they probably had experiences you could relate to, because most people are middle class. It's better to be upper middle class than lower middle class. Like be the kind of guy that lived a lower middle class experience that now has an slightly above middle class lifestyle. Being on the better end of middle class means you drive a car better than a PEDO Honda. You can spend money decent well fitted clothes from Urban Outfitters or something, not ill-fitting garbage from the sale rack at Marshalls. They look like they shower at least 2 to 3 times a week, and are fit enough not to look like a pedophile. This is also where white people have an advantage. Being middle class looking means you are less likely to get pulled over by the police. If you are black, it doesn't matter why kind of care you're driving, you are more likely to get pulled over.
3.Somebody trustworthy looking has a good relationship with animals, and can be near children without looking like a pedophile. If you can take care of a dog, and that dog looks happy as you are walking it, that says a lot about your ability to take care of something at a basic level. If you can be near children without getting dirty looks, that means you know females in some way, and they trust you. This is where asians get fucked over, since they look like they eat dogs and bats. They inherently seem like untrustworthy coronavirus spreaders.
4. Looking trustworthy is not all genetics, or clothes. Somebody trustworthy behaves in a non-desperate way. Anxiety is contagious. So knock it off. On the other end, if you are overly dressed and talk in an artificial salesmany way, it can seem like all you care about is status.
5. A trustworthy person is also consistent. They don't need to act heightened to one person, and then slovenly to another. They are the same person relaxing privately at home, as they are speaking to a crowd.
6. A trustworthy looking person has no secrets. They are less likely to be tech-skilled, they are the kind of person that gets something out of nature, and aren't glued to their computer all day. They don't have porn to hide, or secret bank accounts. Because they have no secrets, they are naturally more relaxed, and aren't looking over their shoulder to avoid embarrassment.
7. A trustworthy person can get loose. They have the ability to dance in a basic way that does not draw attention to itself. They are neither straightedge or a raging addict. Just somebody that goes with the flow and doesn't overdo it at parties.
These are my takeaways on what makes a dude seem trustworthy in a dating context. And it does not debunk the blackpill whatsoever, because most incels either naturally look like pedophiles, or are non-white.
1. I think the most foundational aspect of looking trustworthy is NOT looking like a pedophile. Just watch TCAP if you want a general sense of what a pedo looks like. Just typing this, actually makes me backtrack a bit on JBW, because most pedos are white. But they are specifically pasty-white. Just unfit either overweight or skinnyfat. They wear glasses, and have a glazed over post-nut haze of frequent masturbation. A lot of pedos are also indian. They drive Honda fits or civics. Bad jawlines. They have a poor sense of fashion. Their hands tremble from anxiety and a poor diet. Short pedo fingers. Poor posture. Many don goatees. Asymmetry. Poor skull shapes. A lot of pedophiles wear polo shirts with an undershirt, or shirts that have a stripe in the middle. I think the 3 biggest takeaways of not looking like a pedophile:
Don't be pasty-levels of white
Don't be overweight
Don't wear glasses
2. Somebody trustworthy looks middle class. They don't look like an upper-class C-suite exec, or a fucking bum. They just look like they probably had experiences you could relate to, because most people are middle class. It's better to be upper middle class than lower middle class. Like be the kind of guy that lived a lower middle class experience that now has an slightly above middle class lifestyle. Being on the better end of middle class means you drive a car better than a PEDO Honda. You can spend money decent well fitted clothes from Urban Outfitters or something, not ill-fitting garbage from the sale rack at Marshalls. They look like they shower at least 2 to 3 times a week, and are fit enough not to look like a pedophile. This is also where white people have an advantage. Being middle class looking means you are less likely to get pulled over by the police. If you are black, it doesn't matter why kind of care you're driving, you are more likely to get pulled over.
3.Somebody trustworthy looking has a good relationship with animals, and can be near children without looking like a pedophile. If you can take care of a dog, and that dog looks happy as you are walking it, that says a lot about your ability to take care of something at a basic level. If you can be near children without getting dirty looks, that means you know females in some way, and they trust you. This is where asians get fucked over, since they look like they eat dogs and bats. They inherently seem like untrustworthy coronavirus spreaders.
4. Looking trustworthy is not all genetics, or clothes. Somebody trustworthy behaves in a non-desperate way. Anxiety is contagious. So knock it off. On the other end, if you are overly dressed and talk in an artificial salesmany way, it can seem like all you care about is status.
5. A trustworthy person is also consistent. They don't need to act heightened to one person, and then slovenly to another. They are the same person relaxing privately at home, as they are speaking to a crowd.
6. A trustworthy looking person has no secrets. They are less likely to be tech-skilled, they are the kind of person that gets something out of nature, and aren't glued to their computer all day. They don't have porn to hide, or secret bank accounts. Because they have no secrets, they are naturally more relaxed, and aren't looking over their shoulder to avoid embarrassment.
7. A trustworthy person can get loose. They have the ability to dance in a basic way that does not draw attention to itself. They are neither straightedge or a raging addict. Just somebody that goes with the flow and doesn't overdo it at parties.
These are my takeaways on what makes a dude seem trustworthy in a dating context. And it does not debunk the blackpill whatsoever, because most incels either naturally look like pedophiles, or are non-white.
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